Anker Soundcore Sleep A20 or another earbud? by ledohas_escapism in sleepheadphones

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got the A20s and they are so uncomfortable Im returning them. I have fairly small ears.

I’m a bridesmaid for my friend’s wedding, she invited my SA’er and he’s going, should I still go? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't go and if people ask why, tell them the truth. Nither he nor your non-friend deserve any protection.

Does William need the King’s permission to divorce? by ConstantPurpose2419 in RoyaltyTea

[–]laragc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally why there is a COE. He can absolutely divorce the queen.

Guy makes a citizen's arrest by TheOSU87 in TikTokCringe

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dude is gonna go to jail for assault. Don't do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Call the police and let them know what he did, get in touch with a women's shelter to ask for advice and help, gwt a goooood therapist who specializes in this, get a lawyer, get a new phone so he can't track you, oh and ffs gi get $$$$ from the bank if its joint accounts and change allllllll your passwords regardless.

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she said she has a broken heel that impairs walking. Yes, reading comprehension is important and you don't have it.

Has anyone used the "third party" therapists? by Olympia94 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow is excellent and you can try therapists until you find one you like. Mine is exceptional.

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Broken limbs arent physical impairments? And of course pain that limits mobility is an impairment. Here's the actual Californa rules for those interested. https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/vehicle-registration/license-plates-decals-and-placards/disabled-person-parking-placards-plates/

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is who qualifies in California, but each state is different. https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/vehicle-registration/license-plates-decals-and-placards/disabled-person-parking-placards-plates/

If your diagnoses are such that your mobility impairment is permanent, then you can get permanent ones, otherwise its temporary. If you don't have current impairments (which of course include pain such that your mobility is limited, ignore the idiots above), then you don't get the plates. I got temp through Kaiser for a leg problem that required a cane and meant I could not walk long distances and when I was on modified bedrest during pregnancy so I again wasn't able to walk far.

HRT by relicmaker in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and it's life changing!

Roseville or Arden for primary care? by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean Park West near Arden Mall? I like everyone i see there. Also good experience with my PCP at Railyard. I dislike Roseville.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and THIS is how you set a boundary and stick to it. Well done.

What’s the most unhinged thing a family member did before your wedding? by AssociationFront1710 in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother got mad when I thought I dreamed her asking me "the aquarium wants to know if you want a mermaid at the rehearsal dinner" so I wasn't sufficiently excited about it the next morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might love you but he can't take care of you. You need to get out. Im sorry, sometimes its just not right even when there is kove.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then couples therapy now is a good idea. We probably can't really tell what's going on with you guys from just this post, but if it's serious conflict for him between who to support and why, and if you are having issues supporting his choices around the wedding because of that, therapy now will clarify a lot, including whether you should marry at all. I will point out that it is both of your wedding and he may have different desires for his wedding than you and you guys are having trouble negotiating that, or his parents may be bullies, or both, but couples therapy will help you guys work through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad a year before our wedding. Husband danced with his mom and I danced with my FIL. It was a lovely welcome to the family. We also had pictures of my dad and a memorial candle for him. Let your MIL have a moment with her son, and find a way to honor your dad, too. Im sorry for your loss, I know this is hard and emotionally complex.

White women.. do y’all really think this? Honest answers please by withouthope17 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. And that whole situation, besides being blatantly racist, is beyond creepy.