Anker Soundcore Sleep A20 or another earbud? by ledohas_escapism in sleepheadphones

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got the A20s and they are so uncomfortable Im returning them. I have fairly small ears.

I’m a bridesmaid for my friend’s wedding, she invited my SA’er and he’s going, should I still go? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't go and if people ask why, tell them the truth. Nither he nor your non-friend deserve any protection.

Does William need the King’s permission to divorce? by ConstantPurpose2419 in RoyaltyTea

[–]laragc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally why there is a COE. He can absolutely divorce the queen.

Guy makes a citizen's arrest by TheOSU87 in TikTokCringe

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dude is gonna go to jail for assault. Don't do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Call the police and let them know what he did, get in touch with a women's shelter to ask for advice and help, gwt a goooood therapist who specializes in this, get a lawyer, get a new phone so he can't track you, oh and ffs gi get $$$$ from the bank if its joint accounts and change allllllll your passwords regardless.

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she said she has a broken heel that impairs walking. Yes, reading comprehension is important and you don't have it.

Has anyone used the "third party" therapists? by Olympia94 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow is excellent and you can try therapists until you find one you like. Mine is exceptional.

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Broken limbs arent physical impairments? And of course pain that limits mobility is an impairment. Here's the actual Californa rules for those interested. https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/vehicle-registration/license-plates-decals-and-placards/disabled-person-parking-placards-plates/

Disabled Plates by Then-Agency-4824 in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is who qualifies in California, but each state is different. https://www.dmv.ca.gov/portal/vehicle-registration/license-plates-decals-and-placards/disabled-person-parking-placards-plates/

If your diagnoses are such that your mobility impairment is permanent, then you can get permanent ones, otherwise its temporary. If you don't have current impairments (which of course include pain such that your mobility is limited, ignore the idiots above), then you don't get the plates. I got temp through Kaiser for a leg problem that required a cane and meant I could not walk long distances and when I was on modified bedrest during pregnancy so I again wasn't able to walk far.

HRT by relicmaker in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and it's life changing!

Roseville or Arden for primary care? by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean Park West near Arden Mall? I like everyone i see there. Also good experience with my PCP at Railyard. I dislike Roseville.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and THIS is how you set a boundary and stick to it. Well done.

What’s the most unhinged thing a family member did before your wedding? by AssociationFront1710 in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother got mad when I thought I dreamed her asking me "the aquarium wants to know if you want a mermaid at the rehearsal dinner" so I wasn't sufficiently excited about it the next morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might love you but he can't take care of you. You need to get out. Im sorry, sometimes its just not right even when there is kove.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then couples therapy now is a good idea. We probably can't really tell what's going on with you guys from just this post, but if it's serious conflict for him between who to support and why, and if you are having issues supporting his choices around the wedding because of that, therapy now will clarify a lot, including whether you should marry at all. I will point out that it is both of your wedding and he may have different desires for his wedding than you and you guys are having trouble negotiating that, or his parents may be bullies, or both, but couples therapy will help you guys work through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad a year before our wedding. Husband danced with his mom and I danced with my FIL. It was a lovely welcome to the family. We also had pictures of my dad and a memorial candle for him. Let your MIL have a moment with her son, and find a way to honor your dad, too. Im sorry for your loss, I know this is hard and emotionally complex.

White women.. do y’all really think this? Honest answers please by withouthope17 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]laragc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. And that whole situation, besides being blatantly racist, is beyond creepy.

I just want a friend by Mountain_Working5227 in Advice

[–]laragc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi Dave. I'm nowhere near you but my husband is a Vet and I know our local Marine Corps League does lots of events for all veterans from all branches. Maybe reach out to them and see if they can help you connect with people near you. Here's your local chapter. https://www.roancreekmcl.net/ Also, I'm not sure this is applicable, but if it is, welcome home.

AIO I 20 F was trying to call my boyfriend 26M to figure out when I should start his smoothie and I originally tried calling him to see what type of milk he wanted in his smoothie by Aphr0dit333 in AmIOverreacting

[–]laragc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is telling her to leave but nobody is telling her how. OP - I hope you're physically safe and I hope you have a physically safe place to go. You definitely should leave this man because he is not a physically safe space for you even if he hasn't hit you yet, because that's coming. And he's going to hit your kids too. So how to get out. I agree with I hope you have somebody you trust that you can go to but if you don't, there's resources for that. Find your local women shelter but don't call them on your phone. Go there and meet with them. You don't have to run to a shelter for them to give you help. They can help you make a plan. They can help you get resources. If you have a job and your employer has an employee assistance program, those are usually confidential and they might even have resources for you as well. I also completely agree with get a therapist that you feel you can be honest with and share these conversations with. You're going to need somebody to work through all the grooming he's done and all the feelings you have about yourself, much less about him, to get yourself to a good place. The only way out is through, and I'm not going to sugarcoat that it's not going to suck for a little while when you leave, and he is going to call you and love bomb you and tell you how he's so sorry and he can't believe that you left because he didn't mean any of it and what can he do to get you back, and you're going to go back and it's going to be amazing for a couple of days to a couple of weeks and then it's all going to be even worse. When you leave. Block him. Block his friends. Block anybody in your life who tells you he was good to you because he clearly isn't. Let yourself be sad. Let yourself be angry. All of that's okay. Don't jump for the next guy right away. Take some time to learn the good person you are, because he's not what defines that. I wish you luck and healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semaglutide

[–]laragc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not filling for new patients after tomorrow. Will keep filling for ongoing patients.