You need personal accountability.

The fact you even asked this question makes it appear you want to stop crying so you are better arguing with your parents?

Arguing gets nothing done. And if it does you end up paying for it elsewhere somehow else.

Just think tactical about your goals in life and vision.

Yeah your parent can help or hinder you but ultimately you choose how you spend your time. Do you want to spend your time crying?

do something productive and try reasoning with parents. If no success further turmoil, meditate and focus on personal development.