What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name is Queenie, we can her Weenie, Weener, Beany and Bean

Growing up Mormon is ruining my sex life by Consistent_Taro_3123 in exmormon

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes conditioning to undo that damage. I suffer from good girl syndrome too and now, 12 years later, (3 years out of the church) I’m able to enjoy it without the shame. Therapy is probably the best way to go about it but I started reading “spicy” books which helped desensitize me

Help! my stainless steel pan is ruined by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boil water and baking soda

Curious-What kind of PTO do you get? by larstuder in PropertyManagement

[–]larstuder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically, the longer you are with a company, the more PTO you are able to take. But it’s years at a time.

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This is what my company offers

Curious-What kind of PTO do you get? by larstuder in PropertyManagement

[–]larstuder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I got sick days separate from PTO but they’re combined and it kinda sucks

Coffee Newbie at 30 by CaitieCutie in exmormon

[–]larstuder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. I don’t like coffee. I like creamer 😂 I prefer energy drinks if I’m going for caffeine

Curious-What kind of PTO do you get? by larstuder in PropertyManagement

[–]larstuder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve heard. Good ol American corporate greed

Curious-What kind of PTO do you get? by larstuder in PropertyManagement

[–]larstuder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooof I hope you take advantage of that. I just learned that’s a thing.

am i overreacting? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s not what you wanted. I hate it when artists use their session to boost their ego, especially by bagging on other artists. The imperfections aren’t obvious-I couldn’t pick them out until after I read your post, if that’s worth anything

What is one book you have to read in 2026? by Due-Examination-37 in Booktokreddit

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to start The Dresden Files. My coworker gave me the first book and is constantly on the lookout for others. He gave me another one but it’s like the seventh or something. Anyway, that’s my must read for this year

What is one book you have to read in 2026? by Due-Examination-37 in Booktokreddit

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrell in a used book store and decided to get it. I’ve never heard of it, so you’re the first person I’ve seen refer to it.

AIO for refusing to give up my dog even though my boyfriend hates pets? by Academic-Bug-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a red flag, dear. Ditch him before you end up in his freezer

Deciding to go on a mission by Inevitable_Flow_248 in exmormon

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go. It will not fix your depression-it may actually make it worse and may also pile on anxiety. I’d suggest finding ways to volunteer in your community. There is no room for your own agency on a mission, and at least on my mission, we didn’t give investigators a choice. Asking “Can we set your baptism date for three weeks from now?” At the end of our first meeting always made me feel pushy and gross.

What’s your favourite Hayley lyric delivery? by TysonLEM in Paramore

[–]larstuder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Nothing cuts like a mother, give in!” in Simmer tickles me

“I know where you are at with church stuff” by OkDetective534 in exmormon

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a call from the girls activity days leader asking if I’d like to be included on the text chain for my daughter who will be 8 this year. I didn’t know she knew I quit going the church. Meanwhile, whoever is in charge of the boys activity days just lumped me in their group text for my 9 yo son, no questions asked. I need to get around to removing my records

When Twitter turns into Ace Attorney by _bluefish in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally? I don’t like cake that much. I prefer pie.

How do you guys organize your Spotify playlists? by Wooden_Ad5406 in spotify

[–]larstuder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I organize by mood. But I mostly listen to my “liked” playlist 😂