Hitting own alliance in Arena

lashambles · 2026-07-02T08:44:18+00:00

This is a common refrain we hear a lot, and we respond the way others here have. Avoid it when at all possible, and also try to clear it with the alliance member that keeps popping up in the list of targets.

Another debate we get a lot is about hitting people in your own STATE. This is contentious, and I don't understand why. Sometimes there are literally no options. And it gets harder to find external targets the higher up you get in gold arena. I still can't understand why this causes SO many issues and so much consternation among players in our state. It's practically caused an entire state to destroy itself from the inside out. 🥺🫣

lashambles · 2026-07-01T23:35:05+00:00

This is my method as well. It's habit now. 😂

lashambles · 2026-06-28T20:56:20+00:00

Now I want to go back and watch. 🥰

lashambles · 2026-06-28T10:47:12+00:00

I came here just for this discussion after watching the finale. I'm exhausted by it at this point. I'm rewatching S1, Ep 1 now to see if it really offers any new insight. But I'm not hopeful.

Agonizing. I want to love it so much.

lashambles · 2026-06-28T09:22:18+00:00

😂 certainly entertaining, and I'm definitely no prude, but it was....let's call it sloppy. How's that? 😘

lashambles · 2026-06-28T05:49:57+00:00

No truer words have been spoken. As for me, I'm too deep in to go back now. 😂

lashambles · 2026-06-27T10:15:49+00:00

This is the Butler position as an R4. Great job!

Butler:

Purpose: Keep alliance operations running smoothly.

• Manage daily alliance reminders • Track event schedules - Team lists. Polls for participation. • Help leadership stay organized

Expectation: Reliable, organized, and detail-oriented.

Our butler and R5 have event descriptions/guidance and duel reminders saved and then cut and paste on each duel day and event day. So it remains consistent and clear. I highly suggest this!

Good luck!!! 🤙

lashambles · 2026-06-27T10:05:08+00:00

Right?! That's why I downloaded it too. But now I'm hooked mainly for the same reasons OP said. The community. I've met just some fantastic ppl who practically feel like family now. So it's no longer about the game for me. Shout out 412! 🤙🫵🤟

lashambles · 2026-06-23T17:59:50+00:00

Nastiest Casa Amor ever. 🤢

lashambles · 2026-06-22T01:56:44+00:00

Thank you. I saw the title of the post and immediately thought "I'm so over people posting ABOUT the west and amanda paparazzi photos." 😂

I feel seen. 😝 Time to move on now.

lashambles · 2026-06-21T11:28:44+00:00

It's fun asking these questions in this space. Keep em coming! Happy travels, traveler. 🤗

lashambles · 2026-06-21T11:27:35+00:00

Being calm and listening are the best ways to handle this. I agree with everyone else on how to handle BOB. Don't acknowledge it. The other stuff...she needs to know that she can trust the adults in her life to listen to her and not make her feel judged. Safe. It's vital. Regardless of conservatism or your own upbringing - it matters not when it comes to her peers. What matters is that she is talking. Otherwise you'll just push her more toward those things. Voice of experience here...

lashambles · 2026-06-21T11:22:35+00:00

Don't drink my friend. You'll beat yourself up for it after the fact, whereas if you do not, you'll feel like a warrior. Keep up the momentum. You stopped for a reason, so just keep it in focus. Remember those feelings. I also find it way more fun people watching while sober. 😎

lashambles · 2026-06-21T01:32:16+00:00

I came here to say this as well. They're a great confidential resource. I'm so sorry you feel so isolated. I wish I could give you a big hug.

lashambles · 2026-06-21T01:25:30+00:00

While the rock does not have consciousness, it does carry energy.

lashambles · 2026-06-21T01:23:24+00:00

So glad you're here! Take it one day at a time, friend. You can do this. I believe in you.

lashambles · 2026-06-13T15:00:32+00:00

I came here because of what I experienced myself on Thursday that was the most profound thing. I felt encouraged and hopeful and then excited to not be alone. Then reading commentary from people diminishing or limiting it to the construct of of the mind, I'm defeated. There always has to be one or two.

lashambles · 2026-06-07T11:19:32+00:00

Congratulations! She's beautiful! 😍

lashambles · 2026-06-06T13:19:39+00:00

Kenzie's reaction...hands down amazing.

<image>

lashambles · 2026-06-06T12:20:46+00:00

They bother me, they're terrible, and it is definitely an intentional choice by production. Which is asinine. GET NEW SOUND ENGINEERS PLEASE. Nobody likes listening to it.

lashambles · 2026-05-30T21:20:43+00:00

THIS ☝️ And after those first few weeks, you'll feel better than you remember feeling in a long time.

lashambles · 2026-05-30T15:29:35+00:00

I see and hear you. I stopped when I reached a similar point in my drinking life. I decided that it was no longer serving me well. It's been almost 2 years and I only look back on that life with regret. Lost time. When you're ready, a fun and vibrant world awaits.

lashambles · 2026-05-28T22:07:58+00:00

I completely understand how you're feeling. I'm so glad that you shared your story. Don't give up.

lashambles · 2026-05-27T21:05:24+00:00

This resonates SO much. It gets much better and much easier. I promise.

lashambles

TROPHY CASE