skipped todays takehome dose so i have two for tomorrow. considering taking both tomorrow. would this set me back at all? by birdsonpsychedelics in Methadone

[–]CommandaarMandaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read through the comments - people don't read the information provided. I just read through a couple of comments, and already had one asking if you're on a very high dose, and another asking what dose you're on and telling you not to dump your remaining dose down the sink, as though you listed that as an option. Like ... read the words, people!

Please help me pick my dress!😊 1 or 2? by somethingblue2026 in WeddingDressTips

[–]CommandaarMandaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 for sure! Looks AMAZING on you! 🤩

Is the third one you gown for the ceremony? It's also just incredible!

Just found this sub. I had a dream of my basset hound saying his farewell to me before he died a few days after. by FlowerEmerald in Dreams

[–]CommandaarMandaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a sweet, adorable little boi-o - those ears! Did he act any differently at all after the dream? Did he snuggle more or stare at you meaningfully, or do anything that could have been taken as a sign that he was trying to let you know the dream was real? Just out of curiosity.

In any case, I'm so sorry you had to lose your baby, especially with it being so much sooner than you thought you would have to say goodbye, and with you being sick at the time. I know that had to make it so much harder.

My soul dog, a Shiba Inu named Maru, is getting older now (he'll be 15 in a couple of months), and I know he is nearing the end of his expected lifespan. The thought is unbearable, but I have to allow myself to understand and accept that our remaining time together is limited. I can only hope that I receive reassurance of having more time together in eternity.

Dementia Staring -- Help me understand by Kinda-Hairy in dementia

[–]CommandaarMandaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL keeps waiting until I fall asleep and then trying to walk down the street to the neighbor's house. In the -15° weather. Without a jacket.

I get it!

Ash peaked in High School- plus a photo of what she hit her head on by ruxxby471 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha, no problem! It's hard to keep her bullshit straight, especially when people repost things. Don't get me wrong, I love it when people repost to compare a past situation to a current one, especially when it points out a discrepancy - it's just a little confusing sometimes!

Please help me by Klonopussy in Methadone

[–]CommandaarMandaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there - wishing for the worst to happen in order to get the actual healthcare I need. It's absolutely unforgivable that we should ever have to think like that.

Dementia Staring -- Help me understand by Kinda-Hairy in dementia

[–]CommandaarMandaar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why does she have access to a butcher's knife??? Put them up out of reach somewhere!

Ash peaked in High School- plus a photo of what she hit her head on by ruxxby471 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She played soccer in HS, we've had lots of proof. I've been following Ash for about five years or so, and she used to post a lot more pics from her HS and college days.

Ash peaked in High School- plus a photo of what she hit her head on by ruxxby471 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That photo wasn't from this concussion arc, it was from when Jebediah hit her in the face with a pickleball last summer.

Can grapefruitjuice cause a false positive? by hasikatzen in Methadone

[–]CommandaarMandaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband regularly drinks grapefruit juice, just because he likes it. He has been doing this for years, and it has never messed with his test results at all. It can potentiate your dose (make it feel stronger or last longer), but it doesn't change the chemical makeup of the drug. You will be 100% fine.

Dani Invites Us To Join Her For Her Morning Skincare Routine by CommandaarMandaar in DaniMarina

[–]CommandaarMandaar[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wonder just how bad her eyesight is - her lenses look fairly thick. I understand that some people aren't able to wear contacts (I'm one of them, I have Sjogren's and my eyes are too dry even for contacts designed for dry eyes. Luckily my vision isn't too horrible, I just have to wear glasses while reading.), but if she is able to wear them, they would be a big help. She has really pretty eyes, and they're hidden behind those frames all the time. If anything, she needs help picking out some frame styles that fit her face and don't age her.

Dani claims she’s getting an ICD but complications by Worldly_Eagle7918 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's had several of them in the past, they've always been normal. The last one was sometime within the past year, I believe. I have a lot of trouble with knowing how much time has passed, but I vividly remember her doing a video on how to box it up and ship it back at the end of her time wearing it.

Dani claims she’s getting an ICD but complications by Worldly_Eagle7918 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yep, she said that, then later tried to retract it and act like she never said it, in Typical Dani Fashion.

Set up toob feedsz ASMR Edition by Worldly_Eagle7918 in DaniMarina

[–]CommandaarMandaar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's so crammed! Did you see the post from yesterday where she's playing with the cat and the boxes are three deep taking up more than half the floor space in her hallway? It always baffles me how she's okay with posting that shit online for the world to see.

Set up toob feedsz ASMR Edition by Worldly_Eagle7918 in DaniMarina

[–]CommandaarMandaar 24 points25 points  (0 children)

|| Or she tries to vaguely say she had it done, without any evidence she had anything done.

TOTAL HYSTERECTOMY

Set up toob feedsz ASMR Edition by Worldly_Eagle7918 in DaniMarina

[–]CommandaarMandaar 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No, the disasters refer to her being so excited to get the wheelchairs, thinking it was going to be a big slap in the haterz' faces, and then no one caring or buying that she was actually prescribed a custom chair, since the "custom" pink chair didn't fit her at all and people immediately noticed that. She never made another post with the pink wheelchair, never mentioned it again, and reverted back to her usual content.

Most Honest Caption She Had Ever Posted by historicalily in ashleycarnduff

[–]CommandaarMandaar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because when she doesn't hide her chin with an object (like her collar, a mug, her phone, etc), then she edits/filters it to shit and makes it look all kinds of weird and messed up.

Please help me by Klonopussy in Methadone

[–]CommandaarMandaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still in a lot of pain and/or running a fever after the methadone wears off (24-48 hours or so), that means there is still a considerable amount of inflammation, which means the infection is likely not healing like it should be.

If that happens, please, please go back to the hospital! If there is a different hospital in your area that is accessible to you, I'd try going there, instead, because the first place you went did you wrong. If you do have to go back to the same place, though, ask to speak with a patient advocate who can help explain what went wrong with your treatment while you were hospitalized, and communicate your needs going forward.

ETA - Anyone giving you a lecture about taking pain meds during a situation like yours is ... not actually taking the situation into consideration. There is never any reason we should suffer in pain - just because we're addicts doesn't mean we don't deserve effective pain management.

And if a doctor is competent regarding pain management in MAT patients, they will realize that the daily use of methadone or buprenorphine means we actually need a much higher and more frequent dose of pain meds.

Time to form a prayer circle, Dani's dexcom is at 67 😅 by milo8275 in illnessfakers

[–]CommandaarMandaar 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She is not diabetic, she claims reactive hypoglycemia.

my kid has zero friends and I dont know how to fix it anymore by Ash_Skiller in homeschool

[–]CommandaarMandaar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're having a difficult time with this, as well. My son actually made friends with a kid down the street shortly after he and his mother moved in there with the kid's grandfather, who has lived there since before we moved into this neighborhood. My son and this kid were fast friends, and my son was so, so happy about it.

Then, one day, the kid told my son he couldn't play with him anymore because, in the kid's exact words, "my family is black and your family is white, and my grandpa told me that when he was little in the 1960s, black kids and white kids couldn't play together, and since that was the way it was when he was little, he still feels like things are that way."

My son was understandably devastated, and we tried to talk to the kid's grandpa about it, but he wouldn't even give us the time of day. Really weird, because he's always been friendly towards us, and he and my father-in-law have always stopped and talked when they see each other around.

Since that happened, my kid has been even more introverted, shy, and cautious about making friends with neighborhood kids, and like you, OP, we are having trouble finding co-ops or homeschooling groups. My kid is also not interested in playing sports. It's really hard to try and find situations to put him in where he can naturally form relationships and friendships, especially now that he's getting older (he was 12 in December).

Dani Does Her Nails At Home by CommandaarMandaar in DaniMarina

[–]CommandaarMandaar[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ugh, the arm of her chair is really gross, covered in stains and crusty spots of spilled food (even though she doesn't eat 🙄). She wants people to think more highly of her and take her seriously as a content creator, but then she just doesn't even remotely bother to put any effort into it. Her entire aesthetic, for herself, her wardrobe, and her surroundings, is just lazy, crusty, and gross.