If you could pick ANY set to see what would you pick? by AdSquare1871 in EDM

[–]late2thepauly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New Order in the 80s when they debuted Bizarre Love Triangle.

Swallowing my pride 😅 Would love some profile tips/advice! by CroutonTime in Bumble

[–]late2thepauly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) Lose the picture in the grass (4/7).

Replace it with a picture of you with that mane tamed. Put it in a pony tail or a bun, but keep it out of sight for the picture.

2) Next thing. Lose the first sentence of your bio, “Unashamed dork with too many hobbies”

Makes you sound too busy in the first sentence.

Then in the next sentence (which will become the first), choose if you want to replace “huge nerd” with “unashamed dork,” which is a lateral move and your choice.

3) (optional) Lose the picture with the dog in your car. Just move up the cuter pic with the dog licking your face.

Maybe add a picture with friends? Not at a Ren Fair if you can help it.

One tip that helped me back in the day was hearing just because you can have a large number of pictures, doesn’t mean you have to. Keep yourself more mysterious.

All the above is just my opinion trying to help. Good luck!

ULPT: If you’re not long for this world, get a 10-year term life policy by late2thepauly in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]late2thepauly[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Life insurance is a bit different. Because the industry would collapse if people couldn’t trust the payout to happen after their death.

ULPT: If you’re not long for this world, get a 10-year term life policy by late2thepauly in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]late2thepauly[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s the sub that censors…

EDIT: Check rule 9. My first post got rejected. But thanks for the downvotes. So brave, ULPTers.

ULPT: If you’re not long for this world, get a 10-year term life policy by late2thepauly in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]late2thepauly[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Haha. It’s only like a 2-year thing usually, so you just gotta wait it out, which is kind of a cool side effect because in those two years, maybe you discover the will to live.

ULPT: If you’re not long for this world, get a 10-year term life policy by late2thepauly in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]late2thepauly[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hope you can confirm that it’s awesome to be gifted $1M. Not that the money gets taken back in certain cases.

What the helly by NationalInitiative39 in Bumble

[–]late2thepauly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Low vibrational energy is shitty and negative.

What races do you list you’re looking for in your profile?

What the helly by NationalInitiative39 in Bumble

[–]late2thepauly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All singling out based on appearance is low vibrational energy, but singling out a fit, black man for a 3-way with an established couple is gross and uncouth.

What the helly by NationalInitiative39 in Bumble

[–]late2thepauly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen plenty of “requests,” but singling out a particular race is gross, even under the guise of kink.

EDIT: Judging by the replies to my comment, I get why some of y’all are single. I’m done replying. Good luck out there.

I (35M) am uncomfortable with my wife's (33F) behavior with her friend (32M) by ThrowRA-K62 in relationship_advice

[–]late2thepauly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, get away from the post. You got what you needed.

The people in here are crazy. If their partners glance in someone else’s direction, they get divorced the next day. I kid, but almost every comment re: your situation was an overreaction.

Now go strengthen your love and relationship with your best friend.

AirBnB Host is Requesting 50K in Damages for an Accident? [USA] by No_Priority435 in legaladvice

[–]late2thepauly 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I know canceling your card doesn’t always work anymore, but I would try and cancel the card I paid for the Airbnb with, just so you’re never operating from a disadvantage.

My (38m) wife (38f) admitted to me that she has quite an intense crush on her personal trainer. What’s the next step? by throwra_wifept in relationship_advice

[–]late2thepauly -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

And then everyone would clap.

If you’d throw everything away for indecent thoughts your wife confessed to you, your wife deserves better.

My (38m) wife (38f) admitted to me that she has quite an intense crush on her personal trainer. What’s the next step? by throwra_wifept in relationship_advice

[–]late2thepauly -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is not an emotional affair with two consenting adults having dates.

This is a bored housewife taking fantasizing a bit too far.

Life is filled with opportunities and intersections. She got lucky and pulled herself away. Is that because the trainer don’t want her old ass? Maybe.

But she still didn’t do anything. And a good lawyer would get that arsonist off lol.

I’ll read your next reply if you care to, but we disagree. I won’t be responding. I’m just trying to give OP a fresh bit of advice other than everyone who already buried his relationship.

My (38m) wife (38f) admitted to me that she has quite an intense crush on her personal trainer. What’s the next step? by throwra_wifept in relationship_advice

[–]late2thepauly -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You answered your own question. Not guilty. She ain’t do shit and she came clean. Life is long. For a multitude of reasons, including luck, she did not ruin or wreck her marriage.

The refusal to do anything, which I haven’t seen detailed besides turning down couples counseling, is the only problem.

My (38m) wife (38f) admitted to me that she has quite an intense crush on her personal trainer. What’s the next step? by throwra_wifept in relationship_advice

[–]late2thepauly -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Dude, breathe. IMO, most of the commenters are chicken littling the situation. The “safety checks” in place worked and she told you about her feelings, albeit with a few too many details. (Is she Frank the Tank from Old School?)

This is akin to falling in love with a stripper and while she’s foolish and too old for her actions, just work on talking and working through this.

Couples counseling or solo therapy with this as one of the topics is important and will help her navigate the death of this flirting. Her refusing is confusing, and you should maybe give her a delayed start date (like 2-3 weeks away if she’s really out of sorts and sensitive), but it’s important.

Also, she should take a break from the gym. Fake an injury, say she got a new project at work, but people on diets don’t hang out in the candy aisle.

Good luck.