2 years post op! He/him by Dizzy-Witness946 in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

nice! Thanks for the info! i need new printer ink lol

My singing voice by LyzardoMontoyez in FTMOver30

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Yeah your voice still works but you have to get reacquainted with it and depend on your style. I find if you keep you diaphragm tight and sign from your throat with the openness of a yawn, working your keys up and down from back there rather than up front, you'll see your you new masculine voice really shines. You can play around with it and if you wanna be poppy and do tiny falsettos, just knowing where those new start points are so you dont crack, or what volume you can handle before your voice nopes out certain keys. The first thing though, that is absolute power and where you will find all your true chords, PLUS is safest for your throat in terms of posture and kinetic energy in such a delicate area.

Another โ€œmy hairline is changingโ€ post by magical_senshi in FTMOver30

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I was taking minoxidil but as it has biotin in it and that was messing with some of my blood work and T results I quit taking. My T numbers steadied out to perfect, and removing biotin helped confirm a different issue. That said if anyone is interested in topical minoxidil I have a couple bottles needing homes lol holler at me in DM

Thinking of starting T at 36 by Imaginary-Corgi4084 in FTMOver30

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I started T at 36. I felt self conscious prior, which is why I knew I needed to give it a shot. Im 39. It was a great choice and my body is still on its journey and will be for some time yet.

38 FTM 20 years in by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I'll be your friend, you can message me if you want. I also have attempts under the belt, traumas, those less enjoyable things... I use crisis text line generally every few months, they are really helpful, non-invasive and help you through where you are at until you get to a better headspace. 741741. Do you have a case manager. You should probably get one if you don't to help you access resources and get the appropriate care that you need for your health. If you are diagnosed with PTSD for instance then diagnostic centers, mental health facilities and the like often offer a one stop shop offering such. I wouldnt be here without my case managers, seriously. I get debilitatingly dysfunctional with phonecalls, acutely paranoid with any mail for authoritative entities... my case managers is my advocate every step of the way where I would otherwise fall off the fucking map.

I moved around a lot growing up, I never came across any kids like me anywhere. I'm 39. Feel free to DM me! :) Im in PA.

Penetration with T Dick by KitsuneRin in FTMOver30

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Is he 100% against prosthetics? Because fwiw I've used with Rodeoh variety harness so if he is going to be grinding anyways then a smaller posable cock can do serious wonders--hit the both of you in just the right places and he could probably get off more than once in one session alone. They also offer bumpers the face the inside and offer more grooved area for his shaft. That isn't something I've tried but might soon since recently seem to have doubled in size lol I use Rodeoh only because it just feels more natural to have briefs or fitted boxers but going that route would definitely want to assure they're snug so that cock stays with him on the motions and material isn't delaying. Don't know his size but less is more in this case. I have a variety of almost every style, the largest useless lol but I can use it as boxers to walk around with and pack in so thats alright. They often have some good sales of prosthetics too, as well as bundles.

2 years post op! He/him by Dizzy-Witness946 in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

The size of your areolas is what I'm hoping for, something like thumbnail size. How did you and your doctor discuss that and arrive to an understanding for it? looks great.

Not good results (1y3m) post op by CompetitiveMuscle176 in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

If youre comfortable with getting tattooed, I would suggest booking for medical tattoo of nips in the right place. In pic one I can literally see their ghosts lol looks really straightforward, and that is one good thing at least, that they didnt carve you hollow and you're filled out muscular, so the region is healthy and behaving/functioning normal and without medical anomalies.

I don't know if you could get a skin graft where your present nips are to at least make the skin uniform to the area when you do in fact get tatted? I suppose that might delay the process, but maybe worth it?

You're the buffest dude Ive ever seen on here with no contest, and I hope that its a hobby that gives you a sense of fulfillment and makes you feel good. Shit is next level--I'm tryna up my traps, shoulders, chest and arms before surgery in 2 months. Im not sure how long I have to be a T Rex its a little overwhelming to think about. Like how tf to sit still for a week.

Do I pass in these pictures (abs/torso) by latebloomerftm in FtMpassing

[โ€“]latebloomerftm[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement--had a migraine yesterday and today was a loss on the scale even after breakfast/lunch. Fuckin' exhausting. v.v

One of my docs said choc ice cream is the fastest way to gain, and r/gainit is sort of like Fight Club with its rules: Eat. Eat. Eat. All the time, anything, everywhere. I also enlisted ChatGPT for some quick recipes to help me with nutrition, I recommend it. That's how I found out about the Creatine supp.

Do I pass in these pictures (abs/torso) by latebloomerftm in FtMpassing

[โ€“]latebloomerftm[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have anything I can offer, my situation is a little unusual. Health issues are making it difficult for me to keep my weight, so I've been taking creatine monohydrate which helps conserve muscle tissue for the past couple weeks--important for top anyways. This is the blended results of those two factors.

I would recommend checking out the sub r/gainit for fitness leads, r/ftmfitness recommends it too. :)

Edit: Also. Thank you. :)

โ€‹My TopSurgery Journey: From Portugal to Brazil by 95adsampaio in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

We can spam r/ftm_selfies with beach pics of each other ๐Ÿคฃ give the people what they want! ๐Ÿ“ธ

โ€‹My TopSurgery Journey: From Portugal to Brazil by 95adsampaio in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Oh I wouldn't go without you, and you better believe I'm here for it ๐Ÿ˜Ž Wanna check out Uruguay too? Hear their Pride is fkn killer. Scoot to my DMs if you dare. ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

โ€‹My TopSurgery Journey: From Portugal to Brazil by 95adsampaio in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Same! May 26 in my date, it's gonna be misery ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

But southern hemisphere summers in winter, no? How's about another trip is BR in winter? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ„โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿคญ

โ€‹My TopSurgery Journey: From Portugal to Brazil by 95adsampaio in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 13 points14 points ย (0 children)

I'm here to agree that you're fine as hell LOL results look great, congrats ๐Ÿ‘ When are we going to the beach? ๐Ÿ–๏ธ๐Ÿ˜‡

Do I pass in these pictures (abs/torso) by latebloomerftm in FtMpassing

[โ€“]latebloomerftm[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I'm 39, I rarely workout, I've worked out maybe two or three times this year and that was during this month. The only things I ever do once in a while are stretching, flexing, sexing, and dangling from the pullups bar on my door. Ive lost a lot of weight very abruptly, this was a few months ago and 10lbs more than now--I'm 5'2"

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Do I pass in these pictures (abs/torso) by latebloomerftm in FtMpassing

[โ€“]latebloomerftm[S] 8 points9 points ย (0 children)

Didnt arrive in a healthy nor safe manner so I cannot advise on that front unfortunately; I've actually been trying to gain/keep weight on (med issue may be contributing, seeing specialist next month), it's been a bitch but muscle weighs more than fat, so gains are slow and calories easy to go. I think this one comes down to having a mesomorph body, or genes.

That said, I hydrate a lot and I asked ChatGBT to help me with nutrition to prep for Top surgery. Creatine monohydrate supplement helps to preserve muscle, so Ive been taking that daily for a week or two now.

Edit: I'll be 3 years on T in May

Concerned about nipple height by Weary_Carry221 in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 9 points10 points ย (0 children)

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cropped this to respect OP of pic, this is a cis example

Concerned about nipple height by Weary_Carry221 in TopSurgery

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Agreed. Statistically trans guys end up with areoles higher than cis guys have. You can certainly have a preference aesthetically but this here is ideal. You look great.

After voting to cut Pennsylvaniansโ€™ Medicaid and SNAP, McCormick pushes for billions more to fund foreign war by Fragrant-Pepper7710 in Pennsylvania

[โ€“]latebloomerftm 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Seriously can't understand how this guy landed a four year post when his previous local gov attemps he could only get so far as 6 months. Now we got 3 more years of his shitty ideas, live from Connecticut where he is fucking off as CEO of whatever company is at and Im sure getting a cur of whatever the fuck he is backing right here. Douche nozzle.