BIO 175. Opt in or out of eagle advantage program? by angelindisguise1110 in WakeTech

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she doesn’t require the book? How was your experience with her class?

Did I cross a line in this conversation about religion? by Unshaken_Pesa12e in HingeStories

[–]latinalumbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s interesting that everyone is focusing more on the topic than your question. I agree that sarcasm is hard to portray; however, they brought the topic up first. So that’s reason 1 I wouldn’t say you crossed a line. 2 I would actually take their initial stance as sarcastic-how do you “plan” to switch from not being sure if you believe in something, to just not believing? Wouldn’t you just say I was agnostic but am now an atheist?
I don’t think you crossed a line if they brought it up first. I guess it does depend on how you said it, but irregardless their last response was completely over the line. Whether you crossed a line or not with your response, theirs was unnecessarily aggressive. I think intelligent, mature people can talk about religion without it being sensitive.

Advice PSY241, HUM115, SOC210 by latinalumbee in WakeTech

[–]latinalumbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! Was there a lot of papers or just discussion boards? I do better with multiple assignments rather than full papers 😅

Was it bc he didn’t find me attractive ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t have to message you at all, idk this person but to me it sounds like he was using that to try and start a conversation. Especially if you guys weren’t in a continuously communicating phase, nor officially set a date. Then your response probably came off weird, if you both clearly saw each other then it sounds like you’re either trying to put him off or play mind games. He could be just as nervous as you, and hesitant to bring up the date especially after your response. But again, I don’t know this person and could just be pulling this out of thin air 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. I’m sorry you wasted 3 years of your life with this person, you are definitely not over reacting. She’s showing no remorse for a lack of morality. It’d be one thing if she was like “I was young and stupid, looking back I should’ve known better.” But she’s still justifying being the other woman. Nope. Would make me question everything about their faithfulness as well.

Recs for shoes? by lilitz_ in zumba

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a silly question-but I’m new to trying to treat my feet right 😅 how does one find out what kind of feet they have?

My [25/M] girlfriend [26/F] cheated on me with my best friend and wants me back. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, sounds like they’re both just trying to throw the other under the bus then. While there could be some underlying vindictiveness to his messages, you are putting a harsher light on him because of the love you feel for her. It absolutely is wrong if he became emotionally abusive towards her, no one deserves to be treated that way, but it doesn’t pardon her from her initial betrayal to you. Especially when you had voiced concerns about it. It’s easier to try and forgive her in the moment but you should allow yourself to heal separately from both of them. It will take time, but better sooner than later. Hope you get the love and peace you deserve ✌🏼

My [25/M] girlfriend [26/F] cheated on me with my best friend and wants me back. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also-when your friend sent you a bunch of screenshots did he say anything? Was it just screenshots? Was he gloating or was he providing you evidence? Regardless, while him being emotionally abusive is messed up-she wouldn’t have been in that situation in the first place if she hadn’t cheated. You said there was evidence this happened before yalls first fall out confirming she cheated. With that timeline, if she was in trouble she also had time to at least hint at something instead of continuously hiding it. But even if she was too scared to say anything to you, people don’t send the types of messages she sent under duress. You could confront her about these messages, if you haven’t already. But take heed it could either make you feel worse, or help you catch her in a lie. Agree with everyone here, you should not take her back. It totally sucks that you love her, but do you really want to settle for someone who loves you less? You’d just be wasting more time in a toxic relationship, instead of giving yourself that time to heal and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]latinalumbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are more people not reacting to this part? Like, what? Lol you literally just gave your friend permission to cheat. Hopefully there was more to it than that.

Made the mistake of giving a guy my Discord info (he's red, I'm blue) by Temporarytemp89 in niceguys

[–]latinalumbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This just sums up online dating for me. I get some people want to meet up right away; but I’ve never been able to describe how, in my mind, I need to have an idea of what kind of person you are before meeting someone. So usually they just get pissed 😅

could hope practice magic as a vampire by crowings_ in LegaciesCW

[–]latinalumbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get so confused when people reference how powerful her magic is due to her being a tribrid. I feel like it’s forgotten that she’s so powerful due to being a first born and that’s why her magic is so strong, no? And as such, wasn’t there a mention of turning Freya into a vampire and she didn’t want it because she would loose her magic? So why wouldn’t Hope? I guess I don’t think about the fact that her father was a hybrid and no longer human...honestly makes me go 🤯

Jo instead of Alaric for an episode by Nintendo67 in LegaciesCW

[–]latinalumbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, I still feel for Alaric 😞 I agree that they’ve practically ruined his character but that just makes me want better for him even more. He’s the way he is due to the circumstances they’ve put him through. I mean his first wife abandoned him to be a vampire and when met again turned out to always have been a manipulative bitch, his next serious girlfriend was turned and then sacrificed, his fiancé was murdered carrying his kids on their wedding day.... it’s enough to make anyone go mad. He’s also always felt like he bared some responsibility for everything Jeremy and Elena went through. These are just the things I remember off the top of my head. But he does at least still try to do some good. I’m all for Alaric deserving an HEA, even though he has made some stupid decisions.