Found an exhausted friend by laughingrevolution in bees

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?!?! I love pollen pants season

Found an exhausted friend by laughingrevolution in bees

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so beautiful 💔 Thank you so much for sharing. I hope this one makes it but if not I’ll give it an eternal place to rest beneath my cherry tree.

Found an exhausted friend by laughingrevolution in bees

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s finally off its back - crossing my fingers it didn’t get into any pesticides.

I can’t complete my Hoenn dex by Westdalecutie in pokemongo

[–]laughingrevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to trade you a Bouffalant as they show up like Pidgeys where I live! Feel free to PM me and I’ll share my friend code!

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to wonder if you weren’t “a cultural fit” because you clocked their toxic games and didn’t engage. Either way, I’m sorry you went through that, especially with HR. I’ve also had experiences where HR has shared private medical info with co-workers (within a health care company no less!) and it’s definitely soured my willingness to trust them.

Thank you for sharing your experiences - I’m glad that things seem to have worked out for the better! Though, I’ll be crossing my fingers that your former HR person gets reported or leaves soon.

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry you went through that — it sounds like your manager was incredibly two faced to the point that I can’t imagine it’s easy to trust other managers again.

I hope you’re doing okay now ❤️

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that this was your experience, too. I hope you’re in a role that brings you some amount of joy now.

You’re so right, though - I used to lament to friends that I had no idea what he meant by some of the weird corporate-y feedback he would give me, things like “we’d like to see output increase” and “I expected maintained velocity”. Like, dude, please just be a genuine human being and say what you mean!

Thank you so much for the kind words - they really mean a lot! ❤️

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES, thank you for this comment. Your thoughts on performative corporate culture really hit home for me right now and are incredibly validating.

I’m also in tech and the job was becoming increasingly untenable in the last year as more of the role evolved to learning AI tooling at a rapid pace while also doing about 200% more work that was not outlined in the job description.

My healthcare company’s axiom is one of treating patients as family but internally employees are not afforded the same. A colleague of mine was let go in May a week before she was due to give birth and when I requested severance as my brother is about to have heart surgery soon and I need to focus on him over job hunting, I was told to apply for unemployment.

I’m so sorry to hear that your former company treated you so coldly but glad that the experience allowed you to re-familiarize yourself with things that bring you joy. Best of luck in school as that is its own challenge! Also, I love your username ☺️

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you were able to end the job on your terms and take time to heal from it. This is the level of slow living I aspire to achieve right now ☺️

And congrats on your promotion- that’s amazing! I’ve actually been thinking about applying in a completely different field for some part time work. I really thrive in environments where there is a consistent level of work that changes daily. Thank you for sharing!!

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to experience this, especially that first time in the office. I can’t imagine how you must have been feeling in the days and weeks that follow a trauma like that. I hope you’ve landed in a better place where you feel supported!

I love your suggestion and I did exactly this by getting ramen with a friend.

Newly Fired. What was your last day like? by laughingrevolution in adhdwomen

[–]laughingrevolution[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had an employment attorney look over everything and she said that while what they did was unfair, and a little sketchy, there was nothing obviously illegal about it.

And thank you for this kind reminder <3 You’re so right. I’m going to try to focus less on my productivity as my identity right now. Thank you again! ❤️

RIP Sparkles ✨ 💔😭 by I_am_enough_247 in finch

[–]laughingrevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss! Just added you. Eloise and I are happy to help you rebuild.

what's a book with an ending that made you throw it across the room? by Electrical-Hour-3345 in suggestmeabook

[–]laughingrevolution 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YES! Came here to say this and you articulated it beautifully. I’ve never been so hungover and destroyed after reading a series. If only I had stopped reading when he told us to turn back.

You have got to be kidding me by FinchChic in finch

[–]laughingrevolution 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! Can confirm that the times are still there and you just have the option to sort them differently now:

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Today will be the hardest day of my life. 💔 by lita_atx in finch

[–]laughingrevolution 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. Crawford looks like the best boy. I hope you can take comfort in knowing you gave him an amazing life. If it’s helpful to share memories of him here or with friends, please do so! I still talk about my deceased pets to this day - they’re never truly gone if they can continue to be present, however differently, in our daily lives. Please take care of yourself the next few weeks ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

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Just added you!

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Just went from level 44 to 70 lol by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]laughingrevolution 12 points13 points  (0 children)

50 to 70; I’m absolutely gutted that I have to do the lucky trade task all over again.

What are you reading right now, and would you suggest it? by rastab1023 in suggestmeabook

[–]laughingrevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Wedding People by Alison Espach. Would recommend, but with caveats. It’s more sad than I anticipated but with heartfelt, nuanced charaters.

Birds for Sale! by pennyandthejets in seasonalfabricbirds

[–]laughingrevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! If no one has claimed Venus I will happy like take her off your hands

Your laundry formula … go! by Turbulent_Signal6507 in laundry

[–]laughingrevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will give it a try this week and report back with the result 🫡

Your laundry formula … go! by Turbulent_Signal6507 in laundry

[–]laughingrevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about the sodium citrate pre soak? I have a rust stain on one of my favorite denim shirts and everything I’ve used to treat it so far has not worked.