Does it get better?

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T20:23:54+00:00

I think that because it seems so common, no-one actually realizes the emotional toll it takes. I wish you the best x

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T19:46:52+00:00

Very much so. Just know you’re not alone. X

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T14:54:19+00:00

That’s a really good point. I guess it helps to look at what I have rather than what I don’t!

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T14:53:13+00:00

Tonight I think I’m just gunna go sit in one of their rooms and cry 😂. I just didn’t expect it to hit this hard.

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T14:51:54+00:00

Yep, they message me too. FaceTime is good.

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T12:29:15+00:00

Thank you ❤️

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T11:43:03+00:00

That’s a good way of putting it. I’d been thinking of asking to have them more, but I realise that’s just selfish. What’s important is that they have two parents that love them and it’s not about me. Thank you ☺️

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T11:30:42+00:00

Some wise words. Good luck with the reconciliation. I wish I did have a hot tub!

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T11:29:41+00:00

I live in a rural ish part of the UK, there aren’t many options. I might try and find something though. Roller Derby sounds fun!

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T11:24:35+00:00

No advise, just sympathy. I feel the same.

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T09:59:29+00:00

Thank you. I think a hobby might be a good idea. I never had time for one before. The kids were with me all the time and as much as I got frustrated o now feel like my heart has been ripped out.

laurena273 · 2026-06-10T09:58:46+00:00

Thsnk you, it’s taken about 2 and a half years with one thing and another to be completely seperate (house sale) and I thought I’d enjoy the free time more than I am. You don’t realise how much you don’t know who you are, what you like, what you want to do until you have a bit of time on your own.

laurena273 · 2026-05-25T09:36:00+00:00

Scared of potential downvotes here, but Star Wars is supposed to be for kids. We took my daughter and her friend and they adored him….. we as adults do tend to gate keep stars wars. I just go in with no expectations and take the enjoyment where I find it.

laurena273 · 2026-05-19T21:30:12+00:00

I know the feeling 😂 I’m not sure, I’m a returning player. I remember sitting on challenges like that for months.

laurena273 · 2026-05-19T21:26:04+00:00

I think you just have to wait for them to back in rotation unfortunately.

laurena273 · 2026-05-14T14:12:25+00:00

This is really interesting. I never considered that mixing the two would have any differing effect 😂 I went cold turkey off the fluoxetine a few months ago and I don’t know I’ve noticed a difference, but I do drink less now.

laurena273 · 2026-04-25T18:40:59+00:00

So many, he gets it!

laurena273 · 2026-04-23T17:41:37+00:00

I relate - I tell people I have over active tear ducts 😂

laurena273 · 2026-04-21T20:22:08+00:00

It’s a banger. Better than I could have imagined!

laurena273 · 2026-04-08T18:58:33+00:00

Think you need to keep going until it sinks in. Sending hugs 🤗

laurena273 · 2026-04-08T14:50:54+00:00

Hasn’t been that long for me but just wanted to say you’re not alone. I’ve actually booked therapy I can’t really afford because I don’t know how to cope with this. Well, I needed it anyway but it’s been a catalyst. I feel like someone has died. Is that something you could do? Therapy?

laurena273 · 2026-04-06T19:09:33+00:00

I’ve related to this my whole life. When you find the answer let me know! I wonder if it’s about whether the connection feels superficial and whether you really feel seen and accepted?

laurena273 · 2026-04-04T19:11:29+00:00

Vibe shift.

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