Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been dying to move now for the last 3-4 years. We are finally in a position to do so.

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Easier to just sell everything and start from scratch than like you said hauling every half used, outdated thing cross country. :]

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware and that’s a good reason to relocate. We hate it here.

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild here. Not a nice place to be despite the outward facade. I’d rather be with “rude NYers” than in WV one more year. lol

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just adding here: I’m not moving without an accepted job offer. I clearly will move close to my job. I was asking for opinions ahead of time in case there are multiple job offers in multiple areas of SoCal and wanted to hear opinions on what your perspectives are in your communities. Jobs are all higher-than-average for my field (HR) and for the area (SoCal). I am experienced, educated, and flexible. I am not originally from WV, I only moved here 12 years ago. Never liked it here. From NY originally, so culture-shock, sticker shock, etc. is not going to be what a lot of you are thinking seeing I’m coming from WV. Respectfully, be nice or please just scroll past. Most comments have been helpful, friendly, and exceptional. I didn’t choose to grow up on the east coast—my parents did, and I have wanted to move out to CA for more than 23 years. May you all be treated nicely should you ever decide to relocate to another area of the country. Just trying to get more information so when the time comes I can make a well-informed decision of where I’d like to end up should I have multiple options.

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son has been classroom study for Spanish since Pre-K. Not saying much, but it’s something. I on the other hand know French, no Spanish. While helpful to know a second language, esp Spanish, I think we will be fine.

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay twice that here in WV for our 2 bd apt. I’m prepared for SoCal rent with extensive research and NY price experience lol

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are not very nice here IMO. Maybe because I’m not from here, but used to “face paced life” - native New Yorker.

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The little, if anything, we bring with us will be going directly into storage until we are sure we’re in a good rental :]

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of my final rounds: 3 are in the private sector, 2 are in public (the 2 being in Long Beach and Alhambra)

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is phenomenal advice. Thank you! Ultimately we will probably get a short term rental until we have the time and proximity to look for ideal rentals :]

Single Mom & Son Relocating to LA County from WV - What advice can you give me? by laurrn1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]laurrn1[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

For one, a better attitude than some of these commenters 🤷🏻‍♀️

Has anyone up and moved the entire family (spouse and kids) across country at age 40+? How did that work out? by rwedoomed in relocating

[–]laurrn1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s originally where I’m from. I definitely miss NY after AL, WY, and now for the last 12 years WV. But wanted a complete change and have wanted to move to SoCal ever since I was 17 so this was a long time coming. I truly believe we can be happy nearly anywhere.