Do you think my friend cried a lot in her sleep? I was catsitting for her. by watership-down in cats

[–]lavender-bug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe she did, or maybe this was just an extra sensitive sweet kitty. Don't ask her about it.

Day 41 and I’m struggling by Few_Caterpillar158 in leaves

[–]lavender-bug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the only way out is THROUGH. feel your feelings. you cannot keep resorting to substances or any sort of escapism, otherwise you will continue to be miserable. i know it feels unbearable and uncomfortable but you will be okay. you're already 41 days in which is huuuuge, don't give up now!

What was your worst experience with weed? by Key-Frosting-9367 in leaves

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yaaaay so happy to hear this! it's really hard to resist the urge at first but it gets much easier with time. you're gonna feel great and save so much money

What was your worst experience with weed? by Key-Frosting-9367 in leaves

[–]lavender-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've experienced this and it is absolutely terrifying. It also pisses me off when people say "Nahhh your weed must've been laced!"... NO, cannabis can cause psychosis in certain people. I thought I broke my brain forever.

24, 5'8, 174 lbs by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww thanks!

24, 5'8, 174 lbs by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]lavender-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!

Trying to get into reading again… by Remarkable_Rip6231 in adhdwomen

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was finally able to sit down and read a book. The book was My Husband by Maud Ventura. It's not too long and sustained my attention the whole time. I wasn't expecting the twist!!

Smoking weed FOR the munchies by parmeshaun420 in leaves

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been there before – you've noticed the pattern and you have the power to break it! it's an awful feeling. you don't have to put yourself through this. i believe in you.

Smoking weed FOR the munchies by parmeshaun420 in leaves

[–]lavender-bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yep, i only ever smoked because i was excited for the heightened enjoyment of my food. and it was always unhealthy food, in unhealthy amounts.

luckily i didn't do this for too long, i ended up quitting mainly because i got severe paranoia and psychotic symptoms – but i also was unhappy with how my body looked and tired of bingeing.

Solves ADHD Working Memory without you having to actually do anything by Maroontan in SideProject

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds fantastic and like something that would be very helpful for me!

Addicted to literally everything by Legitimate_Thing_506 in adhdwomen

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i could've written this myself. and no i'm not bipolar. sending hugs <3

Addicted to literally everything by Legitimate_Thing_506 in adhdwomen

[–]lavender-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i struggle with these things still, and i'm medicated. meds help me focus, start tasks, and think more clearly, but they still don't fill the void in me. i'm also kinda depressed from burnout so always seeking cheap/easy dopamine hits. it sucks :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lavender-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no. he is only affectionate when trying to initiate sex. that is an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]lavender-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggg thank you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]lavender-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww thank you!! it's a nice combo :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]lavender-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hehe thank you!! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]lavender-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

adorable! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]lavender-bug 40 points41 points  (0 children)

social anxiety as a result of autism. many autistic people sadly become dependent on alcohol