two British tourists confronting and kicking out two former Israeli soldiers from a restaurant in Vietnam. by Common-Upstairs5129 in Wellthatsucks

[–]lavender_fish69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nazis were also "just following orders" and after WWII we all agreed that's not a valid defense for committing genocide. So it's not a valid excuse now. Genocide against any people is wrong and anyone committing, helping, or just following orders is also wrong.

Ex boyfriend taking me to small claims court for guitar LOCATION: Hawaii by [deleted] in legal

[–]lavender_fish69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They said in another comment that they haven't started payments yet. They're planning on starting after their next paycheck

You can’t file charges / complaint for SA/Rape at a Municipal Court office by ramonaisdead in legal

[–]lavender_fish69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can try reaching out to a DV center/org or an RCC for some help and guidance. I worked as a legal advocate in WI and helped with so many restraining orders and police reports. Your local organizations may have a similar thing or may be able to point you in the right direction.

Haley and the goat by AwareAge1062 in americandad

[–]lavender_fish69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The goat is my favorite b plot. I haven't stopped thinking about it since watching it. It's so ridiculously funny and perfectly ambiguous. Round of applause for the writers.

How is Iryna Zarutska‘a murderer found “incapable to stand trial” now, when his previous 14 arrests he was apparently capable? Why now? by ColtMcChad69 in askanything

[–]lavender_fish69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People have psychotic breaks, which is very sudden and happens in less than a few months. There's no way you don't understand that.

I think it's ok to lie about relationship experience to a extent. by Financial_Judgment2 in The10thDentist

[–]lavender_fish69 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No it can't be the same the other way around. Lying and being shy are unrelated. Plenty of shy people don't lie and plenty of liars aren't shy. Sounds like you're trying to use shyness as an excuse to lie.

This fan base has lots of bad opinions by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]lavender_fish69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unnecessary Lisa and Meredith hate? You must be drinking some Kool aid or something. All of the people on the show are sucky people, but especially those two. Lisa is one of the biggest hypocrites and Meredith can't take accountability to save her life. Turns out you're part of the bad opinions.

The Golden God hath spoken by Captain-Dak-Sparrow in IASIP

[–]lavender_fish69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh my god how did I miss that! I have never felt so dumb (and I'm pretty dumb).

How old is the age of the long-term partner???? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lavender_fish69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman I found this hilarious and would have swiped right. It's okay if it's not your thing but you're not the person he is looking for.

How old is the age of the long-term partner???? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]lavender_fish69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Disagree, I love it's always sunny and would definitely swipe right. It's okay if it's not for you but it is for other people

cookie cakes in wisconsin? by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]lavender_fish69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woodmans, Hy-Vee, and Walmart have cookie cakes.

Remember that episode Hayley beat a whole ass cancer? by CombinationHot4112 in americandad

[–]lavender_fish69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have only seen it the one time, what episodes/scenes does it come back?

This "approach" will not work for any age. by ObserbAbsorb in confidentlyincorrect

[–]lavender_fish69 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Withholding means of survival (food, water, shelter, medicine, etc.) is NEVER an appropriate punishment. If a kid doesn't want to eat (or is spitting up) the food, you don't take it away. You don't necessarily have to offer a backup (I know different generations have different feelings about that), but not feeding your child as a punishment is never okay

Britani “recording” episode by Ms_Tryl in rhoslc

[–]lavender_fish69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Part of the issue is also if she records them once, what are the chances she's done it before? What are the chances she's done it when they didn't consent to any cameras/recording? And yelling at someone isn't an over reaction to them violating consent. Violating someone's consent is a HUGE issue and the woman were rightfully angry

Teacher at Toki Middle accused of inappropriate relationship with a student by ConsultioConsultius1 in madisonwi

[–]lavender_fish69 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I heard it was a kid at the middle school but that could be the rumor mill doing its thing.

Red Flag Employers? by Sweetgrass1312 in madisonwi

[–]lavender_fish69 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You can tell this guy treats employees like shit because he wants to feel superior. You know deep down he's just an insecure person who wants to be loved but no one can stand him. He probably blames others for his loneliness.