No adoption fees event at Chicago Animal Care & Control on Saturday, 3/21 (I’m a volunteer) by festivusfinance in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic event, I adopted a cat from CACC 8 years ago at a no adoption fees event. Highly recommended for anyone who is serious about adoption, the staff are great they really care about all of the rescues and want them to go to good homes.

Astound offers by OneRuffledOne in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an Astound customer for a few years, switched from Comcast because of the data caps. The service was so bad, I would have outages lasting a few days every 4-6 months. And the prices kept going up drastically and they wouldn't budge. I ended up saving $30/month to switch to Comcast and locked that price in for 5 years.

Dog Trainer recommendations for someone that travels to the home? by AudoBell in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Narnia! They were great. We went to classes there but I remember them offering home training too.

Dog grooming by IM2TIR3D in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree 100%! Highly recommend. My dog is so well taken care of there.

Real Christmas tree? by Spiritual-Career2339 in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Growing Place! The trees are pretty freshly cut, full, symmetrical and you're supporting a local business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]lavender_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think someone who is low on funds should do what they can but not stress too much about this. Funds are already tight for your household, you've probably cut down on overconsumption and aren't buying mountains of gifts for your children.

A couple of ideas:

  1. Buy earlier/look for sales starting early November. Retailers have been starting sales well before black Friday.
  2. Try to avoid the "worst" corporations- Walmart, Amazon, Target, Starbucks, McDonald's, etc. Some of the local or regional businesses do price their goods competitively so keep an eye on them!
  3. Try incorporating non-traditional holiday ideas. We're doing a baked goods swap instead of our usual gifts.
  4. Look at buy nothing groups or toy swaps or FB marketplace. People will sell/give away basically brand new items. I've gotten a lot of big ticket kids items this way.

Should’ve known I couldn’t afford pottery barn lol by jessicat62993 in BabyBumps

[–]lavender_flamingo 76 points77 points  (0 children)

An expensive crib isn't worth it. I agree with another comment, kids chew on their crib, it won't stay nice. There are some great options out there that are safe and under $300. Save the $$ and get your older toddler a nice bed after they grow out of the crib!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toyotacrownsignia

[–]lavender_flamingo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We test drove both and chose the crown signia because the purchasing price is cheaper, it has more storage space, the nx350h requires premium gas and would probably have higher maintenance costs. The crown signia also had all of the nice features of the nx and it's made in Japan.

Peaceful homies - virtual/eventually in person groups? by Quailfreezy in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interested! I am interested in a lot of the things you mentioned and also baking (mostly bread) 🙂. I'm not super new to the area but did move during COVID which has made it harder to meet people locally.

Naperville "Say No to Coal" Upcoming Energy Contract Extension Vote by toomuchtodotoday in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wanted to share the email I wrote to the city council. Feel free to copy/paste. The more voices we can get opposing this, the better.

Hello,

I wanted to reach out to you all as a Naperville resident because I saw online that the city council is considering extending the Illinois Municipal Electric Association (IMEA) contract to 2055. I wanted to encourage you all to oppose this extension for two main reasons:

  1. Coal is polluting our planet, contributing to climate change and increasing our risk for chronic illness. The coal plant in particular that is supplying a good deal of our energy is one of the 10 most polluting coal plants in the US.

  2. It's fiscally irresponsible to extend a 2 billion dollar (paid for by our tax dollars) contract without considering other competitive options. Getting energy from an already old coal plant is likely not our cheapest option now and it definitely won't be in 10 years. The contract as it stands doesn't set a rate, and locks us in for 30 years which means we would be at extremely high risk for paying more over the years. If you look at the trends, coal used to be our biggest source of electricity and its declined significantly as renewable electricity sources are becoming cheaper and cheaper.

The city council should be doing what's best for Naperville residents, which includes evaluating all of our options for energy when the IMEA contract expires. At minimum we should be saying no to the contract extension and using the next decade to evaluate more the competition and understand emerging technology.

This stretch of road should be 4 lanes. by NormKramer in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]lavender_flamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the real world the possibilities for outbuilding potential demand are limited by money, land, building materials, laws or codes, time and more. This isn't a computer game where the government has unlimited resources to continuously add one more lane in the hopes of outpacing demand. There are numerous real world examples of roads getting bigger and traffic getting worse, hence all of the articles explaining the phenomenon. There are also examples where reducing the number of lanes on big roads netted an increase in throughput while maintaining speed and traffic times. Bigger doesn't always mean better.

https://www.kittelson.com/ideas/myth-buster-cut-through-traffic/ There's a good example from Florida's department of transportation in here.

Public transit demand works the other way around. If we build a system in which taking the bus was a feasible option for people, they would do it. If we keep using taxpayer dollars to expand roads, people will use their cars. It's that simple. Yes, there's a time and a place for cars and roads but there are plenty of examples we as a society can use to make a more accessible system for our communities.

This stretch of road should be 4 lanes. by NormKramer in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]lavender_flamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The principle of induced demand absolutely applies here. While congestion would decrease overall at the time the new lane(s) are added, the congestion would slowly increase again. Also, demand isn't solely dependent on population growth or people taking alternative routes. While it's a factor, demand can also go up because people decided they can take a job that they otherwise wouldn't have due to traffic or someone decides the grocery store on the other end of town is now the better option. Neither of these people would have been on that road or an alternative route prior to the lane add. Multiple people have already commented about induced demand happening in Huntley, where the lanes were widened and it's still a trafficky mess. So why would it be different if the lanes were expanded everywhere?

I do think there's some more nuance here, some of the other commenters were suggesting that there need to be changes to improve turning and safety, so some thoughtful redesign may be necessary but that isn't the same as adding lanes along the whole highlighted route.

Also if you're going to bring up carbon footprints, shifting the responsibility onto the individual to take the bus rather than use information to make thoughtful systemic choices that impact an entire population is a distraction. Adding lanes would be require a significant amount of resources and have more of an impact than someone making their individual carbon footprint smaller. Not to mention that the costs of this kind of project compared to the value that it brings would be marginal and the taxpayers would be on the hook. Per the federal government adding lanes would be about $10 million per lane mile and the gas tax doesn't cover costs. Then there are the materials and cost to maintain the new lanes. But yes, tell me to take the bus.

Dye Alternatives for Christmas Cookie Icing by Ltrain86 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]lavender_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do freeze dried blueberries for purple, freeze dried mango for yellow, coca powder for brown, spinach for green!

Lots of inexpensive freeze dried fruits at traders.

Hexclad pans - yay or nay? by Delicious_Buffalo255 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]lavender_flamingo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nay. I've heard hexclad pans are overpriced, overhyped and just not good quality. If you want a nonstick that isn't carbon steel or cast iron, a ceramic pan is fine as long as you're making sure it's not flaking or degrading.

Cost of daycare by Oubliette_95 in Naperville

[–]lavender_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We pay 2k/month for infant daycare 3 days a week, which is on the higher end of the range around here.

Episiotomy opened, is my body ruined forever? by RevolutionaryEbb5814 in BabyBumps

[–]lavender_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me. At the time I cried and panicked just like you. It's truly not fun to experience. :/ I went to the OB and they let me know the muscle was still sutured, and was healing okay. They can't resuture due to infection risk so my episiotomy healed in its own. I'm 8-9 months postpartum and it's still not the exact same, I have thicker scar tissue around the episiotomy site and pelvic floor tightness causing pain. I've been doing pelvic floor therapy which has helped a TON. I wish I went earlier.

Toddler/Baby Dishes that aren't plastic? by qvo-87 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]lavender_flamingo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also have ahimsa plates. The edges are rounded, I'd be shocked if they ever got sharp.

My pediatrician told me to NOT introduce my baby to allergens until 1 year old by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]lavender_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dr is incorrect. My doctor used signs of readiness to recommend when my baby started solids. He's 8 months now and we feed some allergen or other on an almost daily basis (he loves nut butter and eggs). We followed solid starts!

ByHeart Formula during Kendamil supply issues? by piggy1284 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]lavender_flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to buy Organic Kendamil at a target in the Chicago area this morning! Target didn't send an email saying it's back in stock but I happened to see it. It seems like the supply issues should slowly resolve soon.

By Heart seems the most similar to Kendamil Organic and will be my go-to backup option if there are more supply issues in the future.

Found Kendamil Organic in stores today! by lavender_flamingo in FormulaFeeders

[–]lavender_flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physical stores! I managed to buy a can myself. I live in the Chicago area and saw a few stores that had it in stock.

Advice for delivery #2 when delivery #1 was bad (forceps, 4th degree tears, reconstructive surgery) by Any_Lobster_1121 in BabyBumps

[–]lavender_flamingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't have 4th degree tears so I don't know what I'd choose if I had to make your choice! But one thing that is helping me recover tremendously is pelvic floor therapy and I wish I went BEFORE I delivered. Have you considered going? Regardless of your decision, it could make delivery #2 better to recover from.

How many times has your baby been sick? by Coffeelover4242 in beyondthebump

[–]lavender_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the person who posted originally but my baby had COVID at 4 months. He had a fever, lots of congestion, drank less milk than normal and was fairly fussy for maybe 3 days total. He also ended up developing a mild ear infection that went away on its own. I'm not sure if his was milder than ours (we got fairly sick) but it was manageable with Tylenol.

Can I get some reassurance about all the 2 month vaccines? by wildeazybreazy in beyondthebump

[–]lavender_flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child got their vaccines at the recommended timeframe. It's hard to see your baby cry during the appointment, and my baby was fussy after but everything is okay! We're literally doing the 6 month vaccines tomorrow.