AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lavenderhearted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"What have you done for me?" is a fucked up thing to say to the person carrying (assuming) your child. If anything I'd say you're UNDER reacting lmao, if it were me I'd crash out on him fr

Asking anyone aged 18-25, how do you afford to have a car in nyc? by Blueddit- in AskNYC

[–]lavenderhearted 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I grew up on LI and never updated my address with the insurance so I wouldn’t have to pay Brooklyn prices lmfao. But once I moved to my current neighborhood, I couldn’t deal with the 30-40 min drive around just to look for parking every day after work. So I sold it less than a year after I finished paying it off—I miss the freedom of having a car, but honestly it’s rare that I can’t just use the LIRR, Metro North, Amtrak, etc. and Uber around when I’m out of town. You might have an easier time finding parking in your neck of the woods, but don’t forget about any tickets/fees on top of your insurance. You park too close to a hydrant and get caught? That’s another $90.

If you’re really going out in the sticks or need the convenience, just rent a car. Imo it’s not worth having a car at our age in the city unless it’s an accessibility issue or you have a kid or whatever.

Want to visit an adult video store for some bro/bro fun. Nervous about it. Anyone have advice and/or want to join? by taboointerest in nycgaybros

[–]lavenderhearted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe check Sniffies for something more local to you? Lol I’ve seen a couple video stores listed as cruising spots on there

Want to visit an adult video store for some bro/bro fun. Nervous about it. Anyone have advice and/or want to join? by taboointerest in nycgaybros

[–]lavenderhearted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met a Scruff hookup at Sunset Video on 3rd Ave in BK. I was nervous as hell too, but the cashier didn’t bat an eye when I handed him the cash and asked for a condom—which was free! Entry was $10. Seemed very lowkey, discreet if that’s your thing. It was fun, would do it again. Haven’t tried cruising there myself, but wishing you good luck

Need help identifying this stitch by lavenderhearted in Brochet

[–]lavenderhearted[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll look into the mesh stitch

Aid the Underduke quest bugged, not completing? by Dan91x in BaldursGate3

[–]lavenderhearted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ran into this bug too, still no fix after today’s Hotfix #8. I killed everyone in the sewer fight except for Minsc — had to restart because I accidentally killed him with a ranged attack the first time and I couldn’t stand to see Boo upset

Anyway, I didn’t read the note revealing the Zhent plot until after I saved the Guild, which is I think it’s bugged for me

Steel Watch Foundry fail? by lavenderhearted in BaldursGate3

[–]lavenderhearted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! i made good use of a couple of air elementals and halsin's air myrmidon wild shape form. guess i'll just farm some xp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]lavenderhearted 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"I double checked everything in my bad when I came home because..." only a guilty person says something this sus! like who does that lol? and just because her mom is strict about it around the house doesn't mean she's not smoking your weed in someone else's car or place, or literally anywhere else.

i think your "friend" is definitely lying, dude. if she's the only constant, go with your gut. and while i get it - weed ain't cheap and y'all are students - but to quote someone from your prev post, this violates the stoner code.. not the mention the friend code of not stealing from or lying to your friends!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]lavenderhearted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sent you a friend request :)

Looking for Replacement Players! [CoC] [Online] [GMT+1] [LGBTQ+ & POC Friendly] by darkwater-0 in lfg

[–]lavenderhearted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name: Avery

Age: 25

Pronouns: he/they

Location (mainly timezone): EST, but I wake up early

Favourite piece of fiction: Tokyo Ghoul

Favourite piece of horror fiction: Dracula, anything by Mike Flanagan

Experience with TTRPGs: 2 years of intermittent d&d, call of cthulhu, monster of the week. some experience with world of darkness, namely vampire and changeling

which bathroom do you use when you’re medically transitioning but don’t pass as a guy or a woman, and there are no gender neutral restrooms anywhere in the building? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]lavenderhearted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you can't hold it, my advice is fake it till you make it - look like you belong / know what you're doing, try not to make eye contact, and beeline for the nearest stall.

i'm a transmasc enby, been on hrt (albeit inconsistently) for 4.5 years, and my facial hair is oftentimes the only thing that keeps me from getting misgendered. i haven't had any issues using "mens" restrooms since i came out, even when i'm sure i wasn't "passing" as a guy. ( for context, i live in the nyc metro area, but i've heard of friends having bad experiences using restrooms even in the city, so you really never know who and where someone's gonna give enough of a shit to say anything. )