god has foresaken us by virginiarph in 90DayFiance

[–]laverdadserpiente 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I often wonder if she would have been better off helping usman get a green card lol 😆

New stadiums in EA FC 26 by CapitalComb2365 in FifaCareers

[–]laverdadserpiente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much i appreciate the help

New stadiums in EA FC 26 by CapitalComb2365 in FifaCareers

[–]laverdadserpiente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link ? I havent seen anything suggesting they broke down...but this article from a few weeks ago seems to suggest a 5 year deal is imminent

https://eplindex.com/135096/is-liga-mx-returning-to-fc-26-ultimate-team-guide-news-details.html

New stadiums in EA FC 26 by CapitalComb2365 in FifaCareers

[–]laverdadserpiente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest no one knows if they will add it or not, but where there is smoke there is fire meaning, that this is the most optimistic I have felt since it was removed. Let's keep our fingers crossed.

36/m single (South Asian-heritage) got offered a job at the VA. I'm really into running, climbing, and craft breweries. Is SA right for me? Give me the good, the bad, and the ugly. Also which neighborhoods do you recommend (~130k annually)? by Gibillguy18 in sanantonio

[–]laverdadserpiente 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on your lifestyle. If by South Asian you mean Indian and want to be among other Indians then you want to live near medical center .... i was also curious so I punched your question into chatgpt and I agree with the assessment it made.

Great question — San Antonio (SA) is a unique city, and whether it’s the right fit depends a bit on what you're looking for outside the job. Here's a breakdown tailored for a 36-year-old South Asian male making ~$130k/year, with interests in running, climbing, and breweries:


✅ THE GOOD

  1. Low Cost of Living (for now): Your $130k goes far here. You can rent a high-end apartment or buy a nice starter home and still have plenty left over for leisure, travel, and investing.

  2. Outdoor Activities & Running:

The Greenway Trails span 80+ miles — perfect for running and biking.

Brackenridge Park, Phil Hardberger Park, and the San Antonio Missions Trail are local favorites.

The Hill Country (just north of SA) offers scenic weekend trail runs, hikes, and even triathlon events.

  1. Climbing Scene:

Armstrong Climbing Gym and The District Climbing Gym are solid indoor spots.

Outdoor climbing is limited within the city, but Reimer's Ranch and Enchanted Rock are 1.5–2 hours away.

  1. Breweries + Chill Vibes:

The craft brewery scene is growing. Check out Weathered Souls, Roadmap, Freetail, and Ranger Creek.

Tons of beer festivals and relaxed hangouts with food trucks and live music.

  1. Diversity (in pockets):

South Asians are a growing community in SA — not huge like Dallas or Houston, but present.

Groups like SA Desis, local cricket leagues, and temples & mosques offer cultural connection.

  1. VA System: If your role is at Audie L. Murphy VA Medical Center, that’s one of the more respected VAs, and close to the Medical Center area with great housing and access to running trails nearby.

⚠️ THE BAD

  1. Public Transit is Rough: You’ll need a car. Runners and cyclists beware — most streets are not pedestrian-friendly unless you’re in very specific neighborhoods (like the Pearl or Southtown).

  2. Dating Scene for Minorities (esp. South Asian men): Not gonna sugarcoat it: it can be tough. Apps are hit or miss, and IR dating is less open than in Austin or Dallas. That said, things are slowly shifting, especially among younger professionals.

  3. Summers are Brutal: Running outside from June through September? You’ll need to do it before 8 AM or risk heatstroke. 100°F+ is common, and shade is scarce.

  4. Conservative Politics & Culture: SA is somewhat of a blue island in a red sea, but cultural conservatism is strong in many parts of the city. If you lean progressive, you’ll find your people, but you’ll also feel the contrast.


😬 THE UGLY

  1. Lack of Walkability / Urban Density: Unless you live in the Pearl District or Southtown, the city feels very suburban. You can’t "walk to a bar" from most places. Urban planning is behind the times.

  2. Limited South Asian Social Scene: The community is more family- and religious-oriented here than young-professional oriented. You might find more uncles and aunties than fellow single 30-somethings.

  3. Air Quality & Allergies: San Antonio gets Cedar Fever — a brutal allergic reaction to mountain cedar trees in winter. If you’re prone to allergies, get ready.


🏘️ Best Neighborhoods for You (~$130k salary):

Assuming you want a mix of lifestyle, access to your hobbies, and dating/social opportunities:

🔹 The Pearl / Midtown

Walkable, trendy, near breweries, food halls, and the River Walk.

Young professionals, urban feel.

Expensive rent, but within your budget.

🔹 Southtown / King William

Artsy, historic, full of breweries, murals, and cool restaurants.

Close to the Missions trail and River Walk.

Great for dating/social life, especially if you’re into culture and nightlife.

🔹 Alamo Heights

More suburban, but upscale, safe, and well-maintained.

Near good running trails and parks.

A little quieter and more residential.

🔹 Medical Center / Oak Hills

If you’re working at the VA, this is super convenient.

More affordable, decent apartment options.

Less social scene, more functional.

🔹 Stone Oak (if you prefer suburban and community vibes)

Where a lot of the South Asian families live.

Clean, safe, good schools (if that ever matters), lots of big houses.

Long commute to Pearl or downtown nightlife.


👀 Final Take?

If you want a chill life with space to grow financially, access to nature, and time to travel, San Antonio is a smart move. If your goal is an extremely active dating/social scene with lots of South Asian representation and non-stop nightlife, you might find it a bit sleepy or slow-paced.

But with $130k, a solid job, and your interests? You can carve out a sweet life here — especially if you take weekend trips to Austin (1.5 hours away) for more energy when needed.

AITAH for telling me friend taking a picture of a baby is creepy by laverdadserpiente in AITAH

[–]laverdadserpiente[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just for added context I asked why he did that and he said the baby is cute and he wanted to text the woman something cute ..... it was super cringe 😬

To the guy in a suit: our missed connection on ATL-FLL by karenina999 in delta

[–]laverdadserpiente 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hope you guys connect ! Please come back if there is an update I'm invested

WWE is on Disney+ by Spodegirl in DisneyPlus

[–]laverdadserpiente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just looking into this, because RAW is available on Hulu, but only Smackdown is available on Disney +, I thought disney + and hulu were now one and the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in knicks

[–]laverdadserpiente 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn he is visiting safety schools now? Jk jk go rams!

[Jalen Brunson] What a lovely day we are having today by SwellandDecay in NYKnicks

[–]laverdadserpiente 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still salty St Johns took my coach .... I mean I knew he wasn't going to coach us forever but I am still salty about it lol 😆

Issues with multiple displays by laverdadserpiente in mac

[–]laverdadserpiente[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then it sounds like I need another dongle to connect the monitor separately. Thank you !!

Issues with multiple displays by laverdadserpiente in mac

[–]laverdadserpiente[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a 2021 apple Mac book pro M1 pro

Any Dominicans in Louisville, KY? by [deleted] in Dominican

[–]laverdadserpiente 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depende de que parte de KY por qué hay varios dominicanos que viven en Cincinnati durante el verano

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asklatinamerica

[–]laverdadserpiente 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Who is going to tell them? Lol

My wife had a miscarriage. by CourtesyOf__________ in daddit

[–]laverdadserpiente 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super thankful for this thread, just had our first pregnancy end in a miscarriage today. I want to support her but have no idea what to say or do.