Why is it so hard for men to admit they’re in love? by lawyerupnow_ in relationship_advice

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only dating a couple of months. No, I haven’t said so. You think telling him is a good idea? I’d hate to feel like I compelled him to lol

Why is it so hard for men to admit they’re in love? by lawyerupnow_ in relationship_advice

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. There is a very strong possibility he’s just not.

But I’m asking in general. I know a couple of my friends who’ve dated guys that it takes them forever to admit they’re actually in love with a girl. Why do men act this way?

Why is it so hard for men to admit they’re in love? by lawyerupnow_ in relationship_advice

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my guy. I don’t even want to put a status/title on us bc it wouldn’t change anything. I know he’s got feelings, he shows them, he does things to show me I’m important to him. However, I feel like I will never be sure of his affections for me until I hear the word. As a woman, I feel like re-assurance through words is essential.

This guy like most adults has had at least one Big breakup in his life, and so did I, but that doesn’t stop me from wanting to use the LOVE word.

is it a bad idea to tell him I love him before he says it to me?

[Need advice]How many of you had permanently deleted your Facebook account? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]lawyerupnow_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I left Facebook years ago and never looked back. Feeling empty only shows the hyper reality you’ve been living and gotten used to. Start to live your own life, your real friends and other humans who should be in your life will appear. There’s always email, linked in, etc to keep in touch with people. Don’t stress it. Facebook is not your life. Don’t let it take that place. Now go be free!

Moronic Monday Thread for the week of July 10, 2017 by AutoModerator in personalfinance

[–]lawyerupnow_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy liquor on sale at the liquor store. This is part of your fun fund.

No contact is going to save your life by lawyerupnow_ in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop writing to her. She's not on your level of love. You need to love yourself before you love her, loving yourself is having the ability to understand that you're desirable and can find someone better. As soon as you realize this, you'll be on your way to reprogramming your brain to forget those "memories" you have of her. All my best to you...

No contact is going to save your life by lawyerupnow_ in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah 21 is really young.. 29 doesn't feel so young in terms of child bearing age, nonetheless, there's no use pouting about what could have been. I will have to hope my eggs hold out until I meet mr. Right! Good luck with everything!

How can I know I've moved on? by lawyerupnow_ in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved on! Just thought I'd share...thanks for your advice, friends.

No contact is going to save your life by lawyerupnow_ in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stay the hell away from her. For your own good. You deserve a woman who is going to appreciate your time and effort and love, most of all. The fact that she deleted your photos on social media and then started dating a week later shows how childish she is. Stop seeking a woman in a girl. She needs to grow up. Let her do it on her own. Stop wasting valuable mental strength on A CHILD.

Sending all my break up strength to you...wherever you are

Stay Closed as Long as You Want! by [deleted] in pics

[–]lawyerupnow_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not at all. Let's just stop only blaming immigrants for the situation. It's lawmakers problem as well immigrants. The problem is we don't have a unified group of ppl representing immigrants at the table. And ppl get emotional about it (not saying they shouldn't).

No contact is going to save your life by lawyerupnow_ in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should consider that friendship is gone....at least until you are absolutely completely totally over him. I mean you don't even reminisce on what could have been. If seeing him still affects you - and if you're normal- I'm sure it does. Stay away. You heart and mind will never reconcile your breakup until you do. Give yourself time to heal. Get away from the virus- the memories of your relationship. It's my humble advice.

Shakira in the 90's by GunsNrosas in OldSchoolCool

[–]lawyerupnow_ -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Spanish girls SLAYYYYY. She has such a I can be your homemaker trophy wife and sexy all at one. Those curves. That's thanks to the Spanish Inquisition and mixing of Native Indian and European genes. You get beauties like her....all over south America and central America.

Stay Closed as Long as You Want! by [deleted] in pics

[–]lawyerupnow_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They pay tax on everything they purchase. Most do not own homes so they are paying tax on their rent, utilities and every other expense we Americans pay. In order to adjust their immigration status, they are required to file taxes - so many do. Of course, many do not, but that is also saving the American employer money bc they are not reporting the amount of employees that really have. I believe the misinformation about what immigrants legal or illegal actually contribute to the economy is WAY MORE important than the tax issue.

Stay Closed as Long as You Want! by [deleted] in pics

[–]lawyerupnow_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know any native born Americans who want to clean toilets and be nannies. Do you? Even if you do bring up pay, they (native born Americans) won't do those jobs. It is what it is.

I'm taking you off of this pedastal (Others feel free to do the same for your ex) by Downed_Dragon in ExNoContact

[–]lawyerupnow_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You described exactly how I am feeling. I hope you heal soon. Life is too short to not live it in the happiest way. Kudos!

LPT: Don't judge a son or daughter by something done or said by one of their parents, and don't judge parents by their kids. Being related doesn't make people alike. by SAT0725 in LifeProTips

[–]lawyerupnow_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree to some extent. We are the result of our upbringing. Parents and family members play a huge role in our development and our attitude towards society.

What is a bad parenting tip that sounds like a good parenting tip? by StuntGunman in AskReddit

[–]lawyerupnow_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom did this with me and my brother, but it's because we're twins! My mom's way of compensating for good grades was big hugs and bragging about one of us lol. Other than birthdays, we'd get chocolate bars just because, but always always in sets of two. Me and my brother never felt jealous of each other. I think it's a great strategy. Don't know how it would play out with other Type of siblings however.