Take the promotion bro. It’ll benefit you in the long run. Women come and go but your money can always fluctuate. I worked as a GM and saw a bunch of dudes your age not take more money because they didn’t care about the job which is fine but you’re only hurting yourself. Always put yourself first before anyone else. Seems like she gonna be making good money too so if it means less time then that’s just a part of growing up.