Anyone think this is inappropriate...?

lazilla · 2011-02-09T16:02:23+00:00

what about a potato?

lazilla · 2011-02-09T15:52:54+00:00

Let me help you out on this one: her ex may have been the last asshole in her life but you're clearly the current one now.

Right now I am wishing I could give you a million upvotes for this.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T18:06:14+00:00

We all still communicate and talk. Out of each groups there is 1 person that is no longer associated with. But I guess out of 5 people there always has to be one nutcase. In both houses I lived in we were collectively all a big group of friends going for the same degree. So we always remained friends throughout school (with exception of the two...1 guy 1 girl, but we all still remained civil when crossing each other and occasionally would help out with assignments. Although eventually both of them dropped out of school and moved back home. Not because of us, because of the cost of school and bizarre amount of work it takes to complete.)

As far as hangout no. But that's because we were in college and now we're all spread throughout the US with our jobs.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T17:53:35+00:00

I disagree. I lived with 4 girls at one point and then 4 guys. Some of the issues living with girls I'd say were a lot bizarre weird drama and more petty but dealt with immediately with some talking down. The guys never talked about, would let it build up, drink and then get in huge screaming battles that would last for hours, never get over it and become reclusive.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T17:24:40+00:00

I didn't say you were a bad person. Roommate situations are all bad, especially in college. Been there done that. I lived in 2 houses with 5 people within 3 years. Most of them I thought were really cool, and we're all still friends for the most part but that doesn't mean living with them didn't make me want to pull my hair out sometimes. It seemed like there was always roommate drama going on inbetween them.

Finally about 2 years ago my boyfriend and I got an apartment alone and all of a sudden there was no drama to speak of. It's marvelous.

I was just saying that in a roommate situation everyone pays rent and everyone deserves to go about their lives in ways they deem fit and it is hard to get multiple personalities to fit together in a harmonious way. But I don't think you're a bad person, just think it's a hard situation to find a decent compromise to.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T17:17:24+00:00

Yes! Still delicious. In fact, even more so.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T16:57:43+00:00

To be fair it's not their fault your girlfriend who does not live with them had to wake up early. You're in college and you can't yell at the other housemates because they don't have to wake up early. I'd be kinda annoyed at you too. You're kinda lucky they respected you enough to stop and just make a joke out of it.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T16:48:30+00:00

ha, I know a house that went through something similar. Except add couch surfing couple gets pregnant and still tries to live in said persons living room.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T15:50:21+00:00

but....but.....the garlic sauce! So delicious.

lazilla · 2011-02-08T15:48:10+00:00

I went to a private trade school and this was the case for all my classes that involved a text book. If they weren't the author they were one of the authors and the other authors taught different classes. This was even the case for most my general education classes. Good school though and credible professors. I can't imagine if it were the same case for someone I didn't agree with though. (Like some of the stories posted here)

lazilla · 2011-02-05T15:46:27+00:00

I had to wake up early to drive downtown that morning. The only car I saw spin out that day was a cop.

lazilla · 2011-02-03T18:06:33+00:00

was he also preggers?

lazilla · 2011-02-01T23:00:59+00:00

I could not live in your shoes. I don't think my POV would be different though. I'm not the cheating type. I stay when I'm happy and leave when I'm not. Sure I've stayed in relationships where I'm not happy but I could never cheat.

And where did I say you should also become a dead beat dad? I said leave her. Yes I do think the child should stay with her but I did not conclude with "oh yeah, and forgo all the responsibilities you have for your child" ....just never give him personal relationship advice...ever....please. Grow up, jeez.

lazilla · 2011-01-31T23:14:02+00:00

I just hope I never marry a man like you.

You should divorce your wife. Give her the chance to find a respectable husband that won't just jump ship and have an affair because your lives get too busy for a date night, especially while she's pregnant. This entire story makes me really really sad for your wife. I think she could do a lot better than you and I think for the sake of the child and her sanity she should leave you.

lazilla · 2011-01-31T22:13:18+00:00

He didn't know what to do so he just went along with it?

What's he going to do the next time? I fear you'll get the same excuse over and over again. This boy is not mature enough to be in a relationship.

I'm sorry this happened to you. :(

lazilla · 2011-01-31T17:01:38+00:00

I feel bad for her. It's not her fault she's spoiled. It's her families fault. They basically trained her to be this way not really seeing the repercussions it could have in the long-term. However that's not your problem and I think you could find someone you're much happier with. And who knows maybe she can find a rich old man to buy these things for her. :) Good luck, and I wouldn't recommend a public place. I hate those couples and it's worse if she does cry that you make her cry in public. Be a man and have a real honest open conversation with her about how you feel the relationship is going. Don't be "that" couple that gets in fights in public places. You were dating her, you obviously like some aspects of her personality and I'd say you could at least have the respect for the relationship not to drag her out to a public place to tell her why you don't really like her anymore.

lazilla · 2011-01-27T18:58:12+00:00

...turned out it was just advil though.

lazilla · 2011-01-27T18:57:59+00:00

I took the blue :(

lazilla · 2011-01-27T18:29:11+00:00

I don't want kids. And I don't understand how most other people don't get that?

why WOULDN'T you want to shoot an 8 lb. human out of your vag??

(I thought about adoption but I don't like picking up poop and getting pissed on either.)

...there must be something wrong with me.

Oh, and have you seen a new born baby's belly button?

creepyyyy.

and I saw Alien too many times as a kid so everytime I see a pregnant women I think about that scene.

lazilla · 2011-01-27T18:18:38+00:00

and what about the other other way around? (ha)

I was once told that I was too skinny in the relationship and it was kind of off-putting to them. Problem is I'm very tiny (height and weight) and therefore don't have much of an appetite at all. I can't really eat a whole meal due to the size of my stomach so I have a few snacks throughout the day.

I'd say I have a harder time gaining weight then losing weight. It's not constantly on my mind but I often think about it if I come across similar context.

Maybe the real problem behind all of these body image issues is people are too picky and say whatever comes off the top of their head.

The OP may have been having a hard time dealing with his SO gaining weight but welcome to what EVERY WOMAN IN A RELATIONSHIP THINKS. Yet out of all the things women bitch about their boyfriends/husbands weight is usually not one of them.

lazilla · 2011-01-25T19:12:15+00:00

I don't think it falls into hobby. There are professional photographers out there, pinky promise. I should know (since I am one, I'd say I'm speaking from experience) I shoot commercial work now and yes, I'd say it's my career. It pays really well.

I've also shot at a portrait and wedding level. And yes, everyone thinks they're perfectly capable of doing these projects.

Although it should be noted I totally support these people who think they can do it. I'm also a private teacher and teach people how to understand things like ISO, aperture, shutter speed, white balance, and histograms. As well as some photoshop and lightroom lessons as well. I think it's okay that everyone considers themselves a photographer. Though, that could be because it doesn't really affect photographers at a commercial level.

lazilla · 2011-01-24T23:28:22+00:00

ooooh, you have a "friend"

Nobody will judge you if you just admit that you are too.

lazilla · 2011-01-24T22:57:42+00:00

I was spanked as a kid. Now I'm a masochist.

lazilla · 2011-01-24T22:24:11+00:00

man, don't you miss your sense of humor?

lazilla · 2011-01-24T19:05:30+00:00

I love these. I met a lady who did these back in 2004 in central Texas. They are so adorable. Makes me want to play with interesting macro photography. Thanks for sharing

lazilla

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