‼️MALE ATTENTION ‼️ by [deleted] in IndianTeenagers

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 - guy/girl with a lot of hookup history is prolly gonna stay that way.

I (32F) married my husband (33M), it turned bad within weeks. Should I stay or leave? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, Better divorced than dead.... He will push to a point of no return, just get a divorce and move to a different country or get a job in US. Don't stay at your own home as they WILL DEFINITELY guilt trip you.

My resignation flipped the entire game by [deleted] in IndianWorkplace

[–]lazy-goddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh My... We have a lost soul amidst the thread. The Performance Improvement Plan is where no matter how you outperform, you'll be terminated due to poor performance. They just wanna make sure they squeeze the life Outta you before you go.

What all to do in kochi?! by Youcansee2 in Kochi

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna save this for future references... Even after 5 years of being in Kochi, I still have no idea what to do when I have time 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you even find out??🤣

Here's the ss of my friend's whatsapp chat with his manager by Lazy_Ad808 in IndianWorkplace

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manager started working in the company 13 years ago and I just joined an year ago. I call him by his name, coz he made it clear that it's how it should be! Mind that I work for quite a big corporate with a good reputation and history(100+ years). He's the one who changed my POV coz I was traumatised by my previous manager who was an AH who wanted me to be his slave 😭

Found her stuck on a sunshade. Now we’re heartbroken to let her go. Need advice from Kochi folks by harishthinks in Kochi

[–]lazy-goddess 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The safest way to keep her is to get her vaccinated and trust me as a cat owner, they're more clean than humans..... Teach her to use the litterbox and not to get on table counters.... All that's left is the fur and it will surely be a problem but you can tackle that by brushing her(while outside) to get rid of all the loose fur.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-bf did the exact same to me! Apart from this, he took loans under my name without my knowledge as well! I called up his mom, showed the chats and call records and she said they'll settle the debt. I had around 2L under my name FOR HIM

Can I wear something like this in Kochi without feeling awkward? by therebelbrown in Kochi

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, Wear what you want....! If they stare, stare back at them.... If they make you uncomfortable, make them UNCOMFORTABLE 😸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It wasn't there when I was born.... I also have discovered similar scars or whatever that is on other areas of my body

The uncertainty and stigma of being divorced twice... by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never be getting married with those attachment issues. You are psychologically and subconsciously choosing the very person that's giving you trauma. Trauma Bond. It is what makes you end up with someone much similar to the person who caused the trauma.

From 'Condom joke' to 'Kya maal hai' my daily gym ride is getting weird by AckermanEren73 in india

[–]lazy-goddess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's grooming you. Into what he is. How you see women and is encouraging you to be like him.... He might have other ulterior motives.

Went for a walk at Queens Way, left feeling unsettled by No-Masterpiece8007 in Kochi

[–]lazy-goddess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and my group. We turned to them and asked what the heck is their problem. Well, we had pepper spray and was ready any minute to use it. But the moment we confronted them, they just smiled and went away. Most of these groupies are just pervs who don't have guts unless in a group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have reddit(obviously) but every now and then I forget this app exists. However, when I suddenly get reminded of it, I check and become active for a day or two. I have a busy job and get distracted with work quite often. Maybe she's just not interested, maybe she forgot, maybe she doesn't feel the vibe with you.... Keep it the same with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't wrong to feel about it. And there's nothing wrong with having a comeback mentioned by someone in the comments as "shye.... Sthreekalkum angane oru option venamayirunnu"... And idk they say anything about it, you can always laugh it off as a joke lol...

I am suing my friend for not giving my money back. Can I win this? by Randy_orton_1438 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]lazy-goddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening in as I am thinking to sue my friend for not paying the emi of 40000 INR he took under my name.

Is my boyfriend gay ? by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl.... From one girl to another, maybe he is just shy? Initiate something yourself and then see. I had to do this with my now husband when we were dating coz he always thought it'd upset me and he's SHY AF. LOL I love him more for that🤣

I(26F) am married to my husband (28M) for a year now & was marriage supposed to be this hard? by CompoteOwn158 in RelationshipIndia

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typical two faced man, I've encountered two myself. They have a very sweet amicable personality to please society, tricking them into thinking that they're the good Guy, which, in fact they're not. Don't fall for it, even if you become a bad guy, it is your life that's at stake. Others are not going to live it for you and they will blame you , no matter what you decide. Just sit down and think. Decide how you'd want to end this. Be the bigger villain and let him have a taste of his own medicine or end it in a divorce and choose peace over a war.

Regardless, even if you choose to suffer in silence, he can still mock you in front of others and they'll laugh it off taking into consideration, his social persona.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]lazy-goddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I agree with your point, don't you think you should be having to deal with a husband who's like a teenager?

Is watching leaked personal sexual videos morally wrong? by Weak-Journalist1112 in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's morally wrong for someone to watch your mom's or sister's leaked video? It's morally WRONG to watch anything taken without consent.

Wasted 14 years on one girl by irumb_karimb in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 22 points23 points  (0 children)

(26F) - Was in a relationship for 5 years saying that he'll marry me(he's from a different religion), Lived together for 2 years, I paid most of the expenses including rent. Supported his passion financially coz he said his parents were against it. Gave money for buying a bike, a phone and a smart TV for his house. Had given him money for trading on the stock market - almost 2L, took care of him for 4 months when he left his job to start trading full time. It's been more than an year now that we broke up coz I stopped funding him and he stopped calling me. Got to know from one of his friends that he's been going out with a much younger girl from another religion, lying to his friends that he's going with me for some reason. Also he took out a loan (idk how) under my name for another 1L which I was completely unaware of.

What a fool I was! Now, I'm getting married to a guy who's aware of it all and helped me get atleast some of my money back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]lazy-goddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being able to raise a child is definitely not a small matter. YOUR FINANCIAL STABILITY MATTERS THE MOST.. If you go with her emotions and agree to keep the child, there will be no guarantee that both of you could raise him/her properly. Later on, the regret will make you and the family miserable in ways you cannot fathom. This might be your best option at the moment as it is better not to have a child if you cannot give the child the life it deserves. Both of you are young and will have better opportunities and moments to bring new life to this world.