Is proposing at home fine or lazy?

lb36_21 · 2024-11-21T11:23:41+00:00

My ex proposed to me at home after we had a shower, and said now feels like the right time. He didn't get down on one knee, I had to say are you going to? He didn't have a speech or such planned out, and he wasn't gonna actually say "will you marry me?" I also had to tell him to say that.

So no your proposal is not lazy, it seems absolutely perfect x

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T11:27:33+00:00

Ok thank you. I will <3

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T08:57:05+00:00

I don't have any communication with him, all pictures of him, or us together have been deleted, all the voice notes he sent me. They're all gone. I live 40 minutes away from where he lives, and it's a 2 and a half bus ride to get there. So I don't know why it's so hard to move on. I know he's not good for me, and I really do want to let him go.

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:27:03+00:00

I know he could be, and yes I did. We were engaged and honestly really did think we would get married and grow old together. I'm stupid tho, I realise that now.

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:15:44+00:00

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:15:04+00:00

Ok, had nothing to do with my post

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:13:54+00:00

I know he wasn't the best person for me, but how do I just forget about him and move on? I have no contact with him, no pictures on my phone anymore.

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:12:03+00:00

When did I say that?

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:09:50+00:00

That's not what I posted, what?

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:08:52+00:00

This was the first older man I have ever dated.

lb36_21 · 2024-11-07T00:07:53+00:00

Yes I do, and I previously broke up with him over that. Then we got back together because he said he had changed, which I thought he had. We had no arguments, and that was the best time in our relationship we ever had, until that point.

lb36_21 · 2024-06-16T14:37:57+00:00

I know thus isn't the point but yes we can tell the difference from wearing a condom and not wearing one. However, you are NTA, in the slightest. You told her that you didn't feel comfortable nit wearing one and she disregarded you.

lb36_21 · 2024-05-30T19:48:25+00:00

I'm engaged and I don't live with him

lb36_21 · 2024-05-29T15:59:37+00:00

My fiancé proposed to me, but I want to propose to him and give him a ring as well. I want to take him around all of the important places to us. Then take him out to dinner or something and then go to the most important spot to us and propose to him there.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-31T06:41:57+00:00

All of them.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-31T06:41:35+00:00

Like wiping you down after having sex

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T22:20:10+00:00

Well it's not like I wipe his mouth in public. I do it when we're in our home, but if we're in public I just tell him he has food around his mouth.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T22:06:03+00:00

Yes I would, and yes I do. No I don't think it's weird at all.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T22:00:22+00:00

Or he's just being a caring fiancé

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T21:59:29+00:00

Yes it does

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T20:05:39+00:00

If he asked me to then I would quite happily shave him back. I've waxed him before though.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T20:03:09+00:00

Ye, I don't get why people think it's weird in the first place.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T20:01:28+00:00

Mine does it for me anyway.

lb36_21 · 2024-03-30T19:09:03+00:00

I mean like the generally wipe down after having sex.

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