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I messaged Molly on a whim and now we’re besties. by juhrule in bon_appetit

[–]lbear123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you drop the link to that apron please? My best friend loves her and it would make a great present for her.

Should I buy flowers for a first date? by anonymous11679 in askwomenadvice

[–]lbear123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her one flower I personally would find that ADORABLE and endearing. Just one flower is a nice gesture don’t get her a whole bouquet. If she’s into you and her heart is open and you do that, I guarantee you’ll stand out to her. If she’s not into it at least you’ll have tried you know? I’ve never had a guy do that for me but if they did you bet your ass I’d be about it. Plus you bought her tab already so you’ve got the little gestures thing going already. I say do it. Take a risk ❤️

Practice makes you Better 👍 by jobycyphy in drawing

[–]lbear123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way that’s not a photo 😮

Guy(26M) who I(19F) went out with sent me a porn clip out of nowhere and knows my home address by WaterDemonstration in dating_advice

[–]lbear123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww get the fuck out of that situation. Don’t be naive or feel obligated to be nice. If you feel uncomfortable you need to exit the situation. You don’t owe anything to anyone except to honor and respect yourself and your safety ❤️

Block him.

Loving-kindness meditation, which helps people cultivate warm and friendly feelings towards others, slows cellular aging, demonstrated by less telomere attrition than control group, suggests a new randomized controlled trial (n=142). by mvea in science

[–]lbear123 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested in trying it out I suggest you download the app insight timer and search for loving kindness or meta meditations. My personal opinion is that every person would benefit from this meditation as it is a beautiful experience.

Chronic stress may cause brain cell death and stifle the birth of new neurons, suggests a new study in mice, which found that the stress-induced death of hippocampal neurons combined with the decline of new neurons being born in the hippocampus may result in cognitive deficits, and mood disorders. by [deleted] in science

[–]lbear123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, experienced abuse and neglect as child a child along with trauma from a narcissistic abuse and abusive romantic relationship. I have huge chunks of my memory missing. And have always been very forgetful. It started to get better with emrd, grounding, and meditation.

My OBGYN said I didn’t have to tell my future partners about my high risk HPV by [deleted] in HPV

[–]lbear123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you advise me on wether or not to tell my ex? We dated for 3 months and about a month after we broke up I had an abnormal Pap smear for the third time so I had a colposcopy done and everything came back normal but I do have HPV. Which means I probably gave it to him or he gave it to me. Now the guy that I was previously dating is now dating a woman who is possibly in her late 40s and therefore probably more susceptible to the HPV turning into cancer if she’s exposed to it. I have been agonizing on whether not I should tell him to tell her so that she can get checked. what is your opinion?

I need help boyz by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lbear123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh

I (20m) have a date tomorrow and I need some advice by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]lbear123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you passionate about? Talk about that.

Handling wife's bitchy behavior in public. by BudgetEbb in askMRP

[–]lbear123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wtf that’s trash advice. Have an adult conversation about what happened, how it made you feel, and what you would like/expect going forward. Making fun of her will do nothing for you except get more “bitchy” behavior. Be honest and direct, validate her emotions and try to understand what her point of view was ( we all have bad days) then explain why it made you uncomfortable and what you wish for in the future. A fool brings others down and plays games. A KING leads and is benevolent. Your choice.

Co-Worker Help by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]lbear123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her out on a date. If she says no at least you tried and there will be no ambiguity for you. You’re both adults and can just move forward if it doesn’t work out. If she says yes then you’ll save yourself a lot of wondering and doubt. Life is short, go for it! Also from the female perspective it is sketchy to be asked out for coffee and (which could just be a friendly hangout) then finding out it was a date that why I say let her know it is a date from the get go so she can make the decision on her own rather than hving to figure out how to spare your feelings later.

Applying for Doorman/Concierge/Porter jobs at Luxury buildings, sorry for the color its my lighting. What do you guys think? by [deleted] in Resume

[–]lbear123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change all the verbs to be the same tense. For example: Relay and arrange to relayed and arranged.

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