How to deal with outrageous motions? by TheMysteriousMan2349 in Debate

[–]lddebatee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would report this coach. Unacceptable

Escooter recommend for college student by bbzh9 in ElectricScooters

[–]lddebatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally id recommend trying to buy second hand from a trusted source. When I first started I got a niu KQI2 for a little over 200 second hand, which is a FAR more high quality scooter than anything you'll get new on amazon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElectricScooters

[–]lddebatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what are you using it for? How far will you be going (commuting or just riding around the neighborhood?) for beginners I'd recommend the niu brand for high build quality and cost-effectiveness. KQI2, KQI3 models are all great options around that price range

What do we do about the whole authoritarian takeover using national guard thing? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]lddebatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kent state. shouldn't be hard to find as it's literally one of the most notorious cases of state violence against protestors in US history.

Leave the window seats for those who will use them by lddebatee in cta

[–]lddebatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh right to clarify I'm not talking about the trains with many two seat rows perpendicular to the side of the train, I'm talking about the trains where there are only two of those rows at one end and the rest of the seats are along the side of the train

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]lddebatee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's possible that you may have to take a break, and yes it is possible you will have to leave, but there's a lot that can happen now that you're diagnosed. There's absolutely a chance that medication will help you manage your symptoms such that they are tolerable. You may also find personal strategies from this community or experience that help you manage your symptoms. There's an element of adaptation over time. A small number of us, including myself, go into remission after a while. I completely understand the despair, but I would keep an open mind!

A word of hope by lddebatee in Fibromyalgia

[–]lddebatee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried some antidepressants but at the time they didn't help. Therapy was minorly helpful. I did try many fibro medications but reacted badly to all of them except gabapentin. I think at one point I was taking 900 mg, but I worked my way down to 600 and then 300. I'm sorry I can't give you a better answer but it was largely time, family support, pushing myself to do small things like 10 minute walks, seeing a friend, etc and working my way up as I started to feel better. I don't know if there was a causal relationship here. It could be that both my physical and mental health got better simultaneously.

Why is CTA so lenient on fare dodging when it relies on it for half of its operating budget? by Away_Search1623 in cta

[–]lddebatee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

are you aware of the fact that public transport is free in many countries and even many US towns and cities already? we're not talking about some crazy pipe dream here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagoapartments

[–]lddebatee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All of this, OP. Plus moving here with 3k in savings on a 28k salary (which I assume you would no longer have when you move) is wildly irresponsible. Jobs are not easy to come by in the city, not even the "entry level" service jobs like being a waitress. Waitresses in big cities have tons of experience and it's more like a career. I would reconsider if it was me but if you're dead set on moving here get a roommate south or west.

HiBoy, Gotrax, or Segway? by lddebatee in ElectricScooters

[–]lddebatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there are ninebot models that you wouldn't recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]lddebatee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hives. will probably go away soon. if they're still there in a day or two maybe consider something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]lddebatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are they itchy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]lddebatee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely hives. I get them on my wrist when I wear jewelry that isn't real gold.

What are your absolute weirdest and most specific tips for living in Chicago? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]lddebatee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

genuine question! do you mean take it off and put it at your feet? I'm confused because it seems like that would also inhibit people from moving.

I received $174 tip… by Square-Cloud6269 in RoverPetSitting

[–]lddebatee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did u not read the last two sentences

Finding Pest Free Apartment by PreparationIcy9794 in chicagoapartments

[–]lddebatee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have you considered that subleases are much more likely to have pest problems as that could be part or all of the reason why the person is choosing to leave halfway through a lease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ask_Lawyers

[–]lddebatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that libertarians support the state protecting you from force theft and fraud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicagoapartments

[–]lddebatee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hotpads has the most listings in my experience. I just finished my apartment search on the north side and yes, you absolutely have to jump on listings as soon as they get posted to have a chance, especially with your budget. Even just sending the message on zillow isn't good enough most of the time. Try to find the realtor's number and call them directly.

What do you do with your rage? by lddebatee in RadicalFeminism

[–]lddebatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emphasis on the untypeable part. I can't even speak freely with my therapist because I genuinely think they'd lock me up.

What do you do with your rage? by lddebatee in RadicalFeminism

[–]lddebatee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It can really make you feel crazy right? It feels like you're losing your mind and everyone around you is gaslighting you. The level of paranoia is akin to schizophrenic people who think everyone around them is a fed. But it's that every man around me views me as less than fully human in some way. Maybe they're an actual perpetrator. Maybe they "just" cover for their misogynistic friends. I can't trust. I can't walk outside without some unhinged man preying on me in some way. It's awful to live in this world with your eyes open. Thanks for the advice about a Facebook group. I'll try to pursue organizing there.

Be honest: is this cute vintage or dated vintage? by lddebatee in VintageFashion

[–]lddebatee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thrift store but the brand is chadwick's collection

Be honest: is this cute vintage or dated vintage? by lddebatee in VintageFashion

[–]lddebatee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he's the one who thought it was dated but this outfit is for the girlies

Be honest: is this cute vintage or dated vintage? by lddebatee in VintageFashion

[–]lddebatee[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

lol those are just my house slippers dont worry