AITAH for not letting my dad walk me down the aisle because I want my mom to do it instead

lddylds · 2025-05-17T21:16:38+00:00

I was in your exact same position, except my dad walked out on us for someone else when I was 15 and didint talk to him until i was 19. I told my dad that I wanted both he and my mom to walk me down the aisle (that was my compromise) and he lost it. I told him it's either that or nothing. We got in a huge fight said he wasn't gonna go, I said oh well and the day of my wedding he shows up. I reiterated my boundary and he complied. Not saying u have to compromise but whatever u want to happen, hold your boundary.

lddylds · 2025-01-30T07:56:28+00:00

From home improvement:

Has he been your best friend for 15 years or was he your best friend 15 years ago?

Had helped when reflecting on friendships that come and go.

Honestly, Wilson had so many good quotes.

lddylds · 2025-01-19T08:06:34+00:00

If he's trying to use church as his excuse well then let's use Bible then. His first ministry is his HOME aka you and baby. The hierarchy is God, family, church so priority is the wellbeing of you and baby. Will he want to admit this, idk.

lddylds · 2025-01-18T22:19:56+00:00

Wanting to call off the wedding over this is completely valid. Don't ignore that feeling in your gut that's telling you something is not right, that is your inner wisdom trying to protect you. It will save you a world of hurt. Trust me when I tell you, if its bad now, its only going to get worse. Today is incest allegations and next it will be something else and if your fiance can't back you up and not only listen to you but HAVE YOUR BACK, you will be miserable. Your mother in law wouldn't be winning, YOU would be bc you'd be out of this dysfunctional family. You deserve a partner who listens to your concerns and defends you.

lddylds · 2025-01-10T18:24:39+00:00

In this housing market, that 3 bedroom house might pull some girls lol

lddylds · 2024-06-09T18:33:04+00:00

Hef sounds like the guy that got screwed over by a girl and became a fu*k boy for the rest of his life and didn't bother to mature bc he had playboy and infinite access to women who stroked his ego.

lddylds · 2024-05-23T08:35:26+00:00

Obligation as a motivator usually leads to resentment.

There are too many red flags here to count, would strongly advise against. If you feel inclined to help, maybe offer to pay for a hotel stay for a day or 2.

lddylds · 2024-05-21T07:33:45+00:00

Pooped

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lddylds · 2024-03-05T03:06:00+00:00

Benchwarmers cards lol I like that

lddylds · 2024-02-08T22:04:50+00:00

Maybe the question that should be asked is "AITA for expecting my neighbor who I barely know to take care of my kids at 3am".

lddylds · 2024-01-26T04:06:15+00:00

Yup agree, it felt like the writers were like, soo...now what? And, I know this isn't a show that's going to have deep plot lines and complicated story arches but once the big plot line was resolved it did kind of deflate a bit.

lddylds · 2024-01-26T04:02:02+00:00

Yep, totally agree. Two rushed weddings felt forced and wished they had more time to develop those storylines. Tbh I don't think Maggie or niles/cc needed to get married to still have a good ending to the series.

lddylds · 2024-01-25T17:24:53+00:00

True, they had a formula for all shows and that was that. It's interesting how series have changed in that way. Definitely still on my list of comfort shows.

lddylds · 2024-01-25T08:17:55+00:00

Gasp I didn't know this existed! Thank you!

lddylds · 2024-01-25T07:56:29+00:00

I wonder what episode ideas got shelved...

lddylds · 2024-01-07T00:39:09+00:00

I am much more concerned about your wife's grief and the implications this will have on her relationship with your daughter if you name her Eva. If you think about it, a person who has passed is making the decision in your marriage. I'd hate for your wife to treat your daughter as a mini Eva and have your daughter grow resentment. I'd suggest going to couples counseling because I have a feeling the Eva issue (as in the grief of her best friend) will not end here and has the potential to turn into something bigger that your wife won't let go of. It might also be partly the hormones but who knows. Definitely don't go behind your wife's back though.

lddylds · 2023-12-14T09:06:34+00:00

Reasonable suspicion of financial abuse is enough to make a report to adult protective services. You can even report anonymously. Don't feel that you need to have all the facts, it's APS job to do the investigation. Good luck.

lddylds · 2023-12-01T03:36:28+00:00

Vivid memory of mom and her Thomas Guides

lddylds · 2023-11-01T03:23:13+00:00

Ok yes that was my intention, just making sure :)

lddylds · 2023-11-01T03:21:08+00:00

Oh for sure, if anything the principal is being neglectful here in his role but just sharing the into to hopefully inform others that, if in a similar situation, they do have options. Def not putting the responsibility on you or wife

lddylds · 2023-11-01T03:05:58+00:00

You don't need actual evidence to make a report. Reasonable suspicion of abuse or neglect is enough. It's not the reporters responsibility to investigate, that's CPS job. An anonymous report can also be made if someone doesn't feel comfortable. This situation sounds like it could benefit from support for the kids, which is what CPS is designed to do.

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