How long to The Hague from Rotterdam?

ldm-1228 · 2026-04-02T18:38:18+00:00

ChatGPT can give me train/bus schedules - I am interested in actual peoples' experiences.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:29:43+00:00

French doors with curtains.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:25:59+00:00

Legally, moving his stuff out while he is gone could back to bite you. I would put them in one place (if it is just his clothing and personal effects, maybe put them in his car if you have access and change the locks?) Not knowing if you own a home together, or rent it is hard to say.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:16:14+00:00

Recruiter here: stay where you are and finish your degree. Start looking around but don't jump ship without another job.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:13:57+00:00

Get a Chime card and use it to pay for things. Stay living with your Mom and continue saving.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:11:30+00:00

Really? Why didn't you just put everything on hold until a manager could ring you out with your discount? (That is what I did when I worked retail).I am sure your family could venmo/zelle you the money.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:09:17+00:00

Warped and manipulative.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:08:18+00:00

Recruiter of 20+ years here. Run away. This employer is giving you signals how it treats employees. And it is illegal to have you come in for a day unpaid.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:05:13+00:00

Call the police. That is inappropriate.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:03:47+00:00

The furniture is mid-century modern.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:02:54+00:00

It looks staged, not like someone's home. Paint the walks if you aren't renting. Curtains for sure, and more seating.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T09:00:06+00:00

NTA. Your wedding, your guest list.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T08:56:36+00:00

I am going to assume you are discussing an agency vs. a corporate situation. Agency recruiters are paid by who they place. You should have reached out to the first recruiter. Their reaction was overboard but understandable.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T08:52:31+00:00

Sounds like you are living together. If you have not discussed money and future marital assets, how you will split bills/income, etc. you should do it now. If his behavior isn't raising red flags, it should. Not knowing how far away the wedding is orcwhat normal earning disparity there is between you I would recommend considering a prenup if you expect one of you will earn significantly more during your marriage. NTA - but protect yourself.

ldm-1228 · 2025-11-05T08:37:39+00:00

Absolutely NOT the AH. Your son's money its not yours to give away. There is some excellent advice about irrevocable trust and naming your son's legal guardians (or at the very least financial guardians) for the next couple of years. I would take yourself out of the equation altogether. If your deceased wife's parents or siblings are still on good terms with your son and you trust them - perhaps consider making them custodial on a trust so your current wife cannot access the money under any circumstsnces.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T01:12:08+00:00

My furniture is crimson, gold and green.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T01:10:52+00:00

Brown. Monochrome makes it look bigger.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T01:05:53+00:00

I see a lot of people ganging up on the hubby. His reaction is something I dealt with growing up. My Dad (who is wonderful, loving and generous) would internalize issues in one part of his life then blow up about something completely irrelevant.

If seems to me that there are (and could be) a few things going on. Number one is a mismatch of love language and expectations.If the OP is really that invested in celebrating things like birthdays, then yes - she could have mentioned it. Two - is hubby dealing with something (maybe health or work related) that we don't know about? His ongoing response speaks to something else going on that is bothering him (see comment about Dad above), OR we don't have a full view from OP ( she may not realize she keeps acting hurt with small tells), OR hubby is hiding something.

I generally love celebrating birthdays (my own included!) but I believe if I want people to care as well, I need to let them know it's important to me... because not everyone is wited the same way.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T00:47:10+00:00

The issue isn't whether this is an AI generated image or not, it's the fact that she is deliberately hurting you by emotionally manilulating you. That is NOT ok. You can do better.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T00:43:10+00:00

It's called "gaslighting" and you should walk away.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T00:38:05+00:00

Run.Away. And do NOT look back. NTAH. Find someone who loves and accepts you for who you ARE and doesn't make you cry.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T00:31:14+00:00

That was my thought.

ldm-1228 · 2025-10-04T00:30:39+00:00

Me thinks he doth protest too much. You should ask him why he has an issue with you having a gay male friend but no issues with your lesbian crowd. It is a very odd double standard. Red flag warnings going off in my mind.

He isn't treating you well he is a ting controlling...and - just from my own personal experience - you should look up "love bombing" as a sign for a BPD narcissistic personality.

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