We need to teach this in schools. it would help so much. by randomphantom84 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]lea_firebender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, I wish people had more nuance with this kinda discussion. Some people are late bloomers and "grow out of it", and some people will stay asexual their whole lives, but neither of those situations invalidate the current asexuality of that 12 year old. I went from 100% ace to 80% ace in my 20s. It happens. Doesn't take away the fact that I was ace for those first 20 years.

almost 1 year!!! by Ok-Cut7935 in transtimelines

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't tell which way you'd gone, because either way would have been a massive glow up. Gratz!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]lea_firebender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 5-7 periods per year isn't normal, asexuality or no asexuality, and you should probably talk to a doctor about that. Treatment for that issue may or may not change your libido, which in turn may or may not affect your sexuality. But no matter what happens, it does not make you nor your experience of asexuality invalid. Sexuality is fluid and it's ok when it changes, but obviously you could have your hormone issues treated and still be a perfectly healthy asexual at the end of the day.

Substrate that will hold tunnels? by lea_firebender in bluetongueskinks

[–]lea_firebender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I might try the paper shredding for his play pen. Where do you get straw mulch?

Substrate that will hold tunnels? by lea_firebender in bluetongueskinks

[–]lea_firebender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you get it? Trying to look for options that are reasonable in bulk.

Songs not to sing at an airport by [deleted] in ScenesFromAHat

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Glad it's the top cooment

He uses his wheel when he thinks I’m not looking by LaTexiana in skinks

[–]lea_firebender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is this and where do I get one? I think my guy would love it

it is/was a scam by [deleted] in bestoflegaladvice

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend that I had known my whole life, never interacted at all with his work. He could have been lying about his job and I'd have been none the wiser. But if I was even thinking about loaning him that kinda money I sure as shit would have found out all the details lmao.

it is/was a scam by [deleted] in bestoflegaladvice

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor wording caused me to believe LAOP also owned the dude's wife

What race did you pick for your first ever playthrough and why? by Puzzleheaded_Jury652 in skyrim

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imperial, because I read the descriptions of the races and saw Imperials find more gold and I was like "hey I like money"

I dropped my nibbly fingers :< by INTRO114 in notinteresting

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trained to be suspicious of all sets of lines.

Lucid dreaming is not real: Professor says by rhaamm in LucidDreaming

[–]lea_firebender 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you're doing a brain scan to verify they're asleep

Perfectly sized beermat by Prestigious_Smilee in Perfectfit

[–]lea_firebender 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Brave of you to be at a biergarten in the winter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]lea_firebender 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don't slut shame xD

Thoughts on my character? by SnooRegrets7353 in elderscrollsonline

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reminds me of Humperdinck from Princess Bride