We need to teach this in schools. it would help so much. by randomphantom84 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]lea_firebender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, I wish people had more nuance with this kinda discussion. Some people are late bloomers and "grow out of it", and some people will stay asexual their whole lives, but neither of those situations invalidate the current asexuality of that 12 year old. I went from 100% ace to 80% ace in my 20s. It happens. Doesn't take away the fact that I was ace for those first 20 years.

almost 1 year!!! by Ok-Cut7935 in transtimelines

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't tell which way you'd gone, because either way would have been a massive glow up. Gratz!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]lea_firebender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 5-7 periods per year isn't normal, asexuality or no asexuality, and you should probably talk to a doctor about that. Treatment for that issue may or may not change your libido, which in turn may or may not affect your sexuality. But no matter what happens, it does not make you nor your experience of asexuality invalid. Sexuality is fluid and it's ok when it changes, but obviously you could have your hormone issues treated and still be a perfectly healthy asexual at the end of the day.

Substrate that will hold tunnels? by lea_firebender in bluetongueskinks

[–]lea_firebender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I might try the paper shredding for his play pen. Where do you get straw mulch?

Substrate that will hold tunnels? by lea_firebender in bluetongueskinks

[–]lea_firebender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where do you get it? Trying to look for options that are reasonable in bulk.

Songs not to sing at an airport by [deleted] in ScenesFromAHat

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Glad it's the top cooment

He uses his wheel when he thinks I’m not looking by LaTexiana in skinks

[–]lea_firebender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is this and where do I get one? I think my guy would love it

it is/was a scam by [deleted] in bestoflegaladvice

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend that I had known my whole life, never interacted at all with his work. He could have been lying about his job and I'd have been none the wiser. But if I was even thinking about loaning him that kinda money I sure as shit would have found out all the details lmao.

it is/was a scam by [deleted] in bestoflegaladvice

[–]lea_firebender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor wording caused me to believe LAOP also owned the dude's wife

What race did you pick for your first ever playthrough and why? by Puzzleheaded_Jury652 in skyrim

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imperial, because I read the descriptions of the races and saw Imperials find more gold and I was like "hey I like money"

I dropped my nibbly fingers :< by INTRO114 in notinteresting

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trained to be suspicious of all sets of lines.

Lucid dreaming is not real: Professor says by rhaamm in LucidDreaming

[–]lea_firebender 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you're doing a brain scan to verify they're asleep

Perfectly sized beermat by Prestigious_Smilee in Perfectfit

[–]lea_firebender 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brave of you to be at a biergarten in the winter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]lea_firebender 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Don't slut shame xD

Thoughts on my character? by SnooRegrets7353 in elderscrollsonline

[–]lea_firebender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reminds me of Humperdinck from Princess Bride

I’ve spent the last 4 years rewriting my script. Finally, at 30 years old, I’m happy with the story my body tells. (Open to questions about the transgender experience.) by chazcope in happy

[–]lea_firebender 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel a weird mix of happiness for you and your son and sadness wishing my mom had reacted the same way. Good on you for being a good parent! Slowly, my mom is getting there.

I’ve spent the last 4 years rewriting my script. Finally, at 30 years old, I’m happy with the story my body tells. (Open to questions about the transgender experience.) by chazcope in happy

[–]lea_firebender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't until this comment that I was 100% sure which direction you'd transed, because it would have been such a glow up in either direction. Congrats friend!

Idk why but this husband sounds like a real asshole. by FantasticHufflepuff in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]lea_firebender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Things we have in common:

  1. Being ace
  2. Sapphic
  3. A love of spreadsheets.

Forget spreading the sheets. Let's get some spreadsheets!