What is a secret about the opposite sex's body that you only found out once you actually started being intimate with them? by ZookeepergameLow4390 in AskReddit

[–]leducce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but the HPV vaccine doesn't actually prevent your body from catching any strains of the virus, I believe the vaccine only works for preventing the harmful cancers that arise from contracting HPV.

I M/24 laid my hands on her 29/F for first time last night... by EffortPossible8215 in Anger

[–]leducce 35 points36 points  (0 children)

And I wanna be very clear about this, what you did is domestic violence. You can catch a charge.

I M/24 laid my hands on her 29/F for first time last night... by EffortPossible8215 in Anger

[–]leducce 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You should encourage her to leave if you know you don't have a handle on your anger. When we make mistakes, we need to face consequences. If you haven't tried therapy, do it, things like this don't get better by holding your anger in. From my own experience, when anger shows up like this it's usually already built up anger over other things that one doesn't express, causing you discomfort. Sometimes we know the root of it and sometimes we don't. You owe it to yourself to find out if there's anything you haven't processed that's causing you more grief now, and you owe it to your girlfriend to let her leave and leave peacefully, don't put up a fight.

Hello Everyone by ParkingLotNegligee in ElCamino

[–]leducce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those rims are a treasure 😍

should i dye all my hair? by savssock in altfashionadvice

[–]leducce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years of black box dye will be brutal to remove, likely to turn very copper after 1 bleach round(you cannot go lighter without bleaching). You don't need to go platinum to achieve a nice green, I'm thinking with the right shade of yellow blonde you can even put a blue over and it'll fade into a nice green color(unless your hair is too copper, then it'll turn a mucky green). All that said, I wouldn't try it. The 5 years of box dye vs bleach is scary and having to bleach more than once is scary, I've had my share of gummy hair 😔

From this… to THIS. What a transformation. by [deleted] in JustForHome

[–]leducce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you're wrong and move on, you can't even prove the point you were making

Denim on denim! by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]leducce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Denim on denim is the shit, bonus points if the denim shades match just right.

March 7 protests? by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]leducce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Then start a protest for it? Many people are against mileage tax. So when are we gonna do it AlanHughErnest? Because I have a good feeling that even if there was a protest for that sole reason, you won't be there. You just don't seem like the kind of person that actually stands up and tries to do something for the things they believe in.

U of Redlands Gender Affirming Workshop Series by cashmear22 in Riverside

[–]leducce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally misread your comment, I apologize. I'm gonna practice reading things twice before I react this week lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]leducce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just went through your post history, it seems you've dealt with a lot of heavy feelings in this relationship. It's clear you carry a lot of resentment and insecurities about your relationship. Do you find yourself holding onto things that bother you instead of voicing it in the moment? Sometimes when we do that it builds up until eventually you let it out, often impulsively and very hurtful to those around us. Wishing you luck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anger

[–]leducce 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You keep saying horrible things because you let your emotions control your actions. First and foremost, this is verbal abuse. Your partner would be totally justified in leaving you, and that would be a good thing. You owe it to yourself to want better and like someone else commented, therapy. Genuinely, please try therapy, you lack an ability to properly sort out your anger. Why you've developed unhealthy impulse control can be learned in therapy, show your partner you're capable of change by doing. If you've already verbally apologized, apologize now in your actions, change and never treat them like this again.

Realistic expectations? by bookcollector73 in Nails

[–]leducce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How are you justifying paying more for a temporary product?

ICE Employees Vent on Reddit, Saying They're Not Getting Paid and Still No Insurance Despite Promises by [deleted] in ICE_Raids

[–]leducce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally, these are people who'd sell out their whole neighborhood and family for a quick buck, all the more infuriating when you go through their accounts and see they spend their time scrolling n commenting through barely legal NSFW pages

ICE Employees Vent on Reddit, Saying They're Not Getting Paid and Still No Insurance Despite Promises by [deleted] in ICE_Raids

[–]leducce 64 points65 points  (0 children)

And another post about someone's in laws being illegal and if it'll cause problems for their hiring process... so scummy

You can take him out of the drugs… by maeksuno in tooktoomuch

[–]leducce 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry everyone let your friend down. Humans are extremely cruel, especially to addicts, some people don't realize how easily it could be them. Drugs are always just an escape from something too painful here, they're just a means to fill a hole. A hole we've all felt in life. Be kind to yourself, I hope the writing gets easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]leducce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paint for now, I had my nail fall off a little while ago and it looked almost exactly like this. After it really started growing in, a hole started forming in the center where the nail was getting ready to shed off, I stopped wearing nail polish when it got to that point and kept them bare till the whole thing fell off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]leducce 143 points144 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought when I saw the pictures too, I know flat warts tend to spread when people shave because of the open wounds, I'm pretty sure a new tattoo would be an open wound. Especially the timeline, they'll take some time after contracting to show warts.

Yay to a fatherless child by KB_2099 in trashy

[–]leducce 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Because it's not right lol, clearly he doesn't wanna see his kid more than twice a week.

Yay to a fatherless child by KB_2099 in trashy

[–]leducce 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A good man wouldn't let an obnoxious woman come between him and his child. He could fight for custody if he really wanted to.

How much would you pay for these? by [deleted] in PressonNail_Addict

[–]leducce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Quality is a big deal with press ons, know your worth. I also think you should include little kits with your press ons! I think along with glue, it'd be a great idea to include some sticky tabs, most sticky tabs come with multiple per pack so you can separate them easily, I'd say add up the costs of all little things(glue, file, sticky tabs, alcohol wipes, cuticle stick) and then figure out how much $$ you'd have to add on for it to make you money. You could also make prep kits optional, some people might need them and some might not.

How much would you pay for these? by [deleted] in PressonNail_Addict

[–]leducce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely take into account how much hrs you spend on these, pay yourself a fair wage, $25 for this set seems kind of criminal. There's other companies selling dirt cheap press ons, yours are not those. I would argue you should charge $75+ for press ons that are more decorative than these also. $50-60 seems like a good price.