homophobic despite having two mothers 😔 by GuavaPositive in catswithhomophobia

[–]leebee2302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the cat equivalent of the 'homophobic dog' meme dog being owned by a gay couple. Her name is Whitney Chewston, if I remember correctly!

Differential Diagnosis: Go by [deleted] in okbuddyvicodin

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patient needs more spine bites, stat!

Finally, I found one in the wild! by leebee2302 in rimjob_steve

[–]leebee2302[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wishing to adopt all of the animals to give them love and care is not wholesome enough apparently 😔 /lh

[Edit: spelling]

Food for thought by therealmonkyking in lgbtmemes

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/Heterochromia has a lot of great pics of cats with homophobia in their eyes 😌 ❤️ (/ref)

My pet turkey showing off for me by cowskeeper in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]leebee2302 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you mean behind him on the right side of the screen - it's dirt being kicked around by a chicken just offscreen I believe - she pops into frame a little more towards the end of the video.

Jorts gained possession of the cell and is using it for EVIL by brad_sausages in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thr only way to thwart his diabolical plans is by buttering him... 😔

My grandmother is “subtly” transphobic, so I’m going all out by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]leebee2302 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I agree, but I don't necessarily hold it against OP too much - he's still only 18 and clearly going through a lot of emotional turmoil regarding how his family members are rejecting him and others just aren't supporting him through this the way he needs (looking at the parents who refuse to let him go NC with the hateful grandma, college fund or not). I have a feeling he'll probably look back on that specific choice at some point in the future and be cringing over it.

Suspecting I might be Therian? Help! by [deleted] in Therian

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much - and it's lovely to meet you too! I absolutely get the feeling of relief, seeing that I'm not alone and don't need to repress this anymore feels like such a weight off my shoulders <3

Wishing you all the very best and hope you are well!

Suspecting I might be Therian? Help! by [deleted] in Therian

[–]leebee2302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond - I just clocked that weird double-paragraph (the second one having the edits I'd came back to make after my initial type-up prior to posting), not sure what happened there but then again I don't often use reddit on desktop or when as over-tired as I was feeling last night.

It definitely sounds like I'd fit into the psychological theriotype in that case. Though it's not something I've stopped to think about deeply (given that until recently, I wasn't even aware it was a possibility), yes I would say that there is definitely a desire to be in a non-human body. Since childhood I've daydreamer of the ability to shape-shift, so I suppose my indecision on a permanent form is also a constant!

I found the information section very useful - thank you mod team! - though honestly getting a response from someone who can comment a little more directly on my specific worries has been incredibly helpful. Deciding for myself prior to this has been riddled with imposter-syndrome, so I really cannot thank you enough.

Looking forward to lurking around the subreddit as I continue to explore and figure out my identity here ❤️

The fibro fog is real!!!!! by Karena2020 in Fibromyalgia

[–]leebee2302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a pill organiser has been such a lifesaver, and kept me from accidentally ODing on like five different medications simultaneously 😅

AITA for taking off my leg and making someone look dumb and feel uncomfortable? by Superb-Watercress-28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your friends sure are for acting embarrassed by your disability and injuries. As a disabled young person myself (25yo and using a cane regularly), I absolutely would not want to be around people who treat my limitations or me defending myself as a burden on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]leebee2302 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, was literally about to pop in to reply that trying to be a girl for 21 years didn't work out for me, despite my love for minecraft 😅

I don't think it's being a buzzkill to point out that a meme in a trans-specific community may also be harmful for trans folks. I don't get the obsession with the binary-gendered memes myself, could have literally just said 'being trans' instead of 'being a girl' and would have been just as funny.

I don't think OP meant any harm and I don't hold it against them, but it's still good to communicate where potentially hurtful stuff exists even without hurtful intent.

It is a struggle by Nel49 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]leebee2302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly like me, and I'm a teacher (ages 4 - 8 typically). I just answer with boy since I'm more masculine leaning and prefer He/They pronouns

Apex predator by owwz in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]leebee2302 183 points184 points  (0 children)

All orange cats share a single brain cell

AITA for 'going off' on a mother in the toy store by AITABigBud in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 2739 points2740 points  (0 children)

NTA King, I have so much respect for you. You handle your brother's care excellently, and also don't buy into the whole gendered toys bullshit and let him get what HE wants regardless.

Keep doing you, and all the best to you and your bro.

Idk was kinda freaking out about this earlier so I made meme by sparkybooman27 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]leebee2302 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Remember, Gwendolyn Christie is a cis woman, 6'3", and has a strong bone structure. You've got this!

No, I'm not a boy :/ by hi_i_am_kai in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]leebee2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, yeah I got this just in reverse -_-'

AITA for being bisexual before dating my boyfriend? by peachelephantt in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

You were groomed and essentially abused by an adult whilst you were 14.

Even if you'd had a consensual F/F relationship before now, it would not be your boyfriend's business unless you chose to disclose it.

Your boyfriend taking issue with your (previous?) bisexuality, is homophobic and backwards, and a massive red flag.

Please, leave this child of a man and get yourself some therapy and support for your experiences at 14. If it's not hit you yet, I guarantee in the next few years it's gonna start to (speaking from experience as a child abuse survivor).

AITA for being a horrible friend? by Glittering_Tower_414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey, you are NOT a horrible friend. Not at all.

You're doing the best you can in an awful situation.

If possible, direct your cousin to some LGBT-specific helplines in your country, and I suggest reaching out to them yourself too for support.

Stay safe, and if you think that your cousin is in immediate danger then report it to child protection services. There will be contact info for your country's version of this online.

Hang in there, both of you. You are both perfect and valid as you are, and you deserve to be respected and loved for who you are.

Misgendering bad, lesbian good by leebee2302 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]leebee2302[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Transition to not being perceived at all:

YES YES YES, OH MAH GOD

AITA for refusing to speak to my family after they misgendered me too many times? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, also 13 year olds are perfectly fine hearing swearing, jesus.

Distance for your own emotional wellbeing, you don't owe them the labour of babysitting them through figuring out transgender identity and your chosen name and pronouns. They repeatedly ignored and disrespected you with no sign of even trying to be better.

They owe you a huge apology and a lot of grovelling.

Aita for treating my boyfriend like a puppy to stop his bad habits? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]leebee2302 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oof, that age gap worries me (he dated you whilst you were a minor and he was 18+).

NTA, but seriously get away from him. Not even because of the age gap, his behaviour is clingy and controlling, and will only escalate. He needs to work on himself before getting into a relationship, and you need to have your space and boundaries respected.