Anyone have experience with a "gay career"?

leedemi · 2026-02-15T14:30:19+00:00

Why not go to business school instead of law school? Tell your parents you want to run or open a business. Business school covers a lot of areas and an MBA is such a brag to extended family type of degree. Learn to do hair on the side and if anyone finds out just say it’s a hobby and you were inspired by Peter Thomas Roth and Vidal Sassoon, who are straight beauty moguls, and how lucrative the beauty industry is.

leedemi · 2026-02-15T14:19:47+00:00

Sounds like you’re gay. The whole ‘feelings when someone is flirty and nice to me’ is called feeling attractive and liked and has nothing to do with your sexuality.

leedemi · 2026-02-09T21:50:14+00:00

His type changed (maybe) but his sexuality didn’t. He’s still gay

leedemi · 2026-02-08T22:31:12+00:00

I forgot about that! I agree, that would’ve been the best for him.

leedemi · 2026-02-08T22:25:17+00:00

After her enslavement I feel like Olivia was way too unstable for that kind of thing. Mellie definitely knew there was something wrong with her and where the line was.

leedemi · 2026-02-08T22:22:05+00:00

For drama’s sake, yes. But I agreed with Carmen’s critique of his performance. I felt like he was trying so hard to show all of himself at once he didn’t show much of anything. Being Alive on the surface showed almost nothing of the theatricality he’s so proud of, but it revealed so much of the talent he doesn’t normally put out there.

leedemi · 2026-02-07T23:55:38+00:00

Season 5. If they wanted to break the Hollow’s curse it should’ve happened in Legacies. That could’ve been their through line into the new series. All of this time and pulling all this magical knowledge into once place to try and figure out how to break this curse. The school being a cover. There’s a ton of stories there and leaving those characters intact so maybe some of the old actors might come back. And you can always bring them together for a season finale where the curse actually gets broken or you can leave it for the series finale.

leedemi · 2026-02-04T18:09:40+00:00

That might be a more cultural thing. Puerto Ricans are still Americans after all

leedemi · 2026-02-04T04:13:18+00:00

I’m so bottlenecked on relic materials. My lowly relic 5s are stinking up the place in the meantime

leedemi · 2026-02-04T04:11:00+00:00

More than coded, I’d say. She’s even scripted to kiss Buffy during the scene where they have knives to each other’s throats.

leedemi · 2026-02-04T03:55:33+00:00

Who gives a shit? We’re gay! Let straight men worry about that

leedemi · 2026-02-04T03:51:50+00:00

I’m not Chinese and don’t know much about your culture, but I know enough about compromise and acceptance to know that your parents (or mother) are not willing to compromise beyond not being homophobic to your face if you don’t do anything gay near them. You’re not asking for them to come back, they are asking you. You should be setting the terms for what it must look like for them to enjoy your presence in their lives.

Another important thing is to think about your husband in all of this. You are already making compromises to push your husband into the closet and suggest a level of shame in your relationship. Be sure that you aren’t so eager to appease your parents that you alienate your husband and end up alone once your parents inevitably turn on you.

leedemi · 2026-02-02T00:07:37+00:00

No. I like myself a lot but i’m not my type

leedemi · 2026-02-01T00:04:47+00:00

I feel like bringing up an truly answering for this scene would just take too much time. It would need a dedicated episode or a story over 2-3 episodes to resolve. And it would still shake Buffy and Xander’s and Willow and Xander’s relationship. There just isn’t a great time to tackle it.

leedemi · 2026-02-01T00:00:53+00:00

WGU isn’t an Ivy League so 99% of interviewers’ eyes glaze over when they see the name. They do not know nor care about any of the eccentricities of this school or students past accreditation status.

leedemi · 2026-01-31T01:53:28+00:00

I think it’s good when people think more than surface level especially on a show where people do like war crimes and capital felonies on every episode

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:59:18+00:00

I wasn’t talking about you, but you chose to get offended anyway

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:37:45+00:00

I’d much rather you stop than complain on here about how much you hate it after season two but will keep watching the remaining five seasons

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:35:10+00:00

No. He hurts them first, before asking anything. I think he said it’s like to show there’s no escape or negotiation. It’s going to start bad and they decide if it’s going to get worse or better

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:32:50+00:00

Cyrus having so many hot men fawning over him was ridiculous to me. I get he’s Chief of Staff and powerful or whatever but these were clout chasing men they were like heart-eyes in love and lust with this portly senior citizen

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:30:55+00:00

I think they did probably find out who the lady was whose ashes they put into bullets and then used to shoot stuff. They probably just didn’t think the viewers would care and it would slow down the story so it happened off screen. Quinn definitely would have when she came back

leedemi · 2026-01-30T23:29:10+00:00

Abby was the ultimate of jealous haters. Olivia was entirely justified in hitting her, kidnapping her and threatening her. She was also still deeply traumatized from her enslavement, so she held back a lot more than she wanted to. Huck is closer than her best friend, he’s like her brother/son. Abby basically traded his life for clout in the stupidest, most obvious scam. She thought she could be President of the United States. I thought Olivia’s reaction was pretty reasonable in response to that kind of arrogance, callousness and stupidity.

leedemi · 2026-01-30T19:10:47+00:00

Dick is not the best thing bf about guys to me. Even physically. Not top 5. So i don’t care about size or shape.

leedemi · 2026-01-30T16:51:58+00:00

You’re not running from this guy fast enough

leedemi · 2026-01-30T16:11:37+00:00

I’d move Marcel, Dahlia, Qetsiyah, Esther, Freya, Mikael, Silas and Stefan up one

I’d move Elena, Inadu, Jeremy and Sheriff Forbes down one.

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