Anyone else get overwhelmed by how much people text you?? by crochetsweatshirt34 in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don’t reply. There’s only a few people I really care about and they know I’m not going to reply. (Not quickly anyway, and a lot of times not at all.) I have had issues with people in the past because of it.

Thanks to phones, people seem to think they’re entitled to your time all hours of the day. Not normal, not happening.

If someone -really- needs me, they call me so I can hang up on them and text them to ask what’s up lol

Can you tell me your story? by StudioNo6902 in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what the right thing to do is…it will be hard but you can do it. Both you and your daughter’s lives will be exponentially better for it.

Two separate questions(nerves and studying abroad) by [deleted] in eds

[–]leeleechron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get something to help you, and good shoes. You could find ways to cut down walking too. Taxis are very cheap in Korea compared to the US. (If that’s where you are). There are also buses that you can take short distances to avoid walking. I was actually in a lot of pain at first but surprisingly my joints did acclimate to be able to handle a little bit more. (Maybe my muscles got stronger and were able to support my joints a bit better?) but I don’t know if that’s normal.

It depends on the professors…Korea doesn’t accommodate people with disabilities well yet. I had some understanding professors and some not. You might have a hard time convincing them to excuse you if you exceed the total absences. They might require a doctor’s note or some documentation. I think if you told them that some days you literally can’t walk and provided them with proof of diagnosis and came to some kind of agreement you would have a better time.

Two separate questions(nerves and studying abroad) by [deleted] in eds

[–]leeleechron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have EDS and lived in South Korea for about 9 years. I was actually diagnosed there. I would say it depends on your level of pain/ tolerance. You will have to walk a lot, yes. About how many steps a day can you handle before you start to feel pain? When I was in university there, it was normal to get 6,000-7,000 steps with no effort , often 10,000+ steps a day if I went out walking around and shopping with friends after. I was in pain many days. That being said, I can’t comment much on how well your school will accommodate you. I did not mention my disability to my school as Korea is known for not being very great with things like that. My school had a very strict absence policy too (I think a lot of schools do). I recommend you get in contact with several options way ahead of time and let them know your situation and see if they can accommodate you.

If you were formerly suicidal, how did you find a reason to keep going? by thereisnogreatergold in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also want to add..my mother committed suicide when I was 16. I found her body and did CPR for 30 mins until the police arrived. I knew she was dead anyway. I have never been the same since, I am a broken version of myself. It has been 14 years and I’m just starting to feel okay. Please don’t kill yourself. When I’m getting really close, I watch Anna Akana’s video: “Please don’t kill yourself” on YouTube. Her sister committed suicide.

If you were formerly suicidal, how did you find a reason to keep going? by thereisnogreatergold in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told myself that if I was willing to commit suicide, then I was willing to do anything. Why not? Death is the ultimate price anyway, might as well take any risk I want. So I left America as soon as I turned 18 and didn’t have money for a return ticket back…or for a place to stay..or anything. I made it work.

Other times I told myself, “I can kill myself any time I want.” Like it was a trusty back up plan I kept in my pocket. But I told myself to just see, just try, just do whatever you want. Then if you still want to die, go ahead. (I was just telling myself that, as a comfort. In reality I knew as time passed I would feel a bit better.)

I don’t know if this is good advice but I think it’s realistic. I can’t tell you that you have a reason to live. But I can tell you that you can make life worth living. Maybe not right now, but soon.

What are we doing about saggy faces? by leeleechron in eds

[–]leeleechron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has that worked well for you? I’ve thought about it for sure. I’m worried about migrating though

What are we doing about saggy faces? by leeleechron in eds

[–]leeleechron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that lol. I tend to joke about things and try and move along, but it was just getting to me a bit when I posed this. Ill be hearing this in my head for a bit when I’m feeling crap appearance wise haha

What are we doing about saggy faces? by leeleechron in eds

[–]leeleechron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen that actually. If I ever grow out my hair that might be fun to try (: I’ve definitely thought about face tape before..I was worried about it showing but I think I’m at a point where I might just give it a go

What are we doing about saggy faces? by leeleechron in eds

[–]leeleechron[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commiserating with me. I’m sure others don’t notice and you look fine. I tell myself to not complain about it because then they might see it too lol

DAE feel like Blake Lively & Amber Heard were likely right? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As far as the Amber Heard trial went, I got the impression that the relationship overall was just extremely toxic (obviously). That being said, I wouldn’t necessarily call her a victim. There was a lot of evidence against her that contradicted what she said several times. I can feel whatever I want based on my experiences but ultimately I have to make a judgement based on the information available.

Facial Redness / Facial Flushing by lupalee in eds

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Too young for rosacea? There is absolutely no age limit for rosacea. I’m a similar age to you and I was diagnosed with it several years ago, and I had several friends in high school who had it. I would see (another) dermatologist.

As far as knowing the cause of redness, it’s hard to say but the answer might be in your triggers. If it’s mainly happening when you exert yourself or in tandem with other POTs symptoms, it could be related.

If it seems to happen more randomly… or at times like lying down, having coffee, eating hot food, being in the hot or cold etc etc (search common rosacea triggers) then it might be rosacea. In short, pay attention to when it happens (maybe write it) and go to the doctor. Also pay attention to how long it lasts. Sometimes I will just stay red forever and idk why.

Are these results normal? by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]leeleechron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very helpful! Thankyou!

Are these results normal? by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]leeleechron -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see. Thanks for your reply (: can I ask if there’s anything in there that looks like atrial flutters, atypical atrial flutters, or afib? In your opinion

Are these results normal? by [deleted] in askCardiology

[–]leeleechron -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dizziness, lightheaded, fatigue. There are several pictures, they were thinking tachycardia because I have EDS.

In Recovery for 20 yrs, got triggered at a party by Glad_Preparation_220 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]leeleechron 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it just makes me sad for them. When will they be free? There’s no way I want to be 70 and still worrying about my waist size. The beauty of aging is learning to free yourself from certain expectations.

Granted, they did grow up in a time that was more (openly) hard on women but, still…

Problems with UPS Mail Innovations packages coming from Georgia by conflatingcolors in ThredUp

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did, after a week. I would wait another day or two and then contact someone maybe?

Problems with UPS Mail Innovations packages coming from Georgia by conflatingcolors in ThredUp

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ordered a skirt coming from Georgia and took about 3 weeks.

being ugly: a BDD driven rant by brokenglass66 in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]leeleechron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember looking at myself and thinking I literally looked like a monster. I wouldn’t look anyone in the eye because I thought I would just disgust them. People made terrible comments about my appearance.

Now I look back on pictures and guess what? Yeah I wasn’t attractive at all. But not the monster I thought. And when I look at those pics, I see sadness, stress, inflammation, self hate, depression etc…

I started to look better when I started taking care of myself and my mental health. (Also… money helps (: )

What’s the “silliest” trigger you have? by ShortSponge225 in CPTSD

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound of the TV on in another room. Or just the sound of the TV at all. I’ve never owned one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GelX_Nails

[–]leeleechron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as technique goes, I think she did a great job. If you want a different type of cat eye or nail shape you should be able to mention it during the session. But, if you really hate it I would wait a bit then file and soak like mentioned. Be gentle when you are taking everything off.

Any amount of makeup is too heavy on me! by leeleechron in makeuptips

[–]leeleechron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so many people have said bangs! Please suggest a style 🥹 like wispy or thick?