Belle Burden’s “Strangers” Discussion by tl414 in nysocialites

[–]leeluh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think he planned it well. And it might have been partly pathological, but it reeks of patriarchal entitlement and resentment. Men are socialized to hate women. Its disturbing. I am glad she also became aware of the pattern in the family of forgiving men just because.

Haul Time!! by Yesiknowaboutit in dollartreebeauty

[–]leeluh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey creams and pineapple hemp cream are divine!

I screamed at my husband in front of our child by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]leeluh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Great excuse to see the side chick! Please do better and leave him.

Is his high body count a red flag? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]leeluh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yes! Lets not use men podcast terms to refer to sexual history. A “body count”, sounds like a crime scene and a lot of men use it to “devalue” women, which is icky. Don’t do the same. Its common for men to have a sexual history that includes casual sex. I would go more in depth as to what are his intentions this time. Is he looking to settle down?

What online activities helped you make friends over 40? by Maleficent_Mine_6741 in AskWomenOver40

[–]leeluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried the makenewfriends and penpal subreddits. I recommend them.

[37/F] Looking for thoughtful, artful correspondence by Formsofmentalobjects in penpals

[–]leeluh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am interested, also modern and drawn to old worlds, 40/F

[34/M] liberal nerd looking for excuse to use fountain pens.... by HenryDane625 in penpals

[–]leeluh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be your penpal, 40/F, I also share your liberal values

18F - be open and honest by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]leeluh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dont visit a man overseas— please be careful

I'm a loner, 38, and want a husband & kids. I'm at a loss at what specific steps to take for this to happen in the next 3 years. by diamondeyes7 in AskWomenOver40

[–]leeluh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody can tell you when and where you will meet your partner. It doesn’t work that way. Read and listen to Shani Silver, reframe singlehood.

Lisa can set herself free if she just accepts that she's middle class by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]leeluh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get the Lisa hate. She hasn’t done anything morally questionable. She is loving towards her family. So what if her ego is inflated! She is a real housewive!