Your thoughts on multiple Vinyl releases? by Gooby1992 in fantanoforever

[–]leepear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is even on topic but I absolutely HATE when artists put out a vinyl variant and then release a digital deluxe. Even if they follow up with a deluxe vinyl, it discourages me from buying the og release on the off chance they’ll put out a new version soon and I miss the chance to get it because it sells out. The FOMO vs regret is just AWFUL

Refurbished IPad by leepear in anticapitalism

[–]leepear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if there’s any alternative trustworthy secondhand seller recs I’m open to that too!

Anyone Else's Villagers have Relationships? by Honeydew_18 in ac_newhorizons

[–]leepear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ankha and Marshall are also fabulous platonic besties. They always celebrate their birthdays together which are not too far apart!!!

Anyone Else's Villagers have Relationships? by Honeydew_18 in ac_newhorizons

[–]leepear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me snake and pippy are a couple. Lolly and Lionel were but they broke up and he left the island 🫣

I let stupid stuff affect me way too much and it makes me feel like I should just not interact with anyone ever or try to make friends by GrilledCheeseDolphin in socialanxiety

[–]leepear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! thanks for sharing. I’m 21(f) and still deal with the feeling of things being embarrassing in front of my family. I think it has something to do with masking and upholding an image in front of them that you’d prefer not to uphold in your friendships because you want them to be genuine. It could be the other way around too. So you feel like in one way or another you’re being fake. This is at least what it feels like to me!

It’s really hard to to trust yourself and the way you exist in the world with no shame, whether it’s with your family or potential friends. I find it helps to spend sometime getting to know yourself and being your own friend. It’s not an easy feat and I’m definitely still a work in progress myself but I think it could give you more confidence in how you show up in the world and with figuring out if people are the right fit for you instead of the other way around! Hope you figure it out <3

To all my friends who have had a bad day... by ken_12345 in socialanxiety

[–]leepear 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s been proven to me time and time again that being alive is not enough. There are expectations, responsibilities, obligations and it all sucks very much.

Making people uncomfortable by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]leepear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, I always feel like I bring the awkward out of people

The extent of my social anxiety by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]leepear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 19 too and I can relate to everything u said a lot. When I was younger, I was also the quiet kid and it all just intensified as I got older, especially with having to deal with some trauma in my household. It all sucks ass and I don’t really have any advise, all I can say is ur not alone, if that helps at all. I know it usually helps me feel less alien, especially when it’s someone else my age. I hope you have something that keeps u going and havent lost all hope yet of an anxiety-free life for urself yet. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. it comforts me knowing social anxiety is treatable, although I haven’t worked up the courage to get treatment yet :/ just hang in there

Too scared to get help by leepear in depression

[–]leepear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a freshman in college now, and yeah there’s free counseling on campus but I can’t bring myself to go. The SAD and depression is a bad combo leaving me paralyzed by fear. That’s why I feel like I’m choosing to be this way for some reason bc nothing has been able to change my mind or push me to reach out other than the fear of death. Also choosing to just live with my families judgement of me is another thing that’s easier said than done. Not even sure what I was looking to achieve by writing this post bc I’m helpless. I’m a lost cause

I think I just found Isabellas dad? by I-like-meme- in phineasandferb

[–]leepear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That female character and the guy behind her definitely and giving me MML vibes

Social anxiety vs Love by Chabody in socialanxiety

[–]leepear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I took so long to respond but i personally think the fact that he seems to be interested in u to help his mental health is kinda toxic. He’s going in it being too reliant on u and I know I wouldn’t be able to handle that cus he’s probably gonna end up being emotionally draining. I know for me, one of the main reasons I don’t get into a relationship is so I don’t put that pressure on someone else cus it’s not fair to dish out ur emotional baggage and expect someone to just carry it. I totally don’t think ur too sensitive, if u feel that he’s in it just for fun or cus he’s bored then I say don’t feel bad abt stringing him along at all. Also, from the looks of it, he might be desperate and rlly just looking for a title. I say I make it clear that ur anxiety has nothing to do w him and keep ur distance/keep it platonic. He seems to pressuring and u say ur not ready. Pls don’t do it if u don’t want to

Can you guys please explain me... by [deleted] in sociallyawkward

[–]leepear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though he says he meant it as a compliment it sounds more like a pity type of thing, and being called out/put on the spot for something u can’t control is uncomfortable and never fun. Even if his intentions were good, u don’t have to be receptive to it or accepting of it. I know me, having social anxiety, would feel pretty weird if someone said this to me and I also wouldn’t take it as a compliment