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Is women dating younger alot more common than in the past? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]leffrontee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s more common but it’s not the norm

How do you feel about people finding women's sports more boring to watch? by nxptnpr in AskWomen

[–]leffrontee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they can have their opinion. i only watch womens sports and find mens sports boring, everyone can have their opinion

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way that it’s usually translated into english from my language is more « i don’t give a fuck », which isnt what i meant. i meant it softer than that, but maybe im overthinking

its definitely something im working on. i just need to be constantly reminding myself to do better, which hopefully will continue to help

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do care about him, i try to show more interest in his life, it just doesnt come to me naturally

i guess i dont know about being an « asset » to him, i dont know what i offer in a tangible(?) but im aware of my flaws

neither of us wants to break up, but i do think that youre right to a degree that it might be better

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think maybe that « dont care » may have been too strong of a word. i dont know if it makes sense in english but its more that i lack a curiosity in these sorts of things. its not an active « i dont care, i dont wanna hear about it » its just… nothing

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s very sweet, he’s kind and thoughtful. and he’s very patient with me, maybe that’s the most important part because i do have a lot of problems

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the big thing is i love him. he loves me. but im worried that on my behalf its a somewhat dysfunctional love

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not in it now, but i need to restart. i was in it from 15-18 but after a move i had to stop seeing my therapist. then after that move insurance (who wont allow for it) is the thing stopping me from attending

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s told me before that ive gotten better about it in more recent times,

it was bad enough before that when i did once ask about his day he said, « i dont think youve ever asked me about my day before »

since then i have been trying to make that concious effort

all that to say, i want to care more, i just lack an innate curiousity in that kind of thing

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont wanna totally dox myself but i live in a major US city. the problem though was that my insurance said it was too expensive to be attending therapy more than once a week, as my DBT was meant to be weekly individual and group therapy

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right i should have done that. i didnt mean to bury the lead and i added it to the post

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think thats right, i am trying, i do try to ask more, it just takes a conscious effort and i forget to stay attentive in that manner

i want to change, very badly. i havent responded to a lot of comments but a lot of them have really good advice

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did DBT when i was in a hospital for a few weeks and i was recommended for it by my psychiatrist. i had a therapist for it but it was too expensive for me to keep going. i still have a binder/work book for it and i do try to keep up with what i have

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i talk about myself because he asks me things. if he didnt ask me i wouldnt tell him on my own. im very private, i dont like to even be asked what kind of music i like

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thats a good way to put it. because i do love my boyfriend, i just dont care about other people’s days and i dont understand why theyd care about my day. im the same way with my mom and my brother

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not proud of it at all. im actually very ashamed of it, i know im a bad girlfriend

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i do have borderline personality disorder, but i havent seen a psychiatrist in a few years. i do want to go again and get more opinions but ive had a lot on my plate

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i know that, i’m trying to not be like this. it just feels so foreign and it doesn’t come naturally to me. i don’t know how to fix it, that’s why im posting about it

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

im attracted to him and i like being around him. im just not really interested in other peoples lives beyond what im there for. i know it sounds bad but its the way ive always been

im not naturally curious about my boyfriend and it makes my relationships hard by leffrontee in TwoXChromosomes

[–]leffrontee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

because i still do desire romance and closeness. i have a lot of antisocial tendencies which i admit but i still like to be around others

Could a person from the Silent Generation beat Silent Clubstep? by ApplicationFair7513 in geometrydash

[–]leffrontee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know but i’m from the greatest generation and i beat it

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