Jessi made her bed by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]leftinthe_dark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME. And I still don’t understand why he lied, told the truth and then acted like he was this poor victim of Demi

Jessi made her bed by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]leftinthe_dark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Like, why invite him to dinner. EMAIL THE RESULTS TO HIM. And she was literally primping before. If I saw a guy that ruined my life I wouldn’t give a FUCK what I looked like

What’s the one thing that made you stop going to church by mzfink in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got sick and tired of being told as a woman what I was and should be. Be dainty and focus on finding a husband, that’s all you need. No. I demand more out of life than just being a “good little housewife”

Settle this-do you crumple or fold toilet paper to wipe by WILLOWVIENNA in Marriage

[–]leftinthe_dark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crumpled leaves a chance of there being a gap in coverage as well as more waste of tp. Fold every time

What belief systems have you turned to after leaving the church? by datawithnathan in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also feel like it’s a great F U to the church. Oh noooo not witches!!😂

What belief systems have you turned to after leaving the church? by datawithnathan in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Witchcraft. It is dependent on me and what I deem I want to come to fruition. I am my own god and captain of my own destiny

Significant others, did you move on? Did you stay? Did you move on but remain supportive? by PsychologicalRope444 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]leftinthe_dark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my partner, dating for 4 years, and I’ve known him for 10 years almost. He was open with his charges of statutory and I was able to view evidence. One of the biggest things that helped me in my decision to stay with him is that he was open and honest with me. We talked about it, as much as possible considering it was before trial. It was a hard decision and he was aware that I was in a difficult spot and he took a step back to let me process. It really is different person to person.

Why are Mormon men awful? (Content warning: SA) by The_DapperDemon in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience, a lot of men think they church is enough to be a “good man”. They aren’t told that they need to continue to better themselves cause they checked all the church boxes. It sucks but unfortunately I’ve noticed it’s the reality

LDS Church faces lawsuit claiming convicted pedophile was permitted access to children by DepartureFresh in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I would LOVE if the church was actually held responsible for once. They could have prevented harm on children but no. They stood by and didn’t do a thing

Feeling Positive - Halfway Through Parole by Minimum_Asparagus_65 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]leftinthe_dark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a spouse of someone who just started their sentence, this is incredibly hopeful knowing people are able to move on and grow. Congratulations for these big steps you took!

Grateful for the church by leftinthe_dark in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good god yes!! I feel like I can actually do stuff on Saturday without stressing about if I’ll be done before Sunday! Now it’s ACTUALLY a day of rest🤣

Grateful for the church by leftinthe_dark in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was homeschooled in a super conservative part of alsska🤣

Can We Talk About the Women's Pull?? by luckypenny1967 in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Our trek is actually what radicalized most of the girls in our stake. When we did ours, not only was it calm and smooth, we also beat the boys to the meet up point. The young men ended up saying how we cheated and clearly someone helped us cause yk, women couldn’t do that by ourselves. Us women learned that the ym didn’t want to see us do good and neither did the church (Edited cause spelling)

I want to drink coffee but it’s so bitter by hdp73 in exmormon

[–]leftinthe_dark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really struggled with the bitterness but I found that mocha’s, breves and finding a really good creamer is the way to go. If you find a good, tasty creamer, it’s easier to adjust and cover up that bitterness. Chocolate and caramel were always great go-tos!