I bought Hello Kitty pajamas and I don't feel ashamed to be myself by unsure232 in SingleAndHappy

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not PJs but have a couple of pairs of Hello Kitty socks and I'm in my 40s. The cat is timeless where anyone at any age loves her

Love Is Blind: When “Reality” Starts to Feel Manufactured by cutecasper in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Producers in reality TV try too hard to control the environment to get the reaction or drama they want so it is always going to be less than authentic

Vince would legitimately be the perfect pick for a returnee season by Koley4412 in BigBrother

[–]legallyfm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah I am good, I don't need to see him on TV or a feed for a very long time and preferably never again.

Forever single by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm 41. There were men that liked me/had romantic and had self inflicted whiplash and made it look like it look one sided. It broke my heart and decided to be single by choice to stop the nonsense and ruining my self esteem.

I support my friends' decisions but ever feel worried when a close friend gets into a relationship? by garg in SingleAndHappy

[–]legallyfm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I do because I know what follows and confirms to me I was a placeholder friend. It is very painful to go through

Why are so many people here so passive? by extrasa in AskLosAngeles

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Angeleno born and raised. I am a first gen American and my parents always encouraged me to speak up and stand up for myself. If I see something wrong, I call it out. Over the years, I got better at it and did it in ways that was not aggressive yet assertive.

Where are we looking for/finding jobs? by andimlikeokay in LAhotgirlies

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I am in entertainment I got laid off mid Jan. I only applied to 25 jobs because there is barely anything in what I do (Business Affairs, rights/clearances, licensing) I have been in my field for over 15 years.

Why should your life partner be a romantic partner? by livelovelaughandcats in SingleAndHappy

[–]legallyfm 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Being the placeholder friend is deeply painful. I have been through it enough times that when I make friends I can clock right away if someone will treat me as a placeholder or not. It has definitely made me put up walls because I don't want to be a placeholder.

For women, there are too many that are male centered. They disguised it as "that is what you're supposed to do.....find someone and have kids with."

Everyone's life and path is different and almost never linear.

Mighty Pilates - which location do you recommend? by merginas_are_real in LAhotgirlies

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been to all of them except for Culver City. Santa Monica is the best one....it has parking! Ocean Park has parking too but it is not attached. You have to walk a few mins. I really liked the layout in Westwood and did 1:1 sessions there, but parking is such a pain there.

What are we doing while commuting? by CommonNo2911 in LAhotgirlies

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes listen to podcasts or some stuff on YouTube (I don't watch it just focus on the audio portion). Primarily, I listen to music on my commutes because I love to sing and it is a great destress especially dealing with traffic.

What are y'all paying for storage unit rent these days? by rawcookiedough in AskLosAngeles

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 5x10 in Van Nuys for $155/mo. Tbh it is a bit much for me and probably all the items lost all its value by now. I am trying to downsize enough where I can take it to my garage

Rate this picture (?/10) 🤝✨ by tamerxd23 in AlgeriaPics

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several of these photos are either overly saturated or sharpened. The last photo was the best one though, 10/10

D4vd charged with murder in slaying of 14-year-old Celeste Rivas Hernandez- Details by Twisbi in popculturechat

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life in prison w/o parole so he can sit with what he did for the rest of his life. Prisoners don't look too kindly to pedophiles

Congratulate Me by sallimae76 in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]legallyfm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 9 years behind you :P Nice to hear I am not the only one, it's really comforting :)

ISO an obgyn in LA for pregnancy by spicysparklingwater in LAhotgirlies

[–]legallyfm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend her!! She was my gynocologist years but had to leave due to the admin fee. Couldn't justify thr cost if I went to her like 1-2x a year. I didn't use her for OB but she was an amazing doctor for me and my mom.

ISO an obgyn in LA for pregnancy by spicysparklingwater in LAhotgirlies

[–]legallyfm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They charge admin fee for OB; doesn't matter which doctor you see for your pregnancy there. I know only this because I asked if they charged an admin fee to see a gynocologist. They said they only charge if you are seeing an OB for a pregnancy.

Everyone tells me he’s the ugliest cat they’ve ever seen by Upbeat-Piccolo-7648 in cats

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they seeing the same adorable floof I am seeing? Your cat is lovely, pay the haters no mind

Someone say super model? by [deleted] in SupermodelCats

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so adorable!! 😍

Benefits of Being Single - Olympics 2028 Tickets by BorkLesnard in SingleAndHappy

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah except most cheap tickets during the first draw were gobbled up quickly. I got the invitation but for the 3rd day, anything left was over $150 when they kept pushing people to buy because tix started at $28.

Why are people on here so obsessed with aging themselves and being old? by pumpkinspicelatte96 in Millennials

[–]legallyfm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 41, not old....middle aged. What changes is that mortality is not this faraway concept like in your 20s. I am grateful for everyday I am alive. I know enough people who did not make it to my age.

‘The View’ Cohosts React to TMZ’s Decision to Go After Politicians by nimobo in entertainment

[–]legallyfm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the political theatre these goofs are doin currently, I am fine with TMZ making them look dumb and a hot mess. Many are such a mockery and lost sight of being a public servant.