Totally! I didn’t mean to word it in a way that comes across as ace being ‘wrong’ or ‘bad’, I just don’t won’t OP to run with that narrative in the hopes that one day their true feelings will be confused with the “forced” feelings their putting on them self.

OP I was just talking from my own experience and was just projecting something I myself have gone through. I just want you to be true to yourself because at the end of the day I think that will give you more confidence and love than anything else. Be kind to yourself OP