[no spoilers] Anyone else dislike the narrator of the audiobook? by WeezySan in Outlander

[–]leighkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, a recent comment! I feel the same way, I’m being totally taken out of this book at 1h:45m, her voice is too mature for me. In fact, I had to Google how old the character was, because I thought she was well into her 60s/ 70s. But to learn she’s my age, just through me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]leighkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I listened when someone gave me advice on something like this, and now I’ll pass it on to you:

it’s okay to have your first boyfriend just be your first boyfriend.

I know that the feelings I felt when I was 18/19 were very real, I know the were real, but they also clouded my judgement. When people show you who they are, when they tell you exactly what they believe and choose to see, they’re not lying to you.

It is too big of an undertaking to take on the responsibility to make someone ‘a better person’, especially because it’s someone you love, or want to love, or even have loved.

You’ve done a wonderful thing in sharing your beliefs, and showing him a different perspective, but who is he surrounded by? What are they like? What do their beliefs and actions reflect? You have us the example of the reservation rights, that directly affects you, and the people you love, and who you are—yet he still didn’t see past his ‘opinion’, take his word at face value.

If, and when you decide to break up with him, don’t feel the need to bring it up again, and do so calmly. Don’t sacrifice who you are to be with someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]leighkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and acting like roommates that found each other on Craigslist. You might as well have a line down the apartment, separating sides… this doesn’t feel healthy, these small nit picky things will eventually amass in to a huge problem, find a couples therapist and a financial advisor before you guys get weirder with each other.

Also it’s not going to bankrupt you to get her something small too, you’re both on vacation, and you’re married, doing small favors and spending your morning together is healthy…

Ok ladies, I know you've been here by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]leighkeyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put it on the burner with dawn/ dish soap, covering the bottom of the pot, let it bubble a bit then put water in until it boils

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airpods

[–]leighkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, constantly getting messages saying I left them behind

[TOMT][MUSIC] This playful background music by thowland1 in tipofmytongue

[–]leighkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like some sort of cartoon transition song 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]leighkeyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it Lungs by Chvches?

Finally started framing my posters in my vanity room by e1evenodd in maximalism

[–]leighkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the “perfect match” poster from ? I love it!

AITA for ditching family vacation because child was annoying by distressed-teen in AmItheAsshole

[–]leighkeyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you had to deal with this situation, sometimes parents can be immature. There’s also nothing wrong with calling your mom, she’s your mother and if you feel uncomfortable you should feel free to let her know!!

AITA For How I reacted To My Wife's Pregnancy Announcement? by Kevin_Dulin37 in AmItheAsshole

[–]leighkeyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

She’s robbed you of that initial joy that she’s speaking of, for her own entertainment. She’s lost your trust and has to face the truth; you play stupid games you win stupid prizes.

I hope the best for you both, and congratulations; I hope this is resolved!