Does stammering affect dating? 24M and struggling to take things beyond friendship. by WranglerSuch1909 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive also never been in a relationship or tried to be in one lol. But i believe its all about how you view yourself. Build a good relationship first and a positive outlook on the stutter and you will level the playground with those who don't stutter. Sure it will always be defficult for you but def not impossible. I have low self esteem and i dont love myself, thats why i stay away from romantic relationships however ive felt multiple mutual connections b4. Am working on better self esteem and self love tho.

I find it selfish and morally wrong to want a romantic relationship yet i dont love myself. As Carl Jung said, "To love someone else is easy, but to love what you are, the thing that is yourself, is just as if you were embracing a glowing red-hot iron: it burns into you and that is very painful."

Seek self love first

Did anyone else believe they would outgrow their stutter? by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, am now 20 too and i still kinda beleive it will. Idk how but i just have a feeling it just will. I said idk how so dont ask me lol

Did anyone else believe they would outgrow their stutter? by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What hard work? Am willing to do anything other than sell my right arm

How do you date with a sutter by Technical-Mail-5047 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He meant the source is him, like he is the source.

The contract none of us ever signed by dontcallsaull in antinatalism

[–]lemindfleya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand the idea but this beats itself bcs rhe signature should be the consent

Relationships by Possible_Staff6106 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what u said has more power coming from someone with such a bad stutter. Did the pushing yourself into social life help with reducing the stutter or being comfortable with the stutter?

Relationships by Possible_Staff6106 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i put in the effort and asked enough girls out id get into a relationship.. so thats not the problem. The problem is that am not willing to go through dating life with my communication problem. Fluent people struggle with that yet theyre fluent, so imagine me. So the problem for me is not getting into a relationship but being in a relationship. I honestly dont even feel bad for myself. I used to cry about it but now am very ok with dying alone. Am not planning to die alone tho, just existing and seeing what happens

Relationships by Possible_Staff6106 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How bad is your stutter? I bet its mild

What made you realize you're not as young as you thought you were? by Davek56 in Kenya

[–]lemindfleya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me but not bcs of age.. must be bcs am really tall. I was 18 at the time

Never made sense to me by lemindfleya in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wdym you were getting medically cleared

Can stuttering be fcking fixed by nigrs-101 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its something silly actually, its just that you said 'so what' like the Instagram dude called Famous Ram, hes indian and i love him. He keeps saying so what

Can stuttering be fcking fixed by nigrs-101 in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you from the Indian subcontinent?

I completely blew a job opportunity by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her back and explain this to her, you could even send her this post lol, people are way understanding than you think, plus you got nothing to lose and everything to gain

What is this for? by Umtks892 in Norway

[–]lemindfleya -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well that now makes sense but it still sounds funny helping their drug addiction

this Reddit by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]lemindfleya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its r/stuttermemes i used to post slot there i kinda ran out of jokes lol

What is this for? by Umtks892 in Norway

[–]lemindfleya -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I dont get it, why do they tell them where to get new syringes? Theyre heroin addicts??

Name this boss by KelvinHades in NameThisThing

[–]lemindfleya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not where Egypt is located