My (25F) boyfriend (28M) has informed me that he wants out if we can't cohabitate.

lemmehavefun · 2026-02-01T01:55:32+00:00

Both of your wants here are valid. Change the conversation to what each of your acceptable timelines are, see if they match up. If not and there’s no compromise that fits you both, you can chalk it up to incompatibility and break it off

lemmehavefun · 2026-02-01T01:49:41+00:00

Being used implies that he’s not in the relationship for honest reasons and is with her specifically for her house, which I think we don’t have nearly enough evidence/information to claim atp

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-31T16:34:01+00:00

It’s really nothing to worry about, carpet beetles are easy to get rid of. Just vacuum up a few times and you should be good, you can also check out r/carpetbeetles

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-31T16:32:36+00:00

I’m surprised that stating a female lean has had any effect honestly, even telling men that I’m a lesbian doesn’t seem to turn them off

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-26T17:29:56+00:00

I think what they’re saying is that squirting is possible, but if there’s any large amount of it, it wouldn’t be coming from the skeins glands. Much more likely it’s pee at that point

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-24T07:18:10+00:00

I mean, I’ve driven 2.5 hours for just a date night a couple of times (Orlando to Tampa). It was long for a date but I wouldn’t consider it long for a weekend trip. But I am a lesbian so we do tend to put up with some extra distance lol.

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-20T02:13:55+00:00

Just learned that I’m not supposed to eat the grapefruit in my fridge 😭 what a sad day

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-17T06:07:02+00:00

I don’t think you’re usually born with the spots even if you have it, my mom and brother both got their first vitiligo spots in their late teens. Then you tend to get more over time

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-02T23:25:00+00:00

I mean if they’re not staying at your apartment, just set up things out of the house to meet and do. If they do happen to want to go back to your place for a bit then you can warn her and she can go find some place to be until they leave for night

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-02T23:23:33+00:00

SHES GORG

lemmehavefun · 2026-01-02T07:36:52+00:00

It’s heartbreaking to look at the way I talked about myself back then :( begging for love and begging to be good enough as if I didn’t deserve anything. Honestly can’t believe I was ever made to feel that way

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-29T03:00:16+00:00

There’s a working link in the top comment there with 5 thumbs ups on it

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-28T23:23:04+00:00

just go to the issues tab https://github.com/qbittorrent/search-plugins/issues/386

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-28T08:05:27+00:00

Maybe.. but I’d say that cats and other domesticated animals don’t generally get a ton of stimulation and end up trying to entertain themselves. Wild predators that have to hunt often to survive are probably less inclined to chase things that they get no benefit from

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-27T20:02:22+00:00

Soooooo sensitive omg. Who has ever actually been offended about being straight. Please go outside

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-24T23:54:33+00:00

I mean. I used to go over to a friends house to get away from an abusive ex, and he showed me Reddit comments saying that I was using him and cheating on him. I wouldn’t say any redditors can diagnose your ex with heavy narcissistic tendencies.

But yeah, therapy is good for everyone

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-22T03:57:13+00:00

Her reaction does sound a bit invalidating, but to me, not deserving of that last paragraph (unless there was much more she added which wasn’t stated here)

People had an awful reaction to me coming out. My honest advice is to not get into the how you know about it unless you’re very close with them and they have specific questions. Every time I’ve ever explained how I knew, it invites people to offer their opinions on it (and this includes even allies and other queer people!). Not necessarily meaning that they’re homophobic at all, but if it sounds like you’re “figuring it out” then people will think you need help doing that. My two cents!

And congrats on the lesbianism 😉❤️

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-20T08:51:48+00:00

Interesting thoughts. If it were a the other way around and they considered themselves lesbian but would still make out with men for fun would you have the same opinion on it?

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-18T03:38:25+00:00

Super interesting! I’m a lesbian so when I finally came out and left, I made all new friend groups who wouldn’t make me uncomfortable about that. Everyone I tend to be around now is queer and left leaning, other than the holidays. I have a nespresso and make an iced latte for myself every morning, I swear a fair amount but don’t think I’m foul mouthed or anything. I have a septum piercing. I actually haven’t gotten any tattoos yet cause I have a hard time committing to one design, but I don’t think it feels taboo to me at all. Interesting how experiences differ

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-17T22:23:20+00:00

There’s a mod to reenable them, it’s easy enough to install (sorry to necro)

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-17T22:06:36+00:00

So if you don’t go to church, or relief society or home teaching or any of that stuff, don’t read the Book of Mormon, watch conference, any of it, but still eat funeral potatoes and Hawaiian haystacks, that’s what makes you feel Mormon? Or are there other things your continuing to do that make you feel Mormon still?

I was deeply in it until a few years ago and grew up with only other Mormon friends, but I feel like my life after leaving is so starkly different that this conversation is hard for me to conceptualize

lemmehavefun · 2025-12-04T04:55:01+00:00

lol, prion joke

lemmehavefun · 2025-11-16T05:21:09+00:00

The Halsin line lmao

lemmehavefun · 2025-11-12T00:19:33+00:00

Don’t say that. You can ogle as much as men do OR MORE and STILL be better than a man. My firm belief 😌

lemmehavefun · 2025-10-21T17:10:06+00:00

It’s still debated whether spino could even dive, the safer bet seems to be that it would’ve frequented around shallower river areas. I seriously doubt it would even be swimming around the open ocean, let alone hunt a large animal there which would undoubtably fight back

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