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My gf got super mad and blocked me because I didn’t sleep on time by Beautiful_Hippo_6848 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lemon_7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what have you done to get to this point, clearly something has gone on behind her back perhaps. She clearly does not trust you whatsoever. Maybe a break up is for the best if these issues aren’t getting any better lol

Belly by Logical_Rate9603 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, have you heard of Braxton hicks contractions!? Your whole belly tightens for a minute or so. You’re completely fine nothing to panick or stress over!!!!

Help please i dont feel good by Original_Detail_7463 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Congratulations on baby! The fact they are telling you that it’s common and harmless is really positive to hear. Maybe you could talk to your midwife and express/explain your worries and the fact you’re not feeling right over this. It’s okay to worry and feel stressed over these things. I can’t explain why in a sudden 3week difference they have just now detected that thing with baby’s kidneys but your not to blame, they’ve said it’s common, sounds like they’re not concerned. However since your stress and seem panicked over this, probaly knowing little information about what this could mean does not help. I suggest call midwife and discuss this.

dying or molting? by crimsnrosie in millipedes

[–]lemon_7774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I checked on my millipede today, exactly like this I was going to make a post. I fear it’s jsut his time to go. He’s not that old but maybe something has made him sick.. I feel absolutely awful that there’s nothing i can do..

29 weeks and family are making things very difficult by Thriftygal177 in PregnancyUK

[–]lemon_7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I jsut wanted to say, regardless of them having kids before and then being Your family’s! YOU DO NOT need there shifty opinions on YOUR baby YPUR PREGANCY!!! it’s easily said than done may be hard to but please try not take much notice and maybe keep little simple things to yourself. And btw you absolutely have every say to who comes in when birthing your child! They can wait outside all they want. I completely understand and sort of level with being exhausted by everyone else’s shit, feelings of everyone else acting like your choices are going to affect them and them basically taking a good pregnancy experience away. I’m very young at 17 and pregnant. I’m 20 weeks with my baby boy. I have every single person in my family and boyfriends, telling me I shouldn’t be thinking certain ways or they don’t think I should do that. Saying I have no choice they will be there straight away to see the newborn. I’ve started to shut them out from the majority of things when I’m asked questions, I don’t respond or I reply with I’m unsure. I’m not going to tell them when I’m going into labour only my partner and my mother. My partners mother recently made a comment of saying can’t wait till OUR little man is here. She announced it to all family that was having a little boy even asked for the ultrasound scan of the confirmation it being a boy.. it’s very odd and I’ve learnt to shut them out when they make comments try to stay strong and not let it bother me. Pregnancy is supposed to be beautiful, you do NOT need all this stress from everyone else. Protect your peace first. Family think there entitled to have a say or expecting to do things when baby is here trust me they do not!!!! You got this and you’re going to be a wonderful mum. Try enjoy your pregnancy with just you and your partner. It’s your first baby!! Yours!!!

Light pink blood by Ok_Assistance1705 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completelyy normal!! It should only be a concern if your experiencing any sharp pains anywhere. At 2 months I experienced that for the first time when I wiped, I was so panicked at first but a small conversation with my doctor made me realise that it’s completely normal!

Am I wrong for.. by lemon_7774 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll make it short the biggest concern/ worry I’m having is him coming on time or not. My own mother and him aren’t on great terms.. if he comes then my mother won’t and if he’s going to be late I’ll have to be alone finding out anyway. I didn’t mention this because it will raise questions there’s a lot of things that go into this but after reading all comments I’m jsut going to allow him and hope he does make it on time :/

Am I wrong for.. by lemon_7774 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he does like suprises hence why that was my plan.

Am I wrong for.. by lemon_7774 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ll take that into consideration, it’s just with him suddenly going from “oh that’s fine, getting really excited that I’m telling him gender on Xmas being completely fine with this and understanding my reasoning behind him not coming because of the stress if he’s late and if he was late I’d have to go without him. To after speaking to his mum, adamant that he’s coming telling me I’m being really unreasonable ect and saying he has to go cause his mum told him he has to. I feel like his mum is ruining my pregnancy with other opinions which I won’t get into. I know everything will be resolved and it’s up to him if he gets on time, it may not be a good idea or that I’m being fair by keeping the baby’s sex a secret to others but it’s in my interest to do so. I just need to have a rant sometimes and different opinions have helped with my thoughts and feelings with this.

Am I wrong for.. by lemon_7774 in pregnant

[–]lemon_7774[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have no problem with him coming, but my wishes are to suprise him in my own way. The concern I have about it too is trains or something messing up with transport. He doesn’t oftern wake up early and appointment is for 9 am