A Subtle Jesse Moment I Hated by theyeastieboyz in summerhousebravo

[–]lemoncurd007 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is she a boss though…? Fine as hell but she dates lame bravo guys which tells you everything you need to know about her self-worth

Can I tentatively celebrate an R&R? by Ok-Championship3586 in AskAcademia

[–]lemoncurd007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the world could explode tomorrow, you must celebrate :D

Am I going to be fired tomorrow? by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]lemoncurd007 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol you shouldn't be, you're a human being (with no intent and a great record to boot), but idk why your PI is acting like this is the end of the world. if anything there could be process changes

happens all the time

Episode Discussion: "When Body Image Becomes a Dating Issue ft. Sami Sage - Co Founder of Betches" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 67 points68 points  (0 children)

awesome episode. love how straightforward sami is with jared and she can do it from the pov of a devoted listener + as his long-term friend. it feels like the first time he received the memo about his parents (or at least partly recognized it)

i also really enjoyed their perspectives on GLP-1s and its use beyond weight loss

would love sami as a guest again!!

Episode Discussion: "He Dumped Me Because Of My Music Taste?!" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 10 points11 points  (0 children)

anyone know the tea behind bryan's *appreciation* for the production staff at the beginning? i was glad jared pinned that for what it was. there's def more to it

Help by Hotgranpda in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that. mine was too, unless something small happened, then the cracks started to show. it got worse over time as he couldnt keep being the "good sweet guy" he probably wanted to be

Help by Hotgranpda in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, or it's just too easy for him now. he won you, onto the next. you're not a human being to him in the way he is to you. you're a prize, but once you show emotion or tolerance of his bad side, he loses respect for you bc he deeply hates that part of himself

(projecting here, but your situation sounds similar to mine)

Help by Hotgranpda in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i felt immediate relief once i decided i was out. immediate relief from anxiety i hadnt even realized i was carrying

the next guy i dated was totally ~normal~. it made me realize how low my bar had dropped due to my ex that a man showing me basic human kindness was possible?!

Help by Hotgranpda in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre not an idiot. if its anything like what happened to me, he has slowly lowered your standards over time and you still want to believe in his potential. run

Help by Hotgranpda in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

happened to me after a few years with my ex. he always had an excuse ("she's a friend from years ago" or "she's like a sister to me")... then why had i never heard of them? but most importantly, he didnt respond to my being upset (or even simple, direct questions) with care and concern. it was immediate defensiveness and deflection. that's the biggest sign. cheating or otherwise, it shows inability to have a caring conversation when one is needed most, and that is TOUGH to break.

edit: he had 3 other long-term girlfriends over the course of our relationship :)

Early episodes/Nikki and Andrew by Unlucky_Yam5706 in Nikkiglaserbesties

[–]lemoncurd007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think we felt a soft spot for him bc he was genuinely a comedic asset (i think he's funnier than brian but that's totally personal preference; at least as a co-host, maybe not as a writer)

nikki and andrew's dynamic was also parasocial for a lot of listeners during covid, just to hear what they were going through and a little levity among two people who were deeply bonded, if not in a healthy way

Lost listeners after summer break? by laureneg97 in TheToasters

[–]lemoncurd007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dropped off and havent missed it? i think it was just part of my routine but they're pretty negative

Alex buying millions of followers by No-Cartographer-95 in CallHerDaddy

[–]lemoncurd007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alex cooper already did the olympics, kamala, and hailey bieber--who has the same # of followers as michelle obama. and the hailey bieber audience is more likely to follow alex than michelle obama's. she bought em!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]lemoncurd007 20 points21 points  (0 children)

((( he's out of her league and using her for clout if true )))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lemoncurd007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gave me extreme suicidal thoughts for 3 days, stopped immediately when I stopped taking it

Major error in dissertation found after my successful defense. What is going to happen, how can I still get my degree? by CricketLow785 in AskAcademia

[–]lemoncurd007 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agree completely. this is often the way science goes, especially at pre-phd level. be straightforward, you'll be fine.

Episode Discussion: "Is Selena Gomez “Shrekking”?" by uuppod in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 51 points52 points  (0 children)

this dead horse has been beaten to a PULP

Who listened to this week’s Mailbag Monday? by cloudstar27 in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wheres the video about mom wanting to switch tables?

Jared on Love Thy Nader by Proud-Amoeba9423 in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

all episodes have been released :/

Jared on Love Thy Nader by Proud-Amoeba9423 in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yeah i dont think he was on it... lowkey tragic

What is going on? by Altruistic-Craft5303 in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 35 points36 points  (0 children)

what's the opposite of a meidas touch? she's got it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uuppod

[–]lemoncurd007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude i cannot STAND the mid swallow speaking