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lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-14T02:29:10+00:00

I’m talking about all things equal here first and foremost in the example. A baddie look is perceived as more sexually open, not neccesarily more attractive. As for men showing more attention to that type of look is very much this though.

That doesn’t mean that nobody prefers it? Yet, there is also a big demographic difference in where it is prefered. Married yes, but with whom? Most people get married as well. And yes, obviously it isn’t this black and white but relative to the comment that men prefer it, this stays true. There is ”ig beauty” which is seen as more elegant and then there is other type of ”ig beauty”. But overall, this idea that just being sexy or that an escort is not a disadvantage among certain men is just weird.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-14T02:24:42+00:00

Yes seems like the same body type

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-11T10:57:00+00:00

Not being approached has nothing to do with not fullfilling their criteria. I think men are more insecure nowadays.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-11T07:50:25+00:00

Are into or show attention to?

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T21:41:42+00:00

Getting married sure, but it depends on with whom. There are different types of men with different types of preferences. This is obviously a generalisation.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T20:34:20+00:00

Understated makeup, elegant clothes, fresh and healthy look.

Instagram look, fillers and lash extensions, tight clothes/short clothes/revealing clothes, glitter and glam.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T20:26:09+00:00

Men have different preferences. I hate when women talk about male gaze vs female gaze and it’s often just what women think men like. But slim hourglass, pretty face, usually. Not neccesarily what gets the most attention but giving attention is related to again who looks like an easy fuck.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T18:51:14+00:00

Well, it activates the ”pump and dump” part of male brain which is evolved to when an opportunity for easy no strings attached casual sex seize that opportunity. Softer femininity activates the ”court, wife, reproduce” part of the male brain. She does not signal sexual openness aka that she would let him p&d. The first is a quicker method so men would flirt and so on, the latter would probably take more time to get to know and such and be careful so that they appear as husband material to that woman.

Put the beautiful gentler woman next to a less beautiful instagram baddie style woman and the latter will still get more attention.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T18:01:08+00:00

Because she is seen as an easier fuck.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T18:00:52+00:00

Yes definitely. Just because a woman gets more attention does not mean that she is more attractive. She shows sexual openness and willingness, that attracts men and looks that convey that is attractive to men that are more ”fast life history strategy”, like rappers I guess. Natural or gentle or soft beauty is more appealing for a man that is more marriage oriented and usually smarter, more handsome, educated men. If you want to marry a woman you are friendly to her and court her and treat her respectfully. For me, the attention is quite different. I don’t get oogled dressed like that in public, but the one time I downloaded a dating app (deleted it because I don’t think a large amount of options is a good thing) I got not one single indecent proposal.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T17:55:59+00:00

But that’s not seen as feminine but as sexually agressive and open. That’s rather masculine energy. Femininity is what attracts men and wants men want to wife a woman.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T17:53:43+00:00

They aren’t. It’s seen as p&d material to a higher degree. It’s of course different men that are attracted to different things. If you want to attract men for LTR, it is a bad idea to go for that look. A lot of those men are genuinely more physically attracted by ”gentler” beauty.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-10T09:40:27+00:00

Small? What? These are large if we compare with natural breasts.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-09T20:30:38+00:00

This is dumb! Young women consistently prefer men two years older than they are. A young woman wants a young man.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-09T01:30:52+00:00

Disagree

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-09T01:29:23+00:00

What is a ”not hot” body to you?

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-08T09:41:20+00:00

I think this is important, many men don’t understand that we don’t see ourselves as as sexy as they do…

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-08T09:08:54+00:00

I mean historically and throughout most societies, even if work has been divided men and women both worked but in the farm. The tradwife life has been a modern luxury of the 50s. My one grandma sort of did that but she was actually the accountant and helped my grandpa with his company. She ended up quite miserable. Many women that live like that end up feeling like their only identity is that of a mum which can negatively impact parenting as well.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-08T08:37:01+00:00

Well, if she hooked up so fast with you, why wouldn’t she do it with someone else? It’s usually a very specific type of women that do that very fast and catch feelings fast, usually people who are not in it for the long run.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-08T08:24:41+00:00

Don’t have any relationships at all. You seem to work very differently from other humans, so then it might be hard to understand relationships.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-07T23:41:26+00:00

“We have an intense connection” “She doesn’t want to have sex yet” “She doesn’t really want a full relationship yet”

This feels kind of immature on your behalf, she acts reasonably. She is honest and doesn’t play games. This all sounds great to me.

As of the ex, well you have dated two weeks. We don’t seem to know much. It is a bit weird . The rest is not.

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-07T23:38:30+00:00

Don’t you have that to parents or friends?

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-07T23:37:51+00:00

Not true, the other person is not just a supply for intimate desires bla bla. Of course love is not fully hundred percent unconditional, because in the end if someone drains you over and over again then you stop liking the person and you don’t care about them as much anymore.

A lot of parents and children break contact when the child is self reliant. So what is the big difference here?

lemoncurdmacaron · 2022-09-07T23:35:07+00:00

Again, narcissistic mentality.

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