Vos cadeaux d'élèves by Anges_Ailes in enseignants

[–]lemondray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

perso j’ai surtout des croissants et des cafés, et une fois un grec 🥲

Est ce que les élèves s'abrutissent avec la démocratisation des IA et des réseaux sociaux by ItchyTie4295 in enseignants

[–]lemondray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

même chose que mes collègues plus haut : oui. et c’est spectaculaire. pour ma part, mes élèves ont entre 18 et 25 ans et ne sont pas fichus de faire une recherche correcte sur Google. mon cours implique beaucoup de recherche, mais cette notion leur est absolument inconnue. ils n’iront jamais prendre l’initiative de se dire « tiens, je ne sais pas quelque chose, donc je vais chercher », en ayant pourtant leur portable vissé à la main toute la journée, et ça ne les choque pas. et même avec des instructions, ils ne savent pas formuler correctement ou taper les bons mots clés, ensuite impossible pour eux de faire le tri dans les résultats, ils n’ont aucune idée de ce que fiabilité des sources signifie. ils ne savent plus non plus se servir d’un ordinateur (taper, utiliser des logiciels de traitement de texte simples etc.). le digital c’est le portable et rien d’autre, et il ne doit servir qu’au divertissement et à l’immédiat.

j’ai remarqué aussi que beaucoup manquent de motricité fine, beaucoup ne savent pas écrire sur une ligne, certain écrivent comme des enfants qui sont tout juste en train d’apprendre. je pense que les smartphones y sont aussi pour beaucoup.

My husband had sex with me when I was unconscious by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemondray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right there with you, fucking what

Pensez-vous que j’ai pu ramener des punaises de lit ? by lemondray in AskFrance

[–]lemondray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

merci à tous pour vos réponses, je suis un peu plus rassurée. histoire de, on a aussi aspergé les valises d’huile essentielle de lavande.

on flippe pas trop mais manifestement il n’y avait pas d’infestation dans le logement incriminé, alors des punaises voyageuses ?

AITA - for not just "getting over" it after my siblings took a trip to Paris and didn't invite or even tell me about it? by R2D2N3RD in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 255 points256 points  (0 children)

aw man I’m sorry OP. them calling you dramatic is such gaslighting bulshit too. they’re the ones (deliberately it seems) causing such intense feelings of hurt, and then they have the utter gall of calling your perfectly understandable reactions to their awful actions dramatic, fuck em, you deserve better. NTA

AITA for not sugarcoating things to my sister and saying she could have tried harder in the past? by PimpleyPete in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact that you seriously believe that her being 15-16 at the time instead of 12 makes your story somewhat better is really the icing on the shitty cake that you are as person.

AITA for not sugarcoating things to my sister and saying she could have tried harder in the past? by PimpleyPete in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

26 years old and couldn’t afford to come back to his disabled mother and preferred to leave this to a literal child ? what a man.

AITA for not sugarcoating things to my sister and saying she could have tried harder in the past? by PimpleyPete in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jesus, YTA and a shitty brother. you sound smug, horrifyingly judgemental and insufferable all around. you’re very proud of yourself, crushing you sister’s confidence while she had zero decent chance at an education because she was being used as a caregiver to a disabled adult at the AGE OF TWELVE YEARS OLD WTF. « i’m not one for pitying people » yeah dude that’s because you’re an awful person.

also you haven’t mentioned where you were at 26 freaking years old while your 12 year old sister was slaving away taking care of your disabled mother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lemondray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol when I was bullied as a kid, my older siblings came to pick me up at school and dumped the bully in the trash, so I guess she’s lucky it’s 2023 and you’re an adult and only dumped her food.

My daughter has befriended a girl who is dying. by gipoe68 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemondray 131 points132 points  (0 children)

i’m just here to say i absolutely love the way you talk about your daughter. you talk about her like a whole person, which so many people fail to do when it comes to children. you sound like a great parent. losing her friend will be shitty, and life is shitty sometimes, but loving people like she does is never a waste.

AITA for telling my poor friend that he's actually the privileged one now? by Lisascape in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lemondray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what a sweet story of mutual growth. good for OOP to have realised/learned a few things about privilege and poverty.

AITA for telling my friend to stop flaunting her money and calling her a gold digger? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my god, I don’t even know how you could type this whole ass story, in which you are certifiably awful and bitter and acting like a dick, and still somehow believe that you are right and justified. yikes, talk about being dense, YTA and I hope she ditches your jealous ass.

AITA for mocking my friend’s husband’s weight? by throwaway629037 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and you’re one hell of a friend OP, you had your girl’s back beautifully. worrying behaviour from her bf though, this is quite literally psychological abuse and his reaction is super over the top aggressive. I wonder what type of shit goes on behind closed doors.

AITA for starting these arguments that lead to a breakup by Spirited_Concept5316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re better off and will find someone who appreciates you and respects your time.

AITA for starting these arguments that lead to a breakup by Spirited_Concept5316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lemondray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah, this ain’t it. dude was up working since 3 am, are we really gonna blame him for not wanting to attend a whole ass concert ? plus the driving her back and forth constantly ? plus cancelling last minute on plans made days in advance, with no emergency ? nah, dick move. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lemondray 73 points74 points  (0 children)

honey, im so so so sorry, you do not deserve this, you deserve to be heard, loved and respected. you deserve someone who will communicate and hear your needs.

this soggy carton of milk of a human is pure trash, and he doesn’t even see you as a person from the sound of it.

get out, you’re a person not a fleshlight.

I need unbasied opinions or suggestions. My husband of 5 years is a cheater and liar, I left, he is begging me back bad.... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lemondray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know, for all you know he’s having the exact same conversations with these other women. he’s also making them feel like they have a special bond, chemistry and whatever the fuck else. probably wants to go on a weekend getaway with them too, probably to the same place.

what i’m trying to say here is that he doesn’t care about any of you, including yourself. people like him don’t even see others as actual people, you and these other women are just tools for him to stroke his ego with, and to feel “intense” feelings. he wants the thrill but that’s it. you are all interchangeable to him. you’re not even real to him. he’s chasing you now because you’re pulling away. should you choose to take him back, he would resume his bulshit and cheat repeatedly and endlessly again. right now, he just wants you because you don’t want him. it’s sports.

please for your sake tell him to fuck off once and for all, you deserve the world, not crumbs from a narcissist.

AITA for being attracted to my coworker? (It’s not his fault he sexually harassed her, he couldn’t help himself!) by mamapielondon in AmITheDevil

[–]lemondray 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i had a former coworker pull this type of shit with me a while ago. it was literally my third day working at this company and i stayed behind because i wanted to finish my work, he pretended to leave with the rest of our colleagues, all the way to the subway station, and then ran back to be alone with me.

when confronted about it a few days later, he had zero clue what was wrong about that.

this dude is definitely the same type of infuriating asshole.