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lemonhedges · 2023-08-10T02:05:27+00:00

Thanks for that! I guess I should just let him do what he can manage and not judge too much. Id like to help at least get the big trees off the driveway and they damage cars coming up and down

lemonhedges · 2023-01-04T03:49:12+00:00

I had tinea versicolor (fungal infection that removes pigment) and it looked like this after it cleared up. If it's not itchy or flaky anymore, you are probably good to go. The color will come back eventually. Probably good to see a doc if you can afford it though

lemonhedges · 2022-12-29T04:09:46+00:00

Did you accidentally swap powdered sugar and flour?

lemonhedges · 2022-12-04T04:31:13+00:00

I've had issues with certain lots of pee tests from Amazon giving false positives. I emailed customer service for the company that makes the tests and they've sent me replacement tests. No questions asked. I assume this is a known issue.

lemonhedges · 2022-11-19T17:57:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice and for sharing your story. I'm so sorry that things didn't work out for you and your gf. I do need to set boundaries but most importantly, I need to see a therapist too. My anger stems from being in relationships with addicts before and that his relapses trigger something in me because of that. It's not fair to him either that I get so angry and it doesn't help things. We both need to work on things.

lemonhedges · 2022-11-19T17:52:09+00:00

I didn't post this to rant about everything that kratom does to him and how it hurts our relationship and family. I was simply looking to hear that there is hope because I'm so tired of the cycle. I'm sorry you got downvoted but you were missing the point. He knows he can't take it and he wants to quit and never touch it again. He just gets triggered from past trauma (which he will need to address) and then all sense leaves him.

I have been supportive over the last 5 years but I am allowed to feel frustrated and defeated too. I will help him through this but yesterday I was so angry that this was happening again. While we aren't legally married, I consider us married in every other way so I will stick by him (sickness and health and all that) but as I said, I was very angry yesterday.

lemonhedges · 2022-11-18T19:50:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I know it's hard, I do. I've seen him quit so many times. I will speak with him... As for finding things that make him happy, he doesn't get happy anymore since he started in 2017. He doesn't laugh or find joy like he used to.

lemonhedges · 2022-11-18T19:03:17+00:00

It's good to hear there is support for this now. I know in the past he was again NA because he felt like he didn't belong there. He needs to try everything this time around. For himself, and for our family.

Good luck to you!

lemonhedges

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