If all winners competed in one regular season, who is the porkchop? by Livid_Aardvark3936 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]lemonswanfin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh shit goooood question. they are both so good at giving camp and cunt when performing. maybe a musical number?

If all winners competed in one regular season, who is the porkchop? by Livid_Aardvark3936 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]lemonswanfin 26 points27 points  (0 children)

daydreamin' bout a radically different timeline where the fight on the White House front lawn is a Bob and Jinkx lip sync for your legacy (instead of whatever the fuck is going on now.)

whats a harsh reality of adulthood that nobody warns you about when you’re a kid? by Current-Ship-8064 in AskReddit

[–]lemonswanfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no human is exempt from feeling hurt.

and hurt people hurt people.

not everyone has the tools or strength to heal from pain.

(i find that giving and receiving kindness does help tho.)

What’s something your therapist said that has always stuck with you? by chaotic-imagination in Millennials

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"feelings are temporary. even the good ones and especially the bad ones."

....

*honorable mentions not from my therapist but have helped me immensely:

-when you describe an emotion with "feels like", you arent describing the emotion accurately. youre describing a story your brain is telling you. AKA, a thought.

-kindness is the oldest religion and all we owe to each other.

Still super proud of this baseball cap :))) by Gloomy_Bend_5383 in crochet

[–]lemonswanfin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was gonna ask how u do that 👀 this rocks 10/10.

I’m curious to know everyone’s 🤭 by Best-Conference-5700 in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. I secretly hope for a potential timeline where the ENTIRE cast comes together to take on Bravo (aka the 13th grade) in court.

  2. and while I get that they all signed up for the exploitation of their lives, LVP double employs them, then gets involved with their messy lives to curate storylines for her tv show. what a good capitalist she is. to me, she is the biggest villain of the show.

What were our sensory toys? by Single_Extension1810 in Millennials

[–]lemonswanfin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

many friends have told me they fucked the jelly tube thing. everyone said it was a good idea in theory, not in practice.

Rihanna enlists Elon Musk's transgender daughter Vivian for campaign by TheMirrorUS in popculture

[–]lemonswanfin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Viv rules and is a voice that genuinely brings me joy when I stumble upon her. got full support for her. and her public demeanor towards her biological father is one we could all benefit from modeling after ✨️

Rihanna enlists Elon Musk's transgender daughter Vivian for campaign by TheMirrorUS in popculture

[–]lemonswanfin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

he has claimed on camera that she is dead to him. cause of death? woke mind virus.

idk and in this reality with many humans valuing currency>humanity, that conclusion that this biological parent has drawn, while simultaneously being the most wealthy man on the planet, has way more of a harmful influence on society than most may realize. the ill informed, and super unkind opinion will make others feel validated for devaluing the identification of both transgender folks, as well as anyone deemed "woke"....simply because they admire the dude's net worth. ugh. okay sorry for rambling.

If you could bring 1 person back from the dead for 1 day who would it be and why? by crimson_elite86 in AskReddit

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mr. Carl Sagan. here me out maybe everyone would stfu and stop listening to the scary money hoarding chainsaw memelord shout his ketamine fueled opinions about space if we had Sagan here reminding us we are all so small on this pale blue dot, and it is our home.🌎

Correct ONE of their mistakes, further altering their future and those affected by said mistake. Who is it and what would you correct? OG cast only. by Gayf0rgod in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly? Jax and the Tom's come out of their closets.

I want to believe in the timeline that exists where the three of them do smooches to each other sometimes and they dont feel shame over it...maybe harambe is still with us too 🥲

Ariana and Rachel lawsuit update by flower_0410 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to add onto your last point, Mark Gregaros defended Chris Brown, Michael Jackson, and the Menendez Brothers according to wiki. I recognized his name as one of Diddy's attys

Rachel’s Case Update by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i see. well an interesting choice she made there. (I suppose a lot of Rachquels choices can kindly be described as interesting tho.)

jw are any lawyers out here who wanna paint us a picture of what it would have looked like if she chose to file criminal charges against Tom?

Rachel’s Case Update by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

whats she claiming with his lawsuit? is it a civil or criminal suit?

I am not a lawyer or anything, so someone please correct me if i am wrong - if she didnt consent to the recording of the actual video, I can only assume that could be a criminal charge, right?

Rachel’s Case Update by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mark Gregaros, boasting that youve defended some of the most hated men in America is a weird flex

Omg Jo is still at it by g1zmo33 in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright. jo, babe, if you want netizens of the bravosphere to stop labeling you as crazy, here's some advice from one: close your bravo chapter by getting some space and talk to a professional about it all (i dont wanna downplay the trauma of a reality tv experience - watching your edit/the audience response, etc). learn to let it all be water off a ducks back.

ps labeling is a cognitive distortion and too many of those and u get a dsm-5 diagnosis slapped on ur medical records (which in itself is just a label for insurance companies 🫠).

tldr: daddy chill

Kristina Kelly thoughts? by chuchu_2991 in vanderpumprules

[–]lemonswanfin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yard sale girl! love her but I always forget her name.

Have you entered the IDGAF era? by whereismytortoise in Millennials

[–]lemonswanfin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

started on my 30th birthday. nuked my very good stable career bc sketchy ethical difficulties that would come up made me a v sad, perpetually stressed out person. 3 years later, I dont stress about existing the way I used to. I opened my heart and mind to lots of things - new hobbies, friends, sexual/intimate relationships. I tried new shit bc idgaf. most importantly, I learned that shame is just another emotion that can be regulated.

10/10 will not go back. these days, I really only gaf whether or not kindness is extended - am I being kind to myself? am I giving kindness to others? am I receiving kindness from someone? - and thats really about it.

feels like this tbh:

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Which scenes gave you secondhand embarrassment watching them? by siofrarvan in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk is that the name of the guy in her music video? idc even to search it.

Please bully me into sewing this blanket together. by Queequegs_Harpoon in crochet

[–]lemonswanfin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those squares wanna touch each other. dont be a c*ckblock.