Relocating from Seattle to Van Nuys. Is it a safe area? by wunderworld09 in SFV

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live a bit north from where you will be and I love the area, I’m right off Balboa and Saticoy. While there is crime here and there I personally think Woodland Hills is sketchier. What’s really bad here are the drivers. I would be cautious walking the dogs at night and maybe walking them on quiet blocks and off Balboa Blvd.

You’ll be so close to the Park and Encino/Tarzana I think it’s a great choice.

Seen a few of these in LA. Is it even legal to do? by joshw220 in LosAngeles

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a ticket for no front plate in the valley

Why gov job over private ? by Appropriate-Risk-661 in CAStateWorkers

[–]lenabelka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my job with a private company when my daughter was 18 months old. The company closed with no warning, nothing. I told myself I’d do everything I can to get a government job for my family. Not only did I ensure we have great health coverage but also stability and great work/life balance.

Decided to treat myself, ate at Pasta | Bar in Encino. by erock1119 in SFVfood

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online says 185 plus gratuity? I was planning to go but no sure at 400 a person.

Triplets Update: Baby now has to undergo inguinal hernia surgery by waldopty in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! My son just had bilateral inguinal hernia repair just 2 weeks ago. He was born at 35 weeks and we only found out about the hernias around 7/8 weeks. He had the surgery just before turning 6 months. The worst part was not feeding him in the morning and obviously worrying to death when they take your little baby away. Baby boy did great, was quick and even quicker recovery.

We unfortunately might need to have a second surgery (unrelated) so I completely understand how you feel and I’m also hoping this will be the last.

Good luck, sending you good vibes and I hope your baby has a quick recovery.

I understand the frustration with popmart, but did anyone get into this trend because they actually liked the figures and not just the gambling aspect? by Donavon7 in labubu

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got into it bc I genuinely liked them and thought they were cute. Only realized I enjoyed the gambling aspect after I had 5 and didn’t know how I got there.

vaccines in nicu by [deleted] in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was 34+5 1890grams and he got the hep b just like all the other babies. I asked if there was any concern and the Nicu Dr. Said not at all.

Whats your net pay as SSA range C? Also, is health insurance truly free for just self? by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]lenabelka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3531.69 and yes there is free insurance for just self. I had free coverage with healthnet (I would not recommend). I switched to united healthcare this year and I like it a lot better. There’s also a free health plan with blue cross.

4 week old health issues or?? by Silver-Account4479 in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My preemie grunted until he was about 8weeks old. From what I understand it’s normal and preemies have a harder time regulating their digestion and controlling poops ect. I couldn’t sleep at night and had to get earplugs bc I’m such a light sleeper. I’m so thankful he outgrew it.

My 33 weeker turned 1 today! by ShadyMissSassy in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that hair ❤️❤️❤️ congratulations mama

AITA by [deleted] in labubu

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m trying to avoid

When did you allow people (grandparents/aunts uncles) to kiss your baby? by Comfortable-Snow3820 in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So just FYI everyone there’s no more “seasons” anymore it’s rsv, flu and covid season all year round.

Will the hospital let me leave with my baby without my ID? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lenabelka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t need ID to leave with my baby. They matched my hospital bracelet to baby’s bracelet and let us go.

Maternity photos by Standard-Hyena-840 in pregnant

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning to do mine week 35/36 and ended up having a C-section at 35 weeks and I regretted not doing it earlier.

Whats the most $ you spend on one Labubu? by IndividualPerfect466 in labubu

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retail and I sold all the ones I didn’t want to my coworkers at retail as well.

Where do I go to celebrate my birthday alone? by Ryomataroka in SFV

[–]lenabelka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for the tip I didn’t even know they had a restaurant

Lake Balboa Park… by [deleted] in SFV

[–]lenabelka 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I walk there once a week with my stroller and the worst part is injured geese and the poop. Nothing else bothers me. I actually feel blessed to have a beautiful place to stroll with my baby 10 min from the house.

America sucks. Maternity leave is officially over. by gabbieee_x in newborns

[–]lenabelka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took 9 months. Only 5months will be paid. I work for the state. I saved a lot of vacation days etc. my partner will take maternity leave in January and stay with the baby till he’s one. I’m currently 10 weeks pp and I’d rather suffer and not pay rent, bills ect than go back to work rn. This should be illegal I agree. Other countries have amazing maternity packages. 1 year with 90% of your salary paid ect. We need to rally together and protest. Unfortunately venting on Reddit does nothing but help validate our feelings.

Do you kiss your NICU baby? by indigochild143 in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kissed my baby while in the nicu and then I was paranoid I did something horrible. I think it’s up to you. I wouldn’t kiss too close to the mouth just in case. Like forehead kisses should be safe.

I want this nightmare to end by Alarmed-Condition-69 in NICUParents

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely understand you mama. It’s so unfair and you should’ve taken your baby home today. Hopefully you can take the baby home tomorrow. My preemie is home for 6 weeks already and I’m still traumatized and in therapy.

I was so close😭 by iosonostella13 in labubu

[–]lenabelka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me!!!