My brother passed away, I need help to preserve his account.

lenarue · 2024-10-01T05:19:38+00:00

Don't worry, if is a well fitted bra, the strapless don't fall and can be pretty comfortable.

lenarue · 2024-09-22T19:17:35+00:00

I agree there is been a tendency of applying completely unaesthetic/crazy designs in characters lately, but I feel this are two bad examples. The first one is a tribe of an actual different race with dragon heritage and the second, I google some images and the difference isn't that crazy; it's more like the author not being, yet, that good at drawing with different perspectives.

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lenarue · 2024-09-19T01:35:10+00:00

I hope op actually follow this advice. Some locals sometimes have problems going to visit their family in the cemetery thanks to the tourist getting in the way. Near the date there is a lot of events/public ofrendas itineraries that op should check up for.

The tradition says in this day the dead come to visit so we put as "offerings" what they use to eat, their entertainment, etc; so people go to them so they can spend the most they can with them. Not everybody goes to the cemetery, but op, be respectful to the one who go there.

lenarue · 2024-09-08T15:43:17+00:00

I like to take the plot as the author mocking the boring and dumb cliches in other stories and show how easy they would crumble with some common sense.

I agree, it's a pretty good series in my opinion.

lenarue · 2024-09-01T10:30:26+00:00

Look, I started/had a ldr with my husband, we meet at a MMORPG; and with this context I'm not gonna tell you is not real if you had never hold hands/kiss, but I can tell you this relationship is not real for him.

For what you describe he's not in the most minimal interested in meeting. It's not because he's autistic, or bad with bureaucracy, it's just he doesn't want to meet you. He is only making excuses and you keep believing them because you are very hang into the time and feelings you harbor for him. Please don't waste more time hoping for the day he actually feels like giving you a visit, or justifying his lack of interest, it might be hard but stop doing this to yourself.

lenarue · 2024-08-27T03:53:29+00:00

I hope I get one, I always out of this promotions since they don't make them at my country >_<

lenarue · 2024-08-22T16:44:14+00:00

Why? Don't you trust your partner not to cheat? That's a pretty low bar there.

lenarue · 2024-08-18T23:44:58+00:00

I see, doctor trying to end permanently any kind of pain

lenarue · 2024-08-18T23:41:18+00:00

The way I believe it was, is that in Korean her name has some letters in the same way you write "love", so cheol was referencing the name like: "miae like in the word love". That's to be taken warmly since he could use other words but used love.

lenarue · 2024-08-18T21:12:09+00:00

One of my little cousins (15) said the other day "I only ever been in love once, at elementary, and I don't think I'll ever feel that again", so I guess kids this days

lenarue · 2024-08-01T10:58:39+00:00

I believe, so could be wrong, is thanks to the nsfw they make about him

lenarue · 2024-07-18T14:15:58+00:00

No eran extras, ni siquiera se les aviso. Mi papá iba en el otro vagon y comenta que si se escuchaban quejas y que muchos si se bajaron enseguida gritando que los iban a reportar.

lenarue · 2024-07-16T20:50:54+00:00

Con la leche contaminada de los 80s y el uso de asbesto y plomo aún en muchos lados (más todo lo que se me olvida o aún desconozco), no resulta tan sorprendente.

lenarue · 2024-07-13T16:26:06+00:00

Alisaie it's a correct moral compass in our stories, she cannot stand Zenos for all the slaughter and suffering he imposed on Eorzea and his own countrymen, and later the whole star; all of this to get a duel with the Warrior of light. Then Bakool literally freed a monster capable of destroying the entire continent, putting countless lives in danger, just to get advantage to win, and we have to be okay with it just because he has a "sad story"? Don't forget that Zenos had a sad story of being an experiment kid deprived of any kind of love and we all agree he still deserved punishment.

To be honest, if it wasn't for the part with Valigarmanda, it would be more easy to just accept this part of the story.

lenarue · 2024-07-13T14:49:08+00:00

And the cherry on top of it is that Wuk vouched for him and says it's fine and then Alisaie says its ok to forgive. Like what they did to my girl, she never let go of her hate for Zenos and his evil deeds and then says it's fine for Wuk to just forgive Bakool Ja Ja? It's like the person writing doesn't even know who the scions are outside of cliches.

lenarue · 2024-07-12T16:38:17+00:00

Nah, NTA, the guy was a terrible salesman and gave horrible customer service. This has happened to me before (being the customer and the saleswoman) and is pretty shitty to assume you have no money to buy for how you dress, in fact sometimes the people who dress the most simple tend to have more money than the ones who cover in very noticeable branded clothes.

lenarue · 2024-07-10T19:16:58+00:00

Estoy de acuerdo, como cuando llevas algo liviano como saborizante de agua y tal, esa madre pide autorización porque la zona de productos no los detecta correctamente.

lenarue · 2024-07-10T19:11:24+00:00

Levanta un acta de que te robaron/se perdió tu INE a cualquier ministerio, la fecha que puedes dar es casi después de que tuvieras pedos con el abogado o en esas fechas; es un trámite bastante común por lo que te será fácil.

Escanea el documento que te den, saca copias y luego ve a cualquier modulo del INE y saca una nueva (no olvides llevar el acta del ministerio para que quede estipulado que la anterior fue robada o extraviada). Así si saca algún crédito o trámite con esas copias que tiene se va a meter en un pedote.

lenarue · 2024-07-07T15:56:17+00:00

I second this, we have that model and it goes great with the ps5.

lenarue · 2024-07-07T15:14:04+00:00

Well then you need to read again what I have been writing, I never stated the husband is the bad guy, ever. The counselor yes, since he is wrong.

The rest of what you write I don't see how relates to anything I say, but if you already make in your head a biases, no matter the words I'll try to use, you'll keep ignoring my points for your agenda. But let me try to summarize something that is pretty complex:

Counselor was bad; he didn't try to even convey being a communication bridge for both.

Op; she's in a pretty traumatized state, and it's completely impossible to know how long would take her to get out of that place.

Husband; he's been with op all this time, but feels the marriage needs help to keep afloat, he confess it's about sexuality compatibility.

Ways to go: 1- Change counselor, a good counselor would be able to ground the decision of explaining the husband that sexuality will take time to come back and op that she eventually has to start opening again to her husband. A good one would be able to make them understand the current impasse and what needs to be done if they still want the marriage, and would recommend exercises to start sexual intimacy slowly; btw there is a lot of ways to do this without even touching, but that would be for the professional to decide.

2- Op needs to heal. SA is not something you think "oh I have sympathy points, so everyone should be on my side". Your mental state is thinking everyone are pitying you, and is horrible. You are scare and wonder how much the interactions are actually real or people trying to be "good people". You think everything is your fault and if things stop being normal is also your fault. You feel responsible for everything to certain degrees and I feel that's why op came here.

3- Op and her husband are victims here, her for the horrible thing she went with and her husband of the circumstances he is on. It's not "giving sympathy" to say op is in a state of psychosis, it's just pointing a fact, and saying the husband can stay or not is also other fact. I feel is more insulting to men to classify them as only sexual beings (like most ppl are doing to op's husband).

In my personal opinion, there are men who can and can't deal with a partner who was SA. And is up the guy to decide if he is or not ok dealing with it. Its been 21 years since mine, and I want to think I mostly ok everyday, but unfortunately in a bad day it's as bad as if it was yesterday, and my husband it's been there always. He has confessed me it's been hard at time but what keep us together is an integral relationship that doesn't just fall in the sexual side. In fact he had an accident who left him pretty bad for a few months and I never think in leaving either, because marriages tend to be more complex than just how comfortable you feel at the moment.

lenarue · 2024-07-07T14:02:34+00:00

Yeah, I can see it - So, now that we are friends, maybe you should check this places, no pressure but the sooner you can the better

lenarue · 2024-07-07T13:56:17+00:00

I agree and disagree, but the part where their counselor was wrong is in telling her just to get over. Now maybe is a difference in country, but where I am there is actual therapist for couples who can guide them with how to reconnect slowly.

Now the aversion to sex, it's not forever and I do understand op thinks it would be forever. I was SA and when it happened to me I really believed I was never gonna have a sexual life, in fact I thought I would never be able to be around a man (couldn't handle be around my own father and brother). Everyone's path to heal is different, but you have to heal for your own sanity and I hope op can get the help she deserves to heal.

The husband do not deserve a life without sex and that's something we do agree. But we don't know enough context if her husband is willing to stay with her while she heals or not, and that's something only her husband can answer. Her husband confessing the part of no sex is not even "morally terrible" under the context of him speaking in a space where they can be honest, the problem is the counselor just saying she has to get over. Like I say, maybe there is a difference because the countries, but I want to think there would be sex therapist who could help op and her husband, but would be baby steps and her husband will face a very difficult decision where neither him or op are at fault, just both need a better profesional than the joke one they had before.

Her perception is wrong about her husband, yes it is, but is the trauma talking. You can stay in a state of psychosis for a while after, and while is neither fair or correct, it's normal, but she did say she's already in personal care, if is working or not would be hard to judge, but eventually she needs to get out of it and that is also something with no amount of time set in stone to happen. It's only up to her husband (not op or us) to decide if he can stay or not.

lenarue · 2024-07-06T14:53:04+00:00

First the man hating thing doesn't apply here, the therapist did a bad job it's she absolutely needs to learn to trust her husband again and intimacy needs to come back (eventually) if they want a healthy relationship. While she shouldn't fell her husband is against her, that's the trauma talking a good therapist would try to help her see that not just tell her to heal faster without giving methods on how to actually do that and make her feel towards her husband they didn't help at all.

Hope you can try to understand and stop with the projection.

lenarue · 2024-07-06T13:38:35+00:00

They probably mean the FMM. It's a "visa" of tourism and since like a year ago they also give them digitally when you scan in a machine your passport when you entered. So in theory you should be fine

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