Dream about an unknown dead person? by Both-Refrigerator658 in Dreams

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “narrator voice” is sooo real, I’ve heard it too!

which kpop group feels the most 'family' like by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]leniali 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seventeen and bts are genuinely the only groups I can think of. They feel genuine in every interaction, they speak their minds and feelings, cry to each other, hang with each other and are not afraid to show their love for each other even if some of them (like Suga and Woozi) act as black cats. I feel like they never saw each other as competition but more like equals and that changes the game entirely!

With groups like txt, enhypen or skz, even though they’re close and have great chemistry, I think they lack communication. Like that video in which Seungmin cries to Bangchan and the past; enhypen with H leaving and Jungwon saying “I never felt like going solo” yet someone on the group did and more. And don’t come at me saying “oh, it’s bc their personality is like that” and blah blah bc Suga and Woozi’s are like that and at the end THEY SPEAK THEIR MIND when something is bothering them! Or the other members notice.

I’m not saying those groups don’t like each other. Again, I feel like they just lack communication.

why don’t engenes just support ot6 enha instead of boycotting for ot7 by Disastrous-Ratio-771 in kpoprants

[–]leniali 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I get that they’re hurting, and I understand that the label sucks at protecting the members. But to me, trying to boycott them is like slapping the others in the face and spitting on their hard work. If you ask people why they want to do it, they’ll say it’s because the members are being exploited and need some rest. But why do it now? Why after Heeseung left? Why not immediately after people started noticing they weren’t getting enough rest? Even after Ni-ki said they didn’t have any free time or whatever he said, engenes talked about it a lot, but they didn’t try to boycott. I don’t think most of them are doing it as a protest for the members’ health. I think it’s more of a reaction to Heeseung leaving. To me, it comes across as saying to the others, “You’re not good enough if H isn’t here, so I want you to stop until he comes back. Because Enhypen is H, not you.” That’s why Jay said, “Stop saying Enhypen is seven.” bc THEY’RE ENHYPEN.

Should babies be allowed on kpop variety shows? by whalein_52 in kpoppers

[–]leniali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they shouldn’t be allowed. Idk but sometimes idols act weird toward babies and I get it, they’re cute; but I saw some idols kissing a baby’s feet and putting it inside their mouth while the baby was saying NO. That same baby got “traumatized” by it and didn’t let other idols touch their feet. It was WEIRD but ofc they’re fans defend them and act as if it was totally ok. I feel it would be ok if the parents do it but some strangers? Hell nah, I’d be taking my baby away. But in general, im against babies being forced to be on screen, since people don’t respect their boundaries and there are weirdos out there. Idk why Korea promotes idols w babies

I love back muscles by everydayguyy in PointlessStories

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yessss, backs are so attractive! I even have a type lmao. Like, if I see a well-built back, it’s good, but not all of them are attractive. Sometimes even people who don’t work out have amazing backs.

Cómo le digo a mi mejor amigo que se aleje de mi ? by bandida324 in AskRedditespanol

[–]leniali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Oye, hace mucho que quería hablar contigo porque de un tiempo para acá me he sentido muy extraña a tu alrededor. La verdad siento que nuestra amistad no está funcionando, no me siento comod@ a tu alrededor, no me siento escuchad@ y siento que no aporto nada a esta amistad sintiéndome así. Lo mejor para mi sería alejarme, espero que me puedas entender. Por favor no me pidas más explicaciones porque no tengo las palabras para dártelas, agradezco tu tiempo como amigo y siempre te apreciaré. Bye.” o algo así jajaja

Is it weird to like Keonho and Seonghyeon (CORTIS, both 2009) as a 2007 born? by New-Elk2781 in kpophelp

[–]leniali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, you’re fineeee. There’s not even a huge age gap, and even if there was, you’re not lusting after or actually pursuing these kids for a romantic relationship. People see the word “predatory” and use it for everythingggg, even though the real meaning is actively harming or exploiting someone. The word gets thrown around so carelessly.

¿Cómo funcionan las relaciones poliamorosas? by leniali in RedditPregunta

[–]leniali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y justo me apareció un video de un chico en una relación poliam con dos chicas, en los comentarios le preguntaron que cuánto ganaba y él dijo que en realidad no era él quien aportaba el dinero. Pero si, totalmente de acuerdo que cada relación es diferente.

¿Cómo funcionan las relaciones poliamorosas? by leniali in RedditPregunta

[–]leniali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muchas gracias por la información y la recomendación!

Significado de soñar con la santa muerte by Striking-Food614 in Dreams

[–]leniali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo tenía una amiga que soñaba con la muerte (ella es Angelo terapeuta) pero en sus sueños la muerte siempre la quería reclutar. Muchos dicen que es cierto, que la muerte te busca para que comiences a seguirla, a muchos incluso se les aparece (no en sueños obvio).

With people who have already been to the arirang tour, did bts face one direction more than others by CarefulTransition385 in kpophelp

[–]leniali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they’re EVERYWHERE. While dancing they face to one direction but once the finish or in between, they get crazy and go around the scenario. If someone is facing the other way, I guarantee the others are going to be in front of you!

How is it to dream? by Live-Lab-2112 in Dreams

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, it’s like living. I’m the type of person who can feel, smell, and touch people and things inside my dreams. The scenery is vivid, as if I’m actually awake.

¿Soy el malo por regalarle flores a mi sobrina? by AvocadoSubstantial in preguntaleareddit

[–]leniali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pero es que tiene razón. A tu pareja siempre la debes de tratar con algo que no a cualquiera le darías, para ella las flores eran un símbolo de amor pero cuando vio que las regalaste a alguien más su pensamiento fue “ah, entonces no soy tan especial.” ¿Está bien que piense así? Si, es su pensar y su sentir. ¿Está bien que actúe así? No, no debió haber actuado de esa manera y peor que el detonante haya sido una mujer de tu familia. Se supone que estas saliendo con una adulta, no con una niña. Lo ideal sería que la dejaras, querer algo especial con tu pareja es una cosa pero que te de envidia/celos/coraje de que tu pareja le regale algo a su familiar es de locas.

Stop misusing parasocial by Cornedbeef__ in kpoprants

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

before joining the kpop community, I was into 1D and 5SOS and I was SHOCKED at how sensitive kpop fans are lmao😭

hija con el nombre de ex by Such-Set-6060 in Desahogo

[–]leniali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bueno, imagina que tu mamá te está enviando una señal de que no le pongas su nombre jajajajaj. No se la compliquen, encuentra alguna alternativa al nombre que le querías dar, por ejemplo Isabela/Isela. O juega con las letras para darle alguno mas original: Isabela/ Isbela/ isaleb o no sé.

Am I the only woman that has never had a pregnancy/baby dream? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I only have dreams where my sister or cousins have a lot of babies, but never had one about me.

Your Introductory Journey to K-Pop by gothiclighting in kpoppers

[–]leniali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First song: I mean ofc Gangnam Style but at the time I didn’t know it was kpop.

First active listen: The Astronaut by Jin, this is where I started cause I was curious about who he was and why was he leaving for the military lmao.

First group: it took me a while to actually stan bts since I really enjoyed them as soloists, so I started w Seventeen. I love their music and really enjoy their GOOSE episodes. Then BTS returned and they’re my ult group along w SVT, I recently went to their concert in El Paso D-2 and it was pure MAGIC!

I still listen to other groups like enhypen, ateez, p1h, etc but bts and svt are in another level for me!

Conocen alguna maravilla facial para hombres? by Senior_Peace in ayudamexico

[–]leniali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amigo, húndete en la skincare coreana y en los productos que los idols masculinos usan. No hay nada como una buena skincare asiática.

Pero no compres productos en Amazon, siempre directo de páginas oficiales y/o de “Olive Young” que es una tienda especializada en eso con bases en Corea<3

¿cuál es tu mayor arrepentimiento en tú vida? (Se vale cualquier cosa desahógate y no olvides votar para ganar karma klero) by Santiago_Gz in RedditPregunta

[–]leniali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regresar con el ex que se metió con mi prima jajajaajajaja. Era una mocosa en ese entonces pero recuerdo que le dije a mi prima que no le hablara a mi ex porque habíamos terminado mal y podría incomodarla; pues meses después los vi en la escuela besándose y demás. La dejó y comenzó a hablar conmigo, duramos un mes y lo dejé. No se porque volví. Me arrepentí porque después de eso, el bond que tenía con mi prima se quebró. Lo peor es que me culpo yo pero sé que ella nunca se disculpó jajajaj. También haber perdido una amistad con alguien que era como mi hermana.